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Recently my little sister told me the reason her and my stepbrother don't get along because when she was about 15 or 14 and he being 17 when they were both high not that this makes it an excuse ... Well my stepbrother asked my little sister if they could have sex.... Mind you my dad and stepmom have been together sense we were 6 so we've been related by marriage for almost 20 years now so this happened 4 or 5 years ago... I told my fiancé and I told my older sister who also doesn't know what to make of the situation or what to do!! My little sister said we can't do anything because so much time has passed. I'm sick to my stomach and the fact that she shares a space with him where they sleep makes me scared. I don't know what good it would to tell my mom because it's our word against his and not that my mom wouldn't believe us but all it would do would make her broken hurt angry I can't imagine how a mother would feel to hear that. My stepbrother is such a manipulator that he can get his way out of anything. Also my step siblings are treated way differently than all of us. For example my older sister graduated college and had to pay rent my stepbrother does not. Please help me I'm sick to my stomach sad I wasn't there to help her and all I want to do is make this better but I don't know how!!
You do not say if your little sister gave into your stepbrothers request. If she did it is rape. If she didn't and depending on if he just asked once or if he continued to try to have sex with her it could be sexual harassment. Both of which are crimes. It is not incest as they are not blood related as in half sister and half brother. At least that is the opinion I get from what you have written. As in from the same mother but different fathers.
If he is still trying to have sex with her then your parents must be informed especially so they can change the sleeping arrangements. If he is not still trying to have sex with her and your sister does not want you to go to your parents. Then I suggest you go to your brother and inform him that back then was a sex crime against a minor and there is no statute of limitation on those crimes.
Tell him to stay away from your little sister. In fact it would be better if he found some place else to live. That you will be watching him and if he steps out of line he will be talking to the police, not your parents. Depending on which of the two sex crimes he may have committed he could be looking at life in prison.
I suggesting that you make this a threat and convince him you will go to the police. I'm not suggesting you do that is entirely up to you to do if you think you need to.
(Rating: 5) Thank you, she's going to come live with me in a couple weeks she hasn't told me if he continued to try and ask her but she did say no to him and ever sense she said no to him he has been very mean. Situations like this especially being a couple years ago there's no right way of dealing with it unless he is continuing to make these gestures I'll be sure to let him know