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I'm a female who happens to be 32... I've been single for about 7 years now... Men who's my age never approach me, unless it's some weirdo... Most times I get approach is my men in their 50s and 60s... I've been out of a relationship so long... I come from a big family with seven sisters, seven happily married sisters... And I'm the only single one... So yesterday I thought what the heck... I was off the weather was superb... I dressed up nicely applied makeup, and I went out to a bar I use to work at... And then walks in my crush... I mean I had a crush on this guy for like a year now... So I walked over to him, started up and convo... We talked a bit, and I offered him my number... He put it in his phone... 2 days past... Well today makes it 2 days and nothing... No call, no text... Nothing... How do I feel hurt embarrassed, half of my old co workers and friends were there and seen the exchange... And I'm thinking wow he don't even like me... Ugh! Like what should I do? I'm bummed out because I'm so sick of being lonely
I can't say for certain why the man has not called you. It could be for a multitude of reasons. He could be involved with someone, he could just be busy and will eventually call you. The last thing you should be is embarrassed. If he wanted to embarrass you he would have refused the offer of your phone number.
I understand being 32 and lonely. My son is a bit older than you and because of a very bad relationship in his early years he was quite gun shy to commit to another relationship though he had many. You may or may be not be a bit like him in that your looking for a custom fit in an off the rack world. Which is exactly what I finally said to him.
I suggested he join one of those dating sites like Match.com. He did and he met some fantastic women. As the saying goes the third one was the charm. I'm finally about to become a father in-law. They have moved in together, combined their finances and made several joint purchases to follow their combined passions.
My son has opened her eyes to new passions and she to him. She has strong points where he is weak and vice a versa such as she is a great money manager where he never has been. My son is the problem solver and the calm head in a crisis. She goes to pieces in a crisis. They are just about a perfect fit. Best of all I'm a big tease and I tease her and she hands it right back to me and has since day one.
My wife and I are a perfect fit because we met at work in a place you could only work if you had a passion for the job. TO day finding a custom fit is next to impossible without some help. This is where these dating sites come in. Through these sites you can for the most part order up the person you are looking for in a spouse.
Therefore my recommendation is you try a dating site. some of the religious dating sites are free. Sites like Match.com. charge a fee. It might also be worth while sitting down with a psychologist to talk about what is holding you back from having another long term relationship. While you have not said so I think something in your last relationship may beholding you back. If your employer has an EAP program then ask them to find a psychologist for you and most likely they will pay for the first few sessions then your health insurance will take over.
(Rating: 5) Thank you!!