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how much does ."with love" hilary duff's perfume costs????? (link)
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Where I live, it costs $60, but prices vary from stores.
http://www.withlovehilaryduff.com/
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i am 5 months pregnant and me and my boyfriend want to have sex so
can we (link)
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Here's all the information you need --
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/sex-during-pregnancy/HO00140
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i like two boys. and so, i was wondering, is it okay to say the same things to both of them? they dont hang out together, they go to different schools. so is it a bad idea to say "i miss you" to both of them, and blah blah? or should i say different things to both?!
xo (link)
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In my opinion, you should choose one of them, rather than them both. Because if one of them found out about the other, or even someone found out and told one of the guys, it would really hurt their feelings. So I think it's best to choose one to be more than a friend, and let the other know you only want to be friends. :)
Good Luck!
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I'm a freshman in high school. And there are sophomores and juniors in my spanish class. So, everyday they bother and harass me. Today, it got to the point where they were trying to grab my boobs. They were kidding...but one of them grabbed my chest, hard and another guy HIT my chest, by accident. They didn't apologize...just shrugged it off...kind of like "Oh look at the freshman. Let's take more advantage of her". They laughed and went to their next class. I feel so violated and ....insecure I guess.
Help? :( (link)
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Listen, you have nothing to feel bad about, don't think you're over-reacting at all, because you're not. This is sexual harrassment, and I have went through something very similar to this before. I urge you to tell your mother, and get her or both of your parents to contact the principal of your school and take action, immediately.
These guys may think this is funny, but it isn't. You have every right to feel violated, because you were violated. This isn't because of insecurity, this is because those boys did something they definitely shouldn't have done, a big violation to you. Especially, because this is sexual harrassment.
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well ok and i just thought i live in the american too i was just asking any advice on guys would be helpful. (link)
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Oh, well, then we must live in another state. Being as different states, have different times.
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I want to ask someone a question, like anyone, about something, but like.. i dont know who to ask.? can anyone help me out? it will be like super long. & will take you awhile to read. i gurantee it. if i include it all. but like,youd also have to be realllyy really good at answering questions like always get 5s because to me, its like really important, & its messing everything up in my life. & i just have to fix it. soo, is anyone willing to help me? or no anyone on this site who will? (link)
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I'm sure many columnists would be more than happy to help you, as long as you have a relevant question. I'll answer your question, if you'd like to send it to me.
All of the columnistst that are listed in my favorites, are among the best, in my opinion.
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i was wondering if there is any way to delete some of the questions from my advice column. please help! (link)
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No, you are no longer able to delete questions. But if it's extremely important, DN may consider deleting the question(s) for you.
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Sorry is this is kind of weird but lately a lot of people have been saying " Who wears the pants in a relationship? "
I don't really understand what that means. =/ Thanks lol (link)
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"Who wears the pants in a relationship" is the person who has the authority and control in the relationship -- who calls all the shots.
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i am soooooooo bored. wut r sum good websites 2 go on? plz dont tell me myspace. (link)
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Here are some good sites --
*http://www.xanga.com
*http://www.vteen.com
*http://www.gurl.com
*http://www.seventeen.com
*http://www.myjellybean.com/chat
*http://www.stardoll.com
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i want to have sex with my boyfriend. but he is a couple years older then me and definitely way more experienced then i am. i am afraid that if i have sex with him then thats all our relationship will be about. and i dont want that. so should i just wait to have sex with him? (link)
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I think you should wait, because it seems that you're having some trust issues with him -- that are completely understandable. I've been through something like this before, and do believe it's best to wait.
However, I think it's a really good idea to talk to him about this, and how you're feeling. Communication is key in a relationship. So I would definitely have a talk with him, and tell him that when you're ready, you don't want your relationship to only consist of sex, etc.
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Hey im 13/f and i am having probs. with my boyfriend like im not mad at him and he's not mad at me but the thing is we keep on planning dates to go to the movies or go and get ice cream or somthing like that but then the day we are gunna do it he cancels and says he has to do somthing but then i find out that he is with a friend and he ditched me to hang with his friends and when i tried to comfront him about it he said i was tying him down so can you help me ????
LoVe,
Wants to cry (link)
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Any boyfriend, no matter how young or old should not ditch you. If anything, they should at least tell you the truth, etc.
I recommend breaking up with him, because it seems that you're looking for a bit of a serious relationship and he isn't. So I honestly, think you would be better off without him. Because soon enough, with the way he's acting, he's going to be slowing you down and hurting your feelings even more than they are right now.
You're only thirteen now, so you have plenty of time for a good boyfriend to come along, who will not ditch you and will want to spend lots of time with you, and treat you as you deserve.
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im a level one mod.
i know how level twos are chosen.
are there level threes and such also/ (link)
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There are level one, two and three moderators. More than likely, no more people will become level three moderators. However, if you work hard at this site, you'll probably be considered to be a level two moderator. Good luck!
Here's the moderator FAQ -- http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13
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ok do you live in another country then me because it is only 2:23 were i am at and were you are at its 3:20 or something like that and ok i will try to ask this senior to hang out but is it a good idea because i am a sophmore any advice would be helpful. (link)
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In the morning or at night? Well, either way, in the US, and where I live it's 5:30 PM.
Sure, a sophmore is dating my best guy friend, who's a senior. Good luck!
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Is there any way I can change my advice column name, with out getting a new account? (link)
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I believe if you have a good reason, DN (DangerNerd) will change it for you. You can email him at dangernerd@gmail.com
If you get a paid account, you can change your username, yourself, too.
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if ii`m sixteen &&` ii`m dating a 19 or 20 year old is that legal? (link)
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Yes, while you're sixteen it is legal to date a 19 or 20-year-old -- just you can't have sex, that is illegal.
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well ok well josh is still looking at me in class and i always look at him but in a mean kind of way i want him to stop because he has a girlfriend. oh and the senior i was talking about smiled again at me yesterday and i still think he like me.any advice then email me or just give me some advive would me very helpful. (link)
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I think the best way to stop this Josh, or at least give him a hint -- talk to him about this and let him know that he has a girlfriend that he should be staring at, rather than you. However, staring isn't exactly a crime, so I'm not sure what he'll say, honestly.
I would go for the senior, and ask him to hang out with you soon.
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15/f. when a boy asks you out in person, what are you supposed to say? you can't just say YES. that would be weird. what else can i say? (link)
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Guys like short answers, so you haven't been doing it wrong at all. A simple "yes" is all he needs to here. However, you could add something simple, such as, "Yes, I'd love to..."
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phisically to your body, when you cry does it do anything bad to your body? I was wondering because it's bad to cry yet some say crying it all out makes it all better.. (link)
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Actually, crying is a good thing for you physically, mentally and emotionally. It allows you to express your feelings (both happy and sad), and it's good for your eyes too.
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I was looking on the Abercrombie Kids (girls) website and I saw the bikinis. When I went to the store they didn't have them there! It's been a month since they were on the website and they're not in the store... does anyone know why? Thanks! (link)
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This depends, some clothing are sold at only select stores, rather than all of them. Also, some things on the website are not sold in store, you have to buy them there. So it could be either one.
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Okay to start of me and my boyfriend broke up last night we've been together for almost 2 years and i love him so much but hes such an asshole and i dont want to be with him anymore. I promised my mom i wouldnt get back with him. But he keeps calling. I dont know what to do why is he calling me. (link)
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In my opinion, you should break up with this guy. If he's an asshole, then you shouldn't be with him -- he's not treating you as you deserve, and should never settle for anything less.
He's calling (probably) to tell you how sorry he is, it will never happen again, and all the other stuff guys tend to say after we break up with them. But it's not worth going through again, because the same thing that's happening now, is more than likely going to happen again.
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