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:.Hey x3My name is Emily and blah blah blah.
:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.
:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.
:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.
:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.
:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.
If you have general questions on the topics I can be a lot of help in (as listed above), most likely, they will be in my FORUM
If it is not, you can inbox me to request me to put it up.
:.If you want to ask me a question directly...
a)if it is not urgent and can wait a week or so, inbox me.
b)if it is an urgent question such as "I'm being eaten by a shark! What do I do???" first of all, I'm quite amazed that you can type while being eaten and second of all, e-mail me at cancel.life@gmail.com. I will answer you by midnight of that day (or if it's 11:55PM, probably by 3PM the following day).
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Well as you notice the summer is so close
I got a new boyfriend at the end of June last year
We are still together
Last summer i wansnt really comfortable with him
Until maybe November 2006
So we've never seen each other in bathing suits
But we've seen each other naked
Now im super self conscious about my tummy
Its not huge!
But its not super tiny either
He loves my stomach and doesn't think im fat
And people always tell me im not
But i always suck in my tummy
So it looks smaller
But i can't really do that with a bathing suit
Cuz its looks gross
Now i cant wear shirts or a bathing suit that covers my tummy
Because my boyfriends a pain in the ass
It has to look really good
Its not huge its not even that big
I'm 5'6 weigh 153 i believe or 160
I work out
By doing sit ups
I do 10 then stopp then 10 more
I do that about 5 times
I need something else
I have till the end of june around the 25th
Anyone have anything
No pills and i can't join a gym
Im not running
Or trying out for sports teams
Anything???
Sorry it was so longg :|
If you're not going to run, you have a problem there. If you want to flatten your stomach, you must do something other than specific/target work outs. You need to run, ride bikes, aerobics, and do work outs that are targeting various parts of your body at once. Running is the best thing and if you're not going to do it, you're not going to see much results. Running burns fat from various parts of your body so it will help you lose the excess fat. Then you should work on target workouts such as crunches and curl ups to start and get the belly in shape and tone it.
Also, you need to eat healthy. Limit junk food and fatty foods. Drink water and low fat milk and avoid sodas and energy drinks. Pick healthy foods, eat moderately, and exercise.
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