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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





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hi im 15 and still a double a (crazy, i know), is there any way i could make my boobs grow naturally?someone at my lunchtable said carrots? i need boobs!! i mean im 15! and im tired of everyone saying things about them i want to cut theirs off! okay yeah im weird someone help me!


If you put on weight it may go to your breasts, but it depends on the type of body shape and build you naturally have - look at your mother and grandmother for an indication. If they are much bustier than you are, your current size may be just because you aren't eating enough so don't have much fatty tissue. It is likely however that you are just be naturally small framed and just not genetically destined to have large breasts, and if that's the case, you just have to learn to love your body as it is. However, 15 is still young and you are unlikely to be fully developed yet. Women's bodies do not stop growing until a woman reaches her early 20s. But you do not "need" boobs - if you remain an AA until you are 90 everything will still turn out okay. I know it's hard to be young and feel insecure about your figure, but if you are naturally small built, it's just something you are going to have to learn to love - and you really should love having smaller breasts, it gives you a lot more freedom when buying clothes or underwear, and you'll avoid the lower back pain that is the curse of the top-heavy woman. All the best.

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thank you..oh and im 5'9'' and 105 (its like im anorexic) and ive tried to gain weight for years and it just hadnt happened :( thanks anyways!



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