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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





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i found out my crush likes me 2! but he says he doesn't know if he wants a gf right now! so what shud i do? shud i wait for him?!



If he isn't sure, don't push it. You don't want to be with somebody who isn't commited to the relationship and isn't sure they want to be with you. The sad truth is, if he can't decide whether he wants to be with you or not then he just doesn't like you that much at the minute. Give him his space to work it out. He'll either realise that he does actually like you and want to be with you, in which case you get what you want, or he continues in his current indecisive frame of mind, which makes him not good to try and get involved with. Don't write him off just yet, he may just be a bit confused and need time, but if in a few weeks he's still not sure then just let it go and find somebody else who is able to commit to you. All the best.

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thank you so much!



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