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Hello Everyone my name is AdviceGrl. I will write a little bit about me and then what this is site about. Well My real name is felicia and I am in high school. I know I seem young but alot of my friends think of me as a therapist because i love giving advice and i am really good at it. I would like to become a therapist one day. But enough of me this is going to be an advice column for people who have questions. I am here to help you with whatever your problems have. I am not here to judge you or scare you i am here to help with whatever you need help with. I know it is scary to confess your problems to a stranger so if you want, you dont have to put your real name. Well talk to you soon.
AdviceGrl
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Member Since: April 2, 2006
Answers: 11
Last Update: March 30, 2007
Visitors: 1029
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do most girls shave them? when they are like 13,14,15?? do guys prefer it?? please leave me alot of answers (link)
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i use nair cause it makes it smoother.. it doesnt grow as quickly as shavin i think guys like it better
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k, so i plucked down there for the 1st time today because i read about it on here. but then i thought..omg..what are the coincedences? what will happen when the hair grows back? how often should i pluck? because my skin is all irratated so its the only thing i can do. (link)
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have you thought maybe use something else beside plucking maybe like Nair cause it wont grow back as bad or quickly
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ok when I stay over at my boyfriends house, when I wake up the first thing he wants to do is kiss me...but I have morning breath...what can I do so I won't wake up with bad breath? (link)
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What i do is i usualy get up in the early morning to use the restrooom i just brush my teeth so i have fresh breath aor you can try getting up earlier than your boyfriend
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okayy so I am absolutely in love with this boy. He is my best guy friend's best friend. We've hooked up once before. After that night we talked for a little bit and then we just stopped but me my best friend her boyfriend(who is my best guy friend) and him all still hang out and me and him still talk. Im falling soo deep in love with him but he doesn't know. I am so afraid to tell him that i like him because i just know he doesn't feel the same way about me. Im scared of rejection. Any way I can get around this or over it? I have to see him every weekend and I dont wanna feel awkward. Please help! thanks! (link)
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Well if you are as in love as you say you are i think you should tell him. Now dont go running up to him and scream but either sit him down and exlain your feelings or write him a letter. If he rejects you, then you weren't meant to be and you'll find someone new but then again he can be your soul mate who is just as shy as you are. You'll never know until you try
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Well my bestfriend Hannah and I have been friends for a while and i tell her everything even about how i am like in love with one of my other bestfriends. Everyone says he likes me to and that i should ask him out so i was planning to ask him to prom but when our church went to mexico and hannah and the boy went.. it was like she was flirting with him. She was always around him stealing his sunglasses laughing playing games with him and when i asked her about she was like i would never do that because you like him.. I never got a chance to ask him to prom becuase she was always with him.. what should i do (link)
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see thats the problem she knows i want to ask him to prom she is the one who told me to ask him
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my friend has a girlfriend he admitted to me he had feelings for me for a long time i told him i had feelings for him to so i thought we were gonna get together or something but he never broke up with her and they're still dating! i am absolutely in love with this boy. Hes all i think about all the time. I thought being honest and saying how i felt would make a difference..? what do i do? (link)
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talk to him about the situation. sometimes just telling him wont do it.. i mean they are boys they can be dumb. But just sit down with him and talk to him about it. It wll work out for the best
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lately i've been so confused and alone. i've tried everything, and i've even started to think that i'm depressed, but i can't think of a way to talk to my parents or friends about it because i've been known to be the "good" one who's life doesn't suck and that my life is the best. But no one knows how hard it is, to keep up an image, to always be happy and care. it's difficult, there are times i wish that i came from a family that had more difficutlies... because since my life has been decient with no big issues, whenever some small argument starts up i get hurt so bad and i know that it's such a little thing but my body gets all worked up about it. i don't know what to do about it, i can't tell my parents because they expect me to be everything and a bag of chips plus they'd be ubber dissapointed. i'm so lost and confused and i don't know who to talk to. What could i do? (link)
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I feel the exact some way sometime...like you want to open up and say whats wrong but you are ariad. I feel like that sometimes. but what makes me feel better is to write in my journal so i feel like im letting it out and once im finished i start to talking to God asking him for help in the situation and he always helps
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Hey im in a relasion ship were i am being presured to kiss my boyfriend andi like really want to but im afraid and he wasnts to kiss me but this is really hard to do when your friends make you do it and my friend anna said i have to kiss him or dump him. (link)
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so you havent kissed him? Well if you want to kiss him just get him alone without all the people around and it will happen if it is supposed to. No worries
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I am divorced. We have 3 kids together ages 10,9,7... my son is the 7 year old. He comes home upset from visiting his father every time.He has been living with this boy who is 6 for a year, His mother has 5 kids by 4 different fathers and 2 are serving life in prison. one is (the boys) father. He is going to marry the boys mom in july and adopt him. This would be fine if he was a fit father but he is not.She is also a convicted felon.who only has custody of 1 of her 5 children. I am a suburban mom who makes a pretty good living, and gives my kids a good life, by the way he has also been convicted of domestic violence on our daughter. Should I keep my kids out of their home?? Its becomeing ever so bizarre.My son comes home cryin g because this new kid call his dad daddy, he feels like he has been replaced. His girlfriend told my son something about a month ago that set me off, they were spending the weekend with dad and girlfriend and my son asked when he was gonna see mommy and the crazy girl told him "mommy is dead i killed her", my girls said this was said..she has threatened to kill me through relatives, she is not all there. What do I do?By the way my ex and this woman were having affairs throughout our ten year marriage. This is not a stable environment for my kids, I am in a great relationship now and I might want to fight for sole custody and move away..Any advice?? (link)
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i think sole custody would be a good thing to have. I am sure the kids will miss their father cause most children do but you need to do what is right for the kids. I come from a divorced family as well and i see my father and his new family and i feel like im replaced but i have my mom who is better than my father will ever be. I think you should pray about it and see what God tells you my advice do whaat you think is right for your family.
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Okay, so our hs graduation is on Friday already, and I want to give my closest and not-so-close friends a little something that would serve as a souvenir. Any ideas as to what I can give aside from [perhaps] farewell letters? But nothing too expensive, please ;). I really want to give them a little something since I'd be far away in college... as in I'd be really far from them cuz my university is far from theirs....
Thanks in advance people!
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I think that a farewell letter would be perfect and i mean something from the heart because thats what they will remember the most... Im sure they would like a a hat or a gift card but they will love it if it comes from the heart. I have my friends start crying from letters i have given them for christmas. I have money but i choose to get them someting and then give them a heart felt letter and thats what they loved the best. Thats just my opinion
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Dear AdviceGrl,
I am having problems with my boyfriend because he is really pressuring me to have sex with him but i am just not ready he says he loves me and that he thinks it will make us closer what do you think i should do.
Signed,
Confused (link)
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Dear Confused,
I think you should tell him that you are just not ready. If he really loves you he will wait until you are married. The thing is if he doesnt love you and you tell him that he will not talk to you but if he does he will respect that and also if you do sleep with him and he doesnt love you it will be just be another prize on his shelf. good luck
AdviceGrl
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