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I am 17 year old girl and is having a bestie from almost 4 years and I share each and evrything to him and last year on my bday he asked me for liplock and as I feel whatever he does is right so I did it and moving onwards we started being physical but not exactly sex and now he wants to fuck me and he says I promise their would be no harm and I wont do it that hard that your vagina would bleed...I want to know should I go for it or is their any harm?? And he knows my family as well ..he is even one of my faraway relative.but he never ever did anything wrong with me and I trust hi more than my parents.
When to have sex for the first time is a very personal question and not one we can give you a yes or no answer to you. Only you can know if the time is right.
Given that he is more than four years older than you and that we do not know the age of consent for your state. My advise would be to wait until your 18 and legally and adult. Right now if you became pregnant or if your parents somehow found out you had sex with him. They could put him in jail for statutory rape. If you are under the age of consent in your state then even if the sex is consensual he can be charged with rape. Statutory rape in some states can be a life sentence. It is better to wait until you are 18 because of the age difference between you.
while you are waiting checkout the following website, found at bottom of this page). I found this while answering a very similar question for another young lady. I believe you should review this website before making any decision about having sex, starting with “Am I ready?”
http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/virginity/readyornot.html.
(Rating: 5) Thanks alot