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for guys- would you rather date a girl skinny or chubby
So i was wondering, if you GUYS could answer, what turns you on more a girl with a body type like kiera knightley/sasha cohen or a girl with a body type thats maybe 10-20 lbs overweight. I respect everyone's oppinons but i feel self-consciounce because my body type is more of the kiera knightley/sasha cohen type...and i have no confidence from my body cause i feel that people look at me as anorexic, but then when i see girls overweight in a bikini they have all the confidence in the world and i'm kinda of like the wallflower in that type of situation so would you rather date a girl wiht a body type like kiera knightleys/sasha cohens or someone thats like 10-20 lbs overweight and why?? (please don't say someehting like loooks don't matter) this is a situation if you had the choice. thanks
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Here is your guy answer. I really dont like chubby girls, but I wont date a girl unless she has some meat on her bones. Looking at pictures of Kiera Knightly, she's almost too small. She could use a good 15 pounds on her. I like more of a curvy girl I guess, but there is a limit. It's hard to draw the line where I think a girl is too chubby though. I guess look at pictures of Fergie for example, she's a curvy woman who is in shape and really toned. Heidi Klum is a better example of one that isn't a twig. Then you get vuluptuous women like selma hayek, mariah carey, etc. which is also hot, but they may be considered overweight (i'm not sure). That's what I find sexy. The olsen twins are also kinda small. I'm not saying that none of that is hot, in fact I do find little girls pretty sexy. If I had a choice between a girl overweight or underweight, I would probably choose the underweight one. You are in good shape though since you are worried about gaining weight, rather than a chubby girl losing weight. If you want, try adding 5 pounds and see if you like what you see, if not, just go back to doing what you do to stay so skinny in the first place. Hope my rambling helped a bit.
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I think the real problem here isn't about whether guys would want to date a chubby or skinny looking girl. I think the real problem is, like you said, your own self conscious feelings about your body and your inability to be content with yourself. Don't let a guys choice of girls(whether fat or skinny) determine whether you feel good or bad about your body or let it cause you things that are unhealthy to your body.
personally though, I'd have neither. I don't want an overweight girl or an underweight girl. But I'd choose a girl 10 lbs overweight who's happier with herself than a girl who is 10 lbs underweight and suffering from low self esteem.
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I know there are guys who appreciate both body types, but you need to focus less on your body and more on who you really are. Maybe those "overweight" girls in bikinis have confidence because they don't obsess over their appearances that much.
You probably feel the way that you do (about people thinking you're anorexic) because you're overly self-conscious about your body. You don't need to do that. When guys look at you they'll see a girl who is critical of herself, which is very unattractive. (being critical of yourself)
The truth of the matter is- you will NEVER be completely satisfied with your body. No one ever can be. There is always something that you will dislike about your body/appearance no matter how much weight you lose/gain. So that's why you need to focus more on your personality and the positive things about your appearance.
I hope I helped- even though this was probably not necessarily the kind of answer you were looking for.
PS: you may want to consider seeing a counselor about your serious lack of self-confidence.
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Most guys prefer skinny girls. But not so skinny you can see bones, that looks horrible.
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