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:.Hey x3My name is Emily and blah blah blah.
:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.
:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.
:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.
:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.
:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.
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advice
okay.
im thirteen.
and i want two tattoos.
your jaws are probably dropping.
but.
i want to wait until im seventeen.
:]
now i want:
http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s134/omgoshxitsxmeg/?action=view¤t=tattoos-2.jpg
that.
w/ a banner saying beautifully unique.
by the end of it.
[it ends to the lower left of my belly button.]
because.
thats what i am.
it should be crazily.
but that doesn't sound too good.
and the second:
http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s134/omgoshxitsxmeg/?action=view¤t=angel-wings-2.jpg
across my shoulderblades.
:D
now.
i would majorly appreciate.
your views on the matter.
thanks in advance.
Well, I myself have few things that I want to get tattooed on my body, but they're things that I draw or have in mind--not things that are popular or many people have. Also, they're small.
You have a couple of years from now on to think about tattoos so think about this:
When you get pregnant/deal with weight lose or gain, your tattoo will be effected in your stomach area.
It's permanent and old grannies with big tattoos scare me.
If you have a child, you don't want the child to ask what that big blob of ink on your body is.
I thought about those and I would much prefer to get small ones. But yeah. You know that they hurt like a b*tch and that you need to take extremely good care of it or it will get infected, right? The colors will fade from time to time so you need to go get them "touched up" so to speak.
But it's your choice =) Keep your eyes and mind wide open and I assure you that the tattoos you want today will be completely different from the tattoos you want a year later =)
~Emily
15/f
(Rating: 5) hahaha.
thanks.
i appreciate.
:D
i have taken that into slight thought.
haha.
its a couple years away.
so i have some time to think it a little more thoroughly.
:D
i also dont really care if they are common or not.
i just think they will look good.
not meaning to sound snobbish at all.
:D
once again.
thanks for input.