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does anyone wanna list names they like?? it could be almost anything but no metal stuff. i'm not really into that. basically anything else is fine.

thanks!!

well ill name artists first because this can get confusing:
3 doors down= (anything by them!!)
hoobastank: running away, crawling in the dark, remember me, same direction.
led zeppelin: stairway to heaven, kashmir
guns and roses: oh sweet child of mine, welcome to the jungle, knockin on heavens door.
alicia keys: fallin, if i aint got you, karma, diary.
BSB- incomplete
lifehouse: you and me
pat benetar: love is a battlefield, promises in the dark, hell is for children, hit me with your best shot.
tim mcgraw: real good man, its your love, do you want fries with that, drugs or jesus.
kenny chesney: anything but mine, there goes my life, keg in the closet, old blue chair.
musicals: phantom of the opera, rent, hairspray, oliver, bye bye birdie, anything goes, godspell...
hope that gives you a good enought list!

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i am 13/f and i want sex is that wrong

nope, most thirteen year olds do.

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14/F--

I know it's early...but my mom is asking me to conduct a christmas list for gifts early.

What might be some things I could ask for?
I want MOVIES but I need some suggestions for good ones new/old alike.

As far as C.D.'s go I like Country music...any suggestions?

I already have an Apple iPod (mini)

if you like a tonof different songs, not just one country artist, get the mix like totally hit country or whatever that's called. i would go with keith urbam. toby keith or kenny chesney personally although faith hill and a lot of female artists have some good cds out. i would ask for shoes...lots and lots of them! or a camera and such.

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okay, so this guy i am "together with" which means we are pretty much going out without the label. anyway, he says he likes me alot, but doesnt think we would be able to have a relationship because he doesnt think i would want him to finger me, or i wont give him head. and the truth is, i just think it would be akward.. but ive gone out with him before.. and i really want a relationship with him.. he doesnt want to have sex with me.. just do everything else. but ive never given anyone head, and ive never been fingered.. im 14.. and i didnt think i should be doing that stuff.. what should i do?

if you dont wanna do something, dont do it! obviously this guy is looking for someone that will, thats why he doesnt think the relationship would work out. dont give in to get him...your a smart girl, dont do somthing like that.

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My 9th grade math teacher is so sweet! I am in 10th grade now, and my teacher for Geometry is not a good teacher, so I go to my 9th grade teacher for help! and last year she helped so much, and this year she is helping a lot too! I want to get a picture frame, and on the outside put a wooden ruler and a wooden protractor and a crayon and a pencil. She is from Texas, and proud, so I want to add something from that, but I dont know what. For the picture inside of the frame, she nominated me for student of the month in 9th grade and I won, so I will use the picture of us from that. I am also going to give her some candy and her all-time-favorite soda, Diet-Coke! Anything else?

5's and feedback! :)
-Kelsey

aww thats sweet! write her a note telling her how much you care and miss her! i would put it in a basket sort of thing but it really depends on how and where you give it to her.

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how would you describe emo? and what type of emo bands are there? ty

emo...well i dont want to make sterotypical comments and say they all have to do this and be like that but most are darker or depressed/sad and needing to express themselves. emo bands... hmm i cant think of any at the top of my head. something like breaking benjamin i think? i'll get back to you on that one! sorry if this isnt everything you ever wanted to know about being emo... i'm glad you like my column!! *smiling* thanks for asking!

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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks.

i've met a lot of 14 year olds that have done it.

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Okay so the guy I like, I was with him today and he was talking to his friend and he was saying how he'd f*cked this girl and whatever and the way he said it totally put me off him.

But like, my friend said he could've said it just to make himself sound cool which is what alot of guys do but I dunno.

I really like him but I don't want to TRY to get involved if all he wants is to get in my jeans, you know?
So, what should I do?

if this guy's idea of cool is "fucking girls up" he's not worth it. regardless of whether he did or not, he's gonna try to make himself look cool ... telling about how he did you and such or just getting some confidence from adding another girl to his list. my vote is no.

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I have a quick question ;; what are the measurements of people? I always see stuff on websites about how...say Carmen Electra is 36-23-35 . . .what are thjose numbers? How are they measured? MUCH LOVE. PEACE ♥

bust
waist
hips

in the "i like big butts.." song they say 36-24-36. hmmm.

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OK well im a 13/f and when I was little and still now if like i do somthing "bad"..or i get my dad mad...he'll like hit me...and like i dont know if thats really considered abuse..well see this all came up because my friend jessica was tellin us how she stayed out late and her dad got really mad and she called her mom and was like i think dads gunna hit me cuz hes really mad but if he lays a hand on me ill call the cops...so that just got me thinkin to myself...is what my dad does considered abuse or just a way of him "punishing" me.
plz answer
thanks

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well when you are little, most parents do that. if they beat you repeatedly with a bat, yeah thats definatly aduse. if it was a "spanking" that maybe left the area a little red, no, its not abuse. don't make a big deal out of it unless its like unbearable, know what i mean? I mean, my parents used to do that...it wasnt like a beating but yeah it hurt. they are good parents and now that im older im just grounded or banned from something i like to do. you really have to use the knowledge you have to judge it. in most cases, no its not. its prolly not what you want to hear because your question sounds like you think youre right and just need that little bit more to be confident in your conclusion, but its my opinion.

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I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this?

TEN?!?! (falls out of chair) wow. tell her the risks and that its not good for her! i would have your mom give her "the talk" because 10 is completely out of the question. please do something...or you'll have a 12 year old pregnant sister.

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what are some pretty,and uncommon names? please dont say things like,jessica,jennifer,katherine,there pretty but they are all to common! thanks for the help! i rate to 5's :)

sarerika. ive only heard it once...ever. its like sarah and erika. i think its kinda cool although some think its like retarded. bertha is pretty uncommon, as well as prudence. i dunno if you think theyre pretty or not.

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this is pretty lame but I'm lookin for some suggestions lol :), mainly directed towards guys (ladies if you can help thatd be great too) .. This weekend me and my man are stayin together, so on friday night I know he always needs me to be agressive cause he does all the work usually.. :X So Im gona make it up to him, I wana know suggestions on starting it off.. then I'm going to give him head ( and yall how do most guys like it? on knees or layin down? ) the rest I pretty much have down but please, somebody suggest.. Thanks I appriciate it

-- Also if you could give help on giving head right.. I cant even deep throat that wellll cause the size is pretty hard.. Any suggestions? Thanks yall I rate back 5's

so basically you wanna give a guy with a large dick great oral? well ive heard that if you put the head in your mouth and rub down the rest of it rhythmatically, it gives the same effect.

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This sounds like a really childish question to ask but..thongs.

My mom thinks they give the wrong message across when a 14 year old wears them.
But I still want to wear them because I hate it when you can see the panty lines. They're just so ugly!
They make me feel weird knowing that you can see them! I hate it. There's probably nothing wrong with it, but I still don't like it.

I don't know what to do though. I wear boy shorts alot, they don't show as many lines but I don't really like them. I wanna feel comfortable.

My friend told me to just confront my mom and tell her that I don't like the lines I get with regular panties but I can't do that, LOL. I don't know why.

Any suggestions?

well you have a few options thanks to the fact that 1.they are undergarnments & 2. theyre sold to minors.
you can:
a. buy one...show that you can keep it inside the pants.
b. buy one, hide it, get in trouble later.
c. bring it up next time your out shopping for underwear and just say you want to try one and see if it helps with the lines. tell her that if they arent confortable of worth it, you'll stop wearing them.
d. last option, hope it doesnt get this far...cut and old pair of undies and make your own.
hope that helps a bit. goodluck!

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ok im a girl and theres this boy that i like ALOT and i might be moving soon and before i move i want 2 tell him how i feel and see if maybe he likes me, but how am i supposed to tell him? please help me.

dont say too much...my friend, a guy, thought he was never gonna see this one girl again b/c they live about an hour apart so he told her he liked her and stuff. well make a long story short, he saw here again! it was kinda akward, know what i mean. just tell him, do you see us as anything more that "just friends" ? see what he says then tell him you like him. thats what i would do...dont go overboard and be like "omg i LOVE you and i wanna marry you and have you children and grow old with you.." he wont move away...he'll RUN far, far away! hope that helps! good luck sweetie!

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i dont know what to be for halloween
last year i was a hooker hahah..this year im in highschool and i wanna be something like i was last year but idk really....any ideas of what i could be w/ a friend haha even tho u dont know me...

bonnie and clyde (excuse to go out at night with a guy if you ask me) mean girls, bunnies, or onld lady hookers/biker chicks. haha i would totally do that! hope you like!

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does anybody know where i can buy some of that new fantacy perfume? b/c i smelled it the other day and it smelled really really good and i want some... thanks ill rate high!


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i was at dillard's yesterday and they have it as well as other department stores like macy's. i love it too!

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is masturbation bad for your body?

no, ive heard its actually good for your body.

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I've seen some Breast Enhancement Exercises on the internet. Do you think the exercises actually work? Have any of you girls tried them? Have any of you that have had luck with them?

I'm too scared to try the pills or creams. If I don't get any bigger then I'll get implants. Do you think saline implants are safe?

i really doubt they work. you're right, pills and creams are bad...implants arent any better. not safe and totally fake. just get padded or enhancing bras. that will give you what you want but if you really want implants, go for it.

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ok so last night i went to my boyfriends house and he fingered me and yeah...when i got home i noticed that there was blood down there, and i know it wasnt my period because that was last week...and the blood seemed to be coming from around the opening, not from in me...my question...what might've happened? like did he just stretch me out alot and something tore? or was it my hymen (he went in really far a few times, to a point where it kinda hurt a little and i had to tell him to be gentle) and also it kinda burns down there now when i go to the bathroom...any ideas on what happened?
thanks in advance. :)

he broke you hymen...thats my best guess. or he scratched/cut you right around the opening and thats why its stings to pee. it should go away in a bit. if it kills, i think that stuff you put on babys to prevent diaper rash could serve as a cooling gel.

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