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is it a good relshinship
ok i am going out with this guy, and it is going good expect one thing!!!!
he NEVER talks to me!!!!!!!! like we talk on the phone but it is like all silent and everything!!! and then when we are on yahoo we talk all the time and stuff!!! and then at school we dont talk but we give each other eye contact and when i am in the hall way he will come up to me and like pump me and will say o i didnt see u there and stuff ina funny way!!!!
but i just dont know if it is going on the wait track!!!!!!!
i like him a lot too!!!!!!!!
so can anyone help????
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um...with the "so, can anyone help???" sounds like you didn't know that you had to make an account get advice form everyone...but since you posted this on my column, I'll try to answer the best I can since romance is not my expertise and I never even had a boyfriend lol.
Well, all relationships are different.
Some people are really close in public but are not even close when they're at home or anything. Some are close together but are like nothing in public. Some couples even barely look like couples, calling each other names and punching each other, but they love each other =]
So yeah, your relationship is really cute actually ^-^
Maybe you don't really talk to each other a lot on the phone is because maybe you both can't talk while thinking of what else to talk at the same time. On the computer, you can take your time thinking what you want to say, and then type it down.
Maybe you guys aren't the public couple type, but it looks like he's trying to come over it.
The relationship looks pretty good to me! But if you want to talk to him a lot, think of things to discuss.
Hoped I helped!
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I see that it's a lot easier for him to say what's on his mind on yahoo but when it comes down to seeing each other in person it's just hard for him you know since he likes you he get's nervous,the words he wants to express don't come out so have more patience at least try to,until he feels more comfortable around you he will then be talking a lot with you,his nervousness won't get in the way no more so stop worrying too much.
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yeah it definately sounds like hes just shy. and doesnt really know what to talk about with you. So i would say when your on the phone you have to take the initiative and get him talking. you have to pick the topic because he sounds like he wont, so maybe talk about school or ask him what he did that weekend or about his family or anything ask him about him. or you could talk about yourself tell him a funny story. that should get him talking and it will be more comfortable
hope that helped
-mari :D
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How long have you been going out? It doesnt seem like you to comfortable with eachother. He might just be shy. Maybe you hould just stay friends a while til you know eachother better and can actualy talk in person. Or g out on a date with just you to so you can talk and be more comfortable. Hope it goes well.
Jess<3
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