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:.Hey x3
My name is Emily and blah blah blah.


:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.


:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.


:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.


:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.


:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.

If you have general questions on the topics I can be a lot of help in (as listed above), most likely, they will be in my FORUM

If it is not, you can inbox me to request me to put it up.

:.If you want to ask me a question directly...
a)if it is not urgent and can wait a week or so, inbox me.
b)if it is an urgent question such as "I'm being eaten by a shark! What do I do???" first of all, I'm quite amazed that you can type while being eaten and second of all, e-mail me at cancel.life@gmail.com. I will answer you by midnight of that day (or if it's 11:55PM, probably by 3PM the following day).

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okay i have this friend named kimberly
ever since she has been going out with this guy that i USE to like
she has been acting so stuck up
she is only in FIFTH GRADE for crying out loud
we don't need boyfriends
anyway
she only chases and tortures her boyfriend
and that is what she calls flirting
ew
weird
anywayy
i told her today at recess i dun wanna be her friend anymore
why?
because i dun like friends that forget all about their girlfriends
for a guy
so until she starts acting right
we can't be friends
she might call me this after noon
what should i say?

Um, are you even old enough to be on this site?
Don't listen to the columnist below. It will just get things to get worse.

Face it, girls are guy crazy and when we get boyfriends, that who we think about one second too much. From what I've read, I think you're a little jealous. When she calls, just calmly dimiss her. Tell her that you are not in the mood to talk right now and that you have to go. Tell her that you're upset with this whole thing because you don't feel like you're her friend anymore.

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(Rating: 5) my sister had to ask a question aha
she doesn't have one since she isn't old enough yet
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