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I feel like I am 100% straight in "real life". Women don't turn me on and I never have fantasies about them.
But whenever I watch porn, women turn me on more than men do. It really depends on my mood, sometimes I like watching a guy masturbate but whenever I watch porn with a Women in it, I get way more turned on by her.

Is this normal? I wouldn't call myself bisexual because other than in porn, I am not interested in Women at all, and even when I fantasize without watching anything, I only think about men.

Relax your normal. Fantasy and reality are two different worlds. You are not a latent Lesbian or bisexual.

There are two reasons you may be turns on more by the women then the men.

1. You simply identify with the women and what they are doing and is being done to them.

2. at some point in our sexual identifying years, which you may still be in. We experience or fantasize having sex with a same sex partner. Her again nothing unusual as it is part of identifying our sexuality.

Porn is designed to titillate. It appears it is doing just that for you. So relax and enjoy what ever it is you are watching.

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