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I was on the phone with my boyfriend last night. I was at my best friend's birthday party before he called. My best friend is gay and my boyfriend knows that. He said how being gay is sick and how those people should be killed. Needless to say I was shocked. I tried reasoning with him but to no avail. He even got mad and wanted to skip meeting me for about a week. I called him out on that and he said he will meet me after all. I just won't ever feel comfortable around him again. I love him very much,but him saying such things about my best friend is disgusting. He would hurt a gay person for no reason. What if he kills me too? I am,quite honestly,terrified. Do you think this is a red flag? Should I run from him while I still can?
Yes DUMP him. There is no reason or place for homophobic people in today's society. As you must know being Gay or Lesbian is not a choice it I how they are born. Scientists have proven this. IT is not a disease that should be cured or could be cured.
Strange as this may sound to you and me today but left handed people were looked at way back when as some people look at Gays' today. Left handed people were forced to write with their right hands in school. They were considered freaks of nature. Today we think nothing at all of left handed people it is how they are born.
Hopefully someday society will look upon gays and lesbians as we do left handed people. Until then people that what to do them harm are likely to harm others who do not agree with their beliefs. This puts you in danger.
If I were you I would send him an email and tell him you do not wish to see him any more as you cannot love someone who is so intolerable of others who may not be as he is. Let him figure out what you are saying.
(Rating: 5) I have done exactly that. Still,thank you for your advice :)