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Okay well I'm 13 and I'm in the 7th grade and I'm worried about my friend. Okay shes pretty much drop-dead gorgeous and could get any guy she wants. Well I mean she's not like a slut or anything (Okay she kissed her ex boyfriend(corey) 4 times he was her first kiss ... and then shes made out with her current boyfriend once. ).
Anyways she has had family problems. She has two little sisters and they get favored and her mom pretty much yells at her 24/7 and ignores her all the time.
Then recently, about 2 weeks ago, she went to her neighbors house(AJ) and Corey was there. Well Corey grabbed her and she was sitting on him ..., hes like really muscular so she couldn't get away, anyways Corey started rubbing her body and then AJ's like on top of her and hes unhooking her bra. She finally got away and ran into the bathroom and Corey comes in and he was all like awwl hilary i'm sorry for being a jerk i'll help you. So Hilary believed him and he ended up unhooking it again. This kept on happening she was there for about 2 hours.
So shes pretty tramatized from that and her mom. Well to make things worse her mom was yelling at her Tuesday night and she wasn't really paying attention because she hates being yelled at. Her dad then asked her if she was paying attention and she was like it's kinda hard not to dad when shes screaming at me. Then her dad comes over and punches her jaw(and her neck cracked).
Now Hilary is one of my bffae and I don't know what to say to her to help her or anything. Please help me on what I can do for this situation to help her out.
Ohh and we were going to call child abuse people if her dad hit her again. (link)
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your friend really needs to stop talking to this boy first then you should tell her to call the cops and tell them what her parents has been doing to her. if she says she doesn't want to you do it no matter what she says.
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14/m
ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.
and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question (link)
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there is no other way but to go tell her how you feel. not only tell her but you also have the show her in the best way possible.
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I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for; what kind of advice I need. I don't even know if I need advice.
I'm 13/f, btw.
Last year (2005), during the summer, I met with a guy I knew over the internet. He'd told me that he was 14, and lived about 30 miles from my house. I met up with him, and well, it turned out he wasn't exactly what I expected. Things happened, that, well, weren't exactly supposed to happen. I personally just don't like the term "rape" but sure, lets use it. Since, no matter how much I hate the word, it's what happened.
I've done a pretty good job at hiding it from everyone. Luckily, I have heavy periods, and so I was on the pill at the time to make my bleeding lighter, so I didn't get pregnant. I was 12 at the time. Should I be hiding it from everyone? I've told three people so far. One of them, it was on accident, but she ignored it as if I had never said it. I've also told a good guy friend of mine, let's call him Anthony, but I don't think I can really trust him with the information. And I've also told my boyfriend, let's call him Andrew. He thinks I should tell someone, the poliece, or something. But I refuse to. It's just a weird feeling. I don't really want people to know, I don't really want people to do anything about it. But I don't know, should I tell more people? Like my mom, or the poliece? The guy, well, he told me that if I ever told anyone about it he'd track me down and kill me. And I know some people would think it stupid to listen to a threat like that, but I don't know. I really just don't know what to do. It's like it keeps coming back to haunt me. I was doing a good job at ignoring it, forgeting about it, but lately, it just hasnt been working.
Sorry it's so long. (link)
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i would tell the police, my mom and whoever else i think should know because what he did was wrong, although you shouldn't have met him in the first place(this is the first thing that comes to everyone's mind). you also shouldn't be afraid of him because that's just a tough guy act he put on because if he didn't want you tell anyone he would have killed you after the process(not trying to be mean but it's the truth).just think about it he may be doing this to other girls every where so maybe you should just try and stop him before he really hurts someone. think about it.
just trying to help, thisisme xoxo
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Hey everyone, I need help - FAST ! Please just read my situation and try to help me I'm in deep trouble I think.
Okay, so after school today my boyfriendwas at baseball practice and he had to get something from his locker, and kissed me goodbye and at the time I was looking in his bookbag for his cellphone. Then he left and I was looking at pictures and then my friend came and was like "You should see his texts they're dirty." So I was like okay so we saw a girl's texts to him, lets call her Ashley. The texts weren't that bad but they were like 'I wanna hump you' and stuff like that. So my friend said "Wouldn't it be funny if we told Ashley off?" I was like "No it's not our phone." So my friend said "yeah okay whatever." She wrote "ur a whore" and then she had to go but I said "Don't you think we should at least delete the message so that he (my bf) doesn't see it ?" She said "No because then we have evidence that he sent it ." At the time I was not thinking at all and thought that it would work . But now I realize that obviously he's going to know that he didn't send it.
Well, here it gets worse. He called my other friend that is a guy, let's call him Trevor. Well my boyfriend called Trevor and told him how he thinks I told Ashley that she is a whore. Then Trevor called me and made me confess that it was my friend and it turns out my boyfriend was on the phone listening to mine and Trevor's conversation. At least my boyfriend knows the truth, but I dont think he believes me because while I was in the shower he sent me an IM that what I did was a bitchy thing to do.
The problem is, I didn't write the text ! I mean I know I probably should have stopped her but I went along with it. Now my boyfriend is PISSED at me. What can I do?
I'll rate 5's for anything (link)
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you could try to tell him again that it wasn't you it was your friend again. if he still doesn't believe you tell him: "you got it, it was me, you happy?" then he might say: "i knew it" then you say:"i bet you think i'm lying about saying it was me too then, right?" that should really piss him off that your contradicting him then he'll realize that you weren't lying if that doesn't work try to get your friend to tell him the truth if she refuses then she's not a good friend.
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what does loogeyed mean ?
i was reading a book and i came across it and i cant seem to find out what it means (link)
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it's spelled longeyed. it's when someone has something and you just can't resist having it too.
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can somebody tell me if this is like half ok or like anything good? if it needs corrected please do so! thank you!
Your life seems to be going all wrong
Things will evenutally be good
I know that you'll stay strong
Because I said you should.
Don't take what your mom says to heart
She really does think your a peice of art
Although she hasn't always been their for you
She really wishes she could have thought it through
You knows shes been through a tough situation
That things haven't always been swell
All she ever wanted was to have a conversation
eventually she tthough to her self "oh well" (link)
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if you really want my help the fourth line should say; You'd hold back your tears if you could. and
the last line should say; But you told her to just "Go to hell!!"
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What are some good love songs? or one that has good lyrics about love? please and thank you ! (link)
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weak:swv
officially missing you:tamia
love:keyshia cole
unbreak my heart:toni braxton
angel of mine:monica
all cried out:allure&112
sorry for the stupid things:babyface
nobodyknows it but me:babyface
i only think of you:babyface
back at one:brian mcnight
never make a promise:dru hill
good luck charm:jagged edge
promise:jagged edge
all my life:kci & jojo
crazy:kci & jojo
this very moment:kci & jojo
i need love:ll cool j
we belong together:mariah carey
be without you:mary j blidge
seven days:mary j blidge
not gonna cry:mary j blidge
i will cross the ocean for you:monica
so sick:neyo
if it isn't love:new edition
mr. telephone man:new edition
you are my lady: luther vandross
stick wit you;pussycat dolls
one wish:ray j
do i ever cross your mind: brian mcnight
incomplete: dru hill
who can i run to:xscape
i'm going down:mary j bidge
sitting at home:total
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13.Female.. ok I need you're help. sorry its kinda long.
i really really like this kid. hes not just a kid hes like my best friend. ive known him for 2 years but i just started like really talking to him like in january of this year. he always sends me emails telling me to call him. he told me about a month ago that he liked this girl allie and i asked him today if he still did and he said ya i guess so why? allie has a boyfriend and they are pretty close so i dont think that they are gonna break up, but if they do she will probably go out with him even if she doesnt like him. he thought that i liked his friend but i told him i didn't caz i dont anymore im crazy for him. i was just on the phone with him and he was like so who do you like now and he constantly asks me that when we are on the phone. when we are in school i love how he looks at me. idk if i should tell him already caz i dont wanna loose what i have with him, but i dont wanna wait forever either. i dont know how to tell him i dont really wanna have a friend do it for me caz i think its better that i tell him , but he means a lot more to me than any guy that i've liked before. i wanna be able to tell him before its too late. when/how should i? thanks ill rate high to anyone who tries to help me.
xo-Me
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i think that you should just tell him because, if you don't you will end up regretting it. it may or may not effect the relationship that you two already have just hope that it doesn't.
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