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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





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Ok well my 12 year old friend thinks shes pregant!! She hasnt had sex or done anything exsept fingerherself but she been tired!! She goes to sleep at 4:00am and wakes up at 3:00-4:00is and shes not sick but when she took her medican she got a stomic ackes and sometimes diaea and pooping!! And shes goten only one headacke this mounth!! So she whats to know! is she pregnet!

P.S. She doent what a pregant test or anyhtinglike that!!!


If she hasn't done anything with a guy that could concieviably lead to sperm entering her vagina then there is no way she could be pregnant. If she hasn't had penetrative sex (that is, with a guy) then it's highly unlikely that's she's pregnant. If she'd fooled around with a guy when they were both undressed and he orgasmed, then there would be a possibility, but if she's only ever experimented by herself she's absolutely fine and there's is no risk of her being pregnant.

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Thz that has helped





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