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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





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okay 2 weeknds ago i had sex with this guy i have been wanting to get with...
Well.. we did it and now he wont talk to me at all.. I've been getting sick lately and i might be pregnant.. My older sister is goin to take me to get put on the pill... But what are some signs that will let you know if ur pregnant or not?
Ive been talking to many people and apparently no one has givin me the right answers....
Please help me....
~*~Confused!!!!~*~



The only way to know with any accuracy is by taking a pregnancy test. A late or missed period is not a guarantee you are pregnant, as stress, eating habbits and just being young can cause irregularities in your cycles and things like feeling increasingly hormonal or getting cravings may not kick in for a while into a pregnancy and can also be explained by normal hormonal fluxtuations. The only way to know is to get a test. It's good that you've decided to be responsible and go on to the Pill (although it's advisable to use an additional method of contraception on top of this, such as condoms, which also protect against STDs) but you really need to have a pregnancy test first and find out for sure if you are or aren't pregnant, as if you are pregnant, going on the pill now would be a bad idea.

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thanx much.. mwah...



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