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18/f. I was hanging out with my friends and gave one of my friends (girl) a back massage. My other friend (guy) was also there and asked for a back massage so I gave him one and he loved it. Whenever I hang out with him, he asks for a back massage. Now he keeps asking for thigh massages but I'm not sure if I should. Is it appropriate to give a guy friend a thigh massage?
Your question falls under the old saying like beauty; it is in the eye of the beholder. It is really up to you if you feel comfortable enough with him as just a friend and not a lover. As a lover a thigh massage would be a great part of foreplay but as a friend I think he is asking a lot of your friendship for once you start massaging he cans ask you to higher and higher and he gets a sexual thrill.
Once again though anything that happens between two consenting adults in private, or in this case in the company of other friend(s) is never wrong or weird. The operative world is consenting. If you don't feel comfortable then say no. If he becomes insistent then he is sexually harassing you and I suggest either you leave or ask him to leave.
A back or a neck massage is a nice way for two people who are friends to go to the next step in a relationship as a massage, even fully clothed, is an intimate gesture. So I question since you have not stated. Does he reciprocate in any manner or is this a one way street with him. If it is just one way on his part then I would suggest you stop offering any type of a massage for he is interested only in himself.
Note: If you enjoy giving massages I would suggest you attend a school of massage and get a license. Even if you are in college or planning to go to college. A license to massage is a much better way to earn extra cash then waitressing or other part-time work that is available to college students.
(Rating: 5) thanks for the great advice