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i screwed up
14/m
ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.
and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question
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okay. you need to just start talking to your girlfriend. be like im sorry, i screwed up, i didnt no what i was doing, and you need to be serious. remind her of all the good times you guys had, and how much you miss her. and how you guys were so good with each other. be like i uderstand if you dont want to go out again. i did mess up and im sorry.
ok kid.
hope i helped
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First, the AIM girl either hates your girlfriend or really REALLY likes you.
Second, talk to girlfriend, tell her what made you believe she was cheating. And apoligize for being stupid or whatever, tell her everything you just told us-that you can't imagine NOT liking her- talk to her and be honest.
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The random aim girl probably doesn't like your gf and did that just to be mean, and/or she's after you.
A good, healthy relationship is about honesty and trust. You have a lot of apologizing to do just for not trusting your girl. If she will give you a second chance then you need to spend a lot of time just rebuilding the trust.
Good luck
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i may be no girl but i know your situation. Any woman, honestly, wouldn't give you any good advice. Okay, so you screwed up. Usualy it's the girlfriends, friends taht try to break you up just to interfear cuase they have nothing else to do and they're jealous. the thing you want to do is wonder why you have a girlfriend anyway. you're 14, you REALLY shouldn't have feelings for anyone. lession learn, think before you act, i've done some dumbass stuff like accuse someone but it was diffrent. Anyway i shoudln't sweat it lil man, besides, she'll come to you, just forget about it. Hope this helps
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If i was in your place I would just go up to her and admitt you were wrong girls love a guy who can step back and see what they did was wrong. Just go up and ask her how she has been and continue the conversation from there. After awhile she will realize how hard you are fighten to get back in her life and things could work out for the best.
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there is no other way but to go tell her how you feel. not only tell her but you also have the show her in the best way possible.
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The only way to get her back would be to talk to her. Tell her that you really need to talk to her and say something like this, "Look I know I must have insulted you by accusing you of cheating, it is just that I care so much about you when I heard that I freaked out. I am sorry, I hope you are not mad at me." From there you can just remain friends with her until you think it the right time to ask her out agin, or if she seems like she misses you then tell her you miss her and if she could give you another chance because you know you wont make the same mistake. Be really nice, especially if you guys have been
going out for along time, girls are very sensitive and chances are she probably misses u just as much as you miss her
Hope I helped and
good luck I am sure everything will work out just fine.
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Your girlfriend was probably insulted that you accused her of cheating and is upset that you listened to what some random person said instead of talking to her about the problem. If you really want your girlfriend back, you need to show her that she can trust you again. This isn't something that can be done overnight, and you will have to work at it. Try being a friend to her before you try to be a boyfriend again.
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she seemed sort of insulted you would accuse her of that. & personally, before accusing her, i wouldve asked her about it, and told her where i heard it. But thats the past. for now, just be really sweet to this girl. if you really like her, which you seem to, just be, romantic. Every girl wants to hear a rock at their window. literally. its the sweetest thing. but if you would do that, make sure she sort of likes you back. take her to a beach or some soft secluded spot. if not, just comfort her, make her feel good. it'll make you feel good, too.
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You should invite her over, sit down. Ask her yourself what happen. An tell her that your sorry for accusing her for something that you weren't 100% sure of. Get the whole story, an just tell her that you want her trust back and want to be with her and make sure you support things an her, with comments
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