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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





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ok here is the deal, i had just got my period for the first time on the last week of october or so i thought. well at the same time i thought i got my period i was masturbating. the thing is, i was bleeding for 2 days and now it has been a month and a week and i still havent had my period again. so what i want to know is did i cut myself and i just bled for 2 days or did have my period and it is just late this month?
thanks


It's unlikely that you cut yourself masturbating unless you were particularly rough or have sharp nails (the vagina is pretty resilient - think of what it goes through in childbirth), and if you had you wouldn't bleed for two days, so it's safe to assume you have indeed started your periods. Congratulations! Now, don't worry about your period being late. Your periods will not immediatley settle into a regular cycle - it takes a while for your hormones to settle down. It can anything up to two years for your cycle to regulate itself fully, so there's absolutely no need to worry that it's been a while since your first period - just give it time and it will come.

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thanks a bunch u rock! xoxo



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