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yesterday in seminary when i was about to walk out the door neal comes and opens the door for me ain't that sweet so do you still think thats another sign that he likes me any advice would be helpful. (link)
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This is definitely another sign that he likes you, wait to go, girly!
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do girls fart?
or anything else among those lines? (link)
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Everyone does, and that includes girls. We just don't usually do it in public, and some actually do it in public. We're all different, but we still manage to do that same thing.
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Im in love with my sisters kindof boyfriend. Theyve been on and off for two years now and weve all been friends since we were born. She keeps dating other people even though hes in love with her and she cheated on him like 80 times when they were going out. He still likes her.
Me and my sister are so alike. We look the same and have the same style and dress and talk the same and have the same things we like and stuff not even on purpose. All my friends say theyre surprised to see her walk into a room while shes talking cuz they think its me.
I am in love with this guy. Ive loved him for a year. He is the nicest guy ever and my sister is in aniother stage where she doesnt want to have anything to do with him and hurts him all the time bcuz she is destructive. I could make him so happy. He would love me if he realized that im exactly like her except younger and nice. How do i get him to like me?
14/F Shes three years older than me and so is he. (link)
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I have to be honest with you, I don't think going after this guy is such a good idea. Because he's in love with your sister, and if he did fall in love with you, would you really want him to be in love with you because you're so much like your sister? And not for who you are?
Your sister may be not so nice to him, and it isn't fair to him. However, there isn't anything you can do for him. I mean, you can be there for him -- my point is you can't make her stop. Or this on again, off again relationship stop either. I really think it's best for you two to stay friends, because despite your sister's actions -- she's you sister.
Sisters are forever, if you were to get with this guy, it would damage your relationship with her. Is this guy really, more important than your sister?
I'm sorry, this probably isn't the answer you were looking for, but this is much different than your friend having an on and off relationship with some guy. It's your sister, and it's going to be really hard for her knowing that you're with the guy. Even though she has been not so nice to him, she'll still be mad/sad. Whether she shows it or not.
I wish you the best of luck, girly. I hope everything works out alright for you, I just don't think it's meant to happen with this guy (if it is, something will bring the two of you together).
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Hey. I was just curious as to how people get the gold stars. Like when I was looking up some columnists some had one gold star. Does it mean they answered like a lot of questions or that they've been on advicenators for a really long time? I'm just pretty curious. Thanks so much in advance help is really appreciated! =) (link)
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The gold star you see by a columnist, means that they currently have a paid account.
Here's all the information you need on paid accounts -- http://www.advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php
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Hey im in a relasion ship were i am being presured to kiss my boyfriend andi like really want to but im afraid and he wasnts to kiss me but this is really hard to do when your friends make you do it and my friend anna said i have to kiss him or dump him. (link)
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This is something that you decide, it's all in your power. Not your friend Anna's, or whoever else wants to put their pressuring opinion in. Please, don't listen to her or anyone else who tries to pressure you into kissing you boyfriend. If he's not pressuring you, then that's great. However, if he is, he doesn't respect nor deserve you, and you should break up with him. Of course, that's only if he really is pressuring you into something you're not quite ready to do.
I was once in your position, and found out that the person pressuring me (one of my friends, at that time), really wasn't my friend. Because if she were, she wouldn't have tried to pressure me into things she knew that I was uncomfortable with, and didn't want to at that time.
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well im a 16/f and i im indian which means im not allowed to date. but i decided to get a boyfriend and i've been dating this guy for like a little over a month. and im not sure if i should tell my parents because my mom always says they'll find out eventually the things i do. so yah should i tell them? (link)
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As a good advice columnist, wanting you to be honest, I should tell you to talk to your parents and let them know what's going on. However, that's not what I'm going to tell you. I don't recommend telling them, because if you do, I doubt that they will let you continue seeing him, you'll probably get a big lecture and hard to tell what else you'll get. Maybe, even grounded.
So again, I don't suggest telling them. And as long as you do not tell them, and you don't leave any obvious signs you have a boyfriend -- they really won't find out. That's just a plot parents use, to scare you into not doing anything they don't want you to do. So I wouldn't worry about that, if I were you.
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When boy celebs talk about their chest hair, girls scream and stuff. What's so hot about chest hair and back hair? I think it's kinda gross.. (link)
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This is really just an opinion, and something that is prefered by some girls. I personally, agree with you and think it's pretty gross.
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do spiders lay eggs? no google please (link)
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Yes, Spiders do lay eggs -- several at one time.
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Okay, last night my boyfriend popped my cherry, but I still have vaginal bleeding today. I know it's not my period because I finished my period a week ago. Is this normal? (link)
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Yes, this is completely normal. It happens to most people when their hymen is broken, even several days for some people.
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is playing with your clitoris to orgasm technically masturbating or no? (link)
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That is masturbating, in fact, the exact definition.
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13/f.
I know this sounds gross, but I never knew that you were ssupposed to actually wash wash down there..
How do you do it! (link)
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This will tell you how to clean your vaginal area -- http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/pages/questiondetail.jsp?ContentId=ASK171
I recommend using Dial Soap (it's an anti-bacterial soap) around your vaginal area, but never inside the vagina. I learned this from the latest issue of Seventeen Magazine.
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my mom told me like 5 years ago that my dady molesed me when i was little and i just found out
that my ymom was right the other day what should i do when my dad died when i was 12? (link)
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If this is bothering you, and making you feel very unhappy often, as it would most people, I recommend going to a therapist and/or talking with a councelor. This will help you sort out all of your feelings, and be able to speak openly and honestly -- confidentialy, as well.
I'm very sorry for what happened to you, when you were younger. I will remind you that none of that was any of your fault, and you didn't deserve what was done to you.
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neal that senior i was talking about hes nice and i think he likes me but now his friends are starting to stare and smile at me what should i do any advice would be helpfull and sorry about all these questions. (link)
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No problem, I like answering people's questions and doing my best to help them. :)
I have some good news to tell you -- that means he totally likes you! You already have many signs this guy likes you, and now his friends are smiling and staring at you. So that is one of the most amazing, and obvious signs that he likes you. So I definitely suggest talking to him more often, and asking him to hang out. He's just too nervous to ask you, or talk to you, etc.
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I am a level 1 moderator. how can i become higher? i rate at least 5 questions daily ( if i can get on the computer. ) so how do i get to be a level 2 or 3 ? thnks. (link)
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Here's the Moderator FAQ -- http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=69
DN is the only one who can promote you to a higher level, none of the other moderators have that permission.
This is just my opinion -- rate many questions daily (more than five) because that's one of the things considered in promoting to a level two moderator. I don't think you'll be considered with a low amount of questions rated. Answer questions daily on your column, or at least weekly. And give the best advice you can give! :)
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is ut bad wanting to be a girlfrienda?any advice (link)
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Absolutely not, many girls want to be a guy's girlfriend. Especially, a special guy that they really like, it's normal. :)
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ok i will any advice on guys would be helpful. (link)
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My best advice is really get to know a guy, become good friends with him and see how things are progressing with you two. Hang out often with him, talk to him on a daily basis, because it ultimately bring the two of you closer, and creat a very good bond. That's a great start onto the road of dating.
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ok i understand ok that senior i told you about i see him again tomarrow any advice would be helpfull. (link)
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Well, be sure to talk to him tomorrow and try to find out a few new things about him. This should help contribute to making the two of you closer.
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There has been recently a bomb scare at my sister's high school. A custodian found on the wall : MHS WILL BLOW UP 3/22". Now they are investigating the whole school, screening backpacks, and sending in bomb sniffing dogs. Should we let my sister go to school on the 22nd? Or stay home for a few days because it might happen on another day.
thanks (link)
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I say, better safe than sorry, just as WiseAl. I would let her stay home for a few days, just incase this would happen to be true -- hopefully, this is only something used to scare people. That's bad enough, but definitely not as bad as it actually happening.
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look i have talked to him a few times ,but when i listin to his conversastion its ok because he lisions to my conversations how do i know that hes listioning because he stares at me when i am talking i dont though star at him so any advice would be helpful oh and tomarrow's his 16 birthday what should i do? even though we are not friends. (link)
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I'm not saying it's a terrible thing to do, it's just that you both have to become friends, to get any farther as in a relationship.
A nice thing to do would be to get him a little gift, or wish him happy birthday.
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i know alot about him already any advice would be helpful.how do i know him well i listin to his conversastion. (link)
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Okay, but do you mean you don't know him by actually talking to him yourself? Sorry, but it's a bad idea. This may be a bit blunt, but I want to tell you the truth instead of leading you on, that it will work out this way. If a guy is going to have a relationship with a girl (dating), then he's going to want someone who knows him for who he is, and knows he can trust, etc. Not someone who only knows him by listening to his conversations.
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