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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





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Hey- its Jack

I was wondering if there was a way you could tell me which/ how many questions SpreadLove has asked me personally?

It might help me understand why she randomly attacked me.

Thanks!


Hi Jack,

SpreadLove was banned for her attack on your column, but I'm not sure if it's fair for me to tell which other non-abusive questions originate from her account, as that information would normally remain private. I'd prefer if you asked DangerNerd this question, as he has ultimate say over what sort of things can be released. Obviously there's a line and if you break the rules you forgeit your rights on the site, but I'm not sure that extends to times you were not abusing your account, so I'm going to leave this DangerNerd's call, just because I don't feel qualified to decide whether it would be appropriate or not.

I hope that makes sense.

Ona

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Thanks!
I don't think I'll take it up with DN though..
BTW- SpreadLove is my ex-girlfriend.. so she's being entirely hypocritical..

haha
Thanks again!
--Jack




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