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"Do not pity the dead, Harry. Pity the living, and, above all those who live without love" - Albus Dumbledore

Hi, I'm Laura. I'm a senior in college & I'm slowly deciding what I want to do with my life. I love Harry Potter, coffee, writing, and sleeping (amongst other things). I'll never claim to know everything, but I'm confident in my ability to help people with their problems. Feel free to send me an inbox question; I'll get back to you!




A few thoughts I've gathered from my teenage years (and being on this site for most of them!):
1. If you Google song lyrics, the song will come up 99% of the time.
2. Dress to fit your body type, and buy the size that fits. If you're a size 6, squeezing into a 4 won't make you look skinnier. It makes you look fat when you aren't.
3. You will never regret waiting to lose your virginity.
4. There is such a thing as a stupid question, but we're all allowed to ask them.




BU 2014 :)


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srry its looks long =D

ok so this weekend i was on my period so i hate having sex wile Im on it even thou hes perfectly find with it... i dont!....

so yesterday i gave my boyfriend a BJ because ive only done it 4x and haven't been able to make him cum...so i told him i was gonna make him cum this time... and i tried but FAILED.. so i told him to finish off with his hand but he didn't want too... i asked him why you don't want me to see and he said no... so i was like ok ill do it (ive never really giving him a hj only if im doing a bj and i take turns) but ya i was laying next to him and started doing it... but i was telling him to guide my hand so he did and he started doing it... than i let my hand go but not off of it just so he can control my hand... i dont know why but it was a MAJOR TURN ON... and i was just whispering to him that it was turning me on... i had my head under his arm not really looking at him... but i turned to look at his face and well....

HE GOT REALLY EMBARRASSED... he just stoped and got off the bed and pulled his pants on saying yu were looking at me dagg.. i was just laughing and he was really madd ..saying what i was fingering my self and he looking at me... and things like that... uhhh WHAT DO I DO shouldnt he feel conferrable with me we'll be a yr on Saturday....what can i do so he can feel better about doing it in front of me... or was i bad too look!?

He's probably just embarrassed by the face(s) he makes. It doesn't mean he's not comfortable with you, it's just one of the things he's not comfortable with :)


I suppose you could tell him it's a huge turn on for you, it might alleviate some of his embarrassment. He might be thinking that you'd be turned OFF or something. Otherwise, there isn't too much else you can do.


-LM
[17/f]

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(Rating: 5) ya probably but i did tell him it was turning me on...idk i guess ima have to convene him to do it again but this time i wont look until he feels ready =D
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