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My Sister
Im in love with my sisters kindof boyfriend. Theyve been on and off for two years now and weve all been friends since we were born. She keeps dating other people even though hes in love with her and she cheated on him like 80 times when they were going out. He still likes her.
Me and my sister are so alike. We look the same and have the same style and dress and talk the same and have the same things we like and stuff not even on purpose. All my friends say theyre surprised to see her walk into a room while shes talking cuz they think its me.
I am in love with this guy. Ive loved him for a year. He is the nicest guy ever and my sister is in aniother stage where she doesnt want to have anything to do with him and hurts him all the time bcuz she is destructive. I could make him so happy. He would love me if he realized that im exactly like her except younger and nice. How do i get him to like me?
14/F Shes three years older than me and so is he.
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i think that you should talk to your sister and see if she still wants him, if she says no then talk to him, and flirt like any other girl, but also be his like, best friend and be supportive and trust me, things will fall into place, but if she says yes, question her if she really wants him because then you cant have him or or question her of why she cheats on him. tell her that after all the cheating she has done then she should be with another guy and obviously they wont work out cause if she cheated once shell cheat again. unfortunately, no girl really likes their best friend or relative or sister to date or like the same guy, believe me i was the girl that liked the same guy but didnt do anything. also, explain to her that it isnt a match made in heaven and ask her if shell cheat on him again. make him realise that you'd make him happy like if you and your sister are in the same room with him and if she trash talks him moouth towards his way "its okay" and if she leaves the room all pissed with him after a fight hug him and comfort him..do all you can to show him that you're sweeter. i hope that i helped :)
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hey. it sounds like your sister deff. doesnt treat him well. he sounds like a nice guy and i fell bad for him! but i am sorry to say, he is 3 years older then you and becuz of hte age difference, it might not happen. but there is a chance! my friend is 12 and she is dating a 15 year old. that is a 3 year differnce and between you and that guy , it is 3 years. dont give up hope!
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This is not a good road you are heading down. Really I wish you all the best and all that, but this sounds like it could end ugly. First off, the age difference is really big at this stage in your life. Secondly, your sister may come to really resent you for doing this.
If you even consider something like this, I think you should talk to your sister first. I dont know what sort of relationship you have with her, but amongst friends thats what we would do.
Now, you do realise the this guy will be a legal adult in one year? The crowd he hangs with is very likely different from yours. This relationship will be strained to the breaking point before it even got started.
In the end, if you persue this, your only real option is to have a talk with the guy, or to find a way to spend time with him. In the end the only way to make someone fall in love with you is to spend time with them. Theres no magic formula, either there is chemistry or there isnt. This is also why you could be the indentical twin of your sister and that does not always mean he would love you too (he might... but theres no guarantee).
However, I think there is a fair chance that you could end up hurt and maybe embarassed as well (if he doesnt keep his mouth shut). Just thought I should warn you.
Best of luck.
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Sit him down and talk to him about it. If that's how you really feel, and you feel that you could be a better girlfriend, then tell him that. If you don't, you're gonna regret it.
Also, maybe he hasn't done anything with you because your his girlfriend's baby sister, and maybe he thinks the age gap is kinda big, even though it's only three years.
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I have to be honest with you, I don't think going after this guy is such a good idea. Because he's in love with your sister, and if he did fall in love with you, would you really want him to be in love with you because you're so much like your sister? And not for who you are?
Your sister may be not so nice to him, and it isn't fair to him. However, there isn't anything you can do for him. I mean, you can be there for him -- my point is you can't make her stop. Or this on again, off again relationship stop either. I really think it's best for you two to stay friends, because despite your sister's actions -- she's you sister.
Sisters are forever, if you were to get with this guy, it would damage your relationship with her. Is this guy really, more important than your sister?
I'm sorry, this probably isn't the answer you were looking for, but this is much different than your friend having an on and off relationship with some guy. It's your sister, and it's going to be really hard for her knowing that you're with the guy. Even though she has been not so nice to him, she'll still be mad/sad. Whether she shows it or not.
I wish you the best of luck, girly. I hope everything works out alright for you, I just don't think it's meant to happen with this guy (if it is, something will bring the two of you together).
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