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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





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i had a dream about a guy that i have always just considered friends. and in my dream it was like we were hooking up as a couple and then it went to us making out and stuff.. i dont know what to think. is it becuase i am just hiding how i really feel about him? does it mean anything? do you think i like him as more than a friend? please help. i dont know what to think about him anymore. and everytime i see him i just keep seeing that dream run over and over in my head.


If you've never thought of this guy romantically then I wouldn't read too much into the dream. Sometimes dreams have interesting symbols and can be insightful, but more often than not they are just your brain letting off steam and are mainly random images and things you've been dwelling on during the day. This boy could be in your dream because he was on your mind, but that doesn't mean your romantically interested him. If your dream has confused you, look into your relationship - is there anything there you hadn't noticed before? Maybe there is a romantic undercurrent that your subconcious is trying to wake you up to, but if you don't feel it I wouldn't worry, as kissing somebody in a dream doesn't necessarily mean anything at all.

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thanks!



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