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all of a sudden my kitten doesnt want to eat. like she doesnt want to eat her food at all. what should i do?. how can i make her est? and what are cats favorite foods that they cant resist.

Is you kitten new to your family?
Maybe it's nervousness.
I know that my dog, who's been with us for 5 years, would NOT eat out of his bowl for his life. I think part of the problem was that we spoiled him with the food we ate, therefore he didn't want to eat his and just mooch off of us when the family was eating a meal.

Basically, my dog is VERY jealous so if any one of my family members say that we're gonna eat his food, he guards the bowl for his life and won't budge. We just do that for 3min straight and he'll get tired of just guarding and start eating.

Another thing was we just dumped the food onto the floor and out of his bowl and he ate...so maybe part of the problem with your kitten is that she is afraid of her bowl? We switched my dog's metal bowl to a plastic one so it has no reflecting shine thing or have it make clanking noises when he tries to eat [from his collar banging on it].

If all else fails, try different food brands, but make sure they're healthy, renown food brands. You don't want to be feeing your kitten chicken feathers. If she continues to not eat, feed her canned kitty food or just some pet friendly foods from your house meanwhile you schedule an appt with a vet.

Good lucks to you and your kitten =]

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(Rating: 5) thnaks so much. you helped alott
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