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kissing
Hey im in a relasion ship were i am being presured to kiss my boyfriend andi like really want to but im afraid and he wasnts to kiss me but this is really hard to do when your friends make you do it and my friend anna said i have to kiss him or dump him.
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This is something that you decide, it's all in your power. Not your friend Anna's, or whoever else wants to put their pressuring opinion in. Please, don't listen to her or anyone else who tries to pressure you into kissing you boyfriend. If he's not pressuring you, then that's great. However, if he is, he doesn't respect nor deserve you, and you should break up with him. Of course, that's only if he really is pressuring you into something you're not quite ready to do.
I was once in your position, and found out that the person pressuring me (one of my friends, at that time), really wasn't my friend. Because if she were, she wouldn't have tried to pressure me into things she knew that I was uncomfortable with, and didn't want to at that time.
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Only you and you alone can decide when it is the right time to kiss, and with whom. It is no one else's business to tell you what to do with your own body. Anna needs to get a life. If you are nervous about french kissing, then just start out with a quick smooch on his cheek or mouth. See how you feel and take your time. These things are best enjoyed when you take your time and listen to your own feelings.
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so you havent kissed him? Well if you want to kiss him just get him alone without all the people around and it will happen if it is supposed to. No worries
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Ur freidn Anna is an Idiot! she has no clue what shes talking about. i had a bf for 6 monthes and didnt kiss him. i wasnt ready 4 that. then he wanted to so i dumped him. which was a mistake. you should talk it out with him! explain that you want to kiss eventually ur just pressured. good lukkkk w/ life
xo
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dont listen to your friend anna. thats not true.
but if your guy is just wanting you for that kiss, i think you should dump him.
but i dont think thats the case. hey, you gotta make your own desisions about when, where, how, and everything else when you're going to kiss him. it is not your friends decisions whether you have to kiss him or not. its yours. just remind them of that, and they'll get the point.
its your call. have fun!
goodluck! =]
-amy.
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