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two Boys
i like two boys. and so, i was wondering, is it okay to say the same things to both of them? they dont hang out together, they go to different schools. so is it a bad idea to say "i miss you" to both of them, and blah blah? or should i say different things to both?!
xo
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uhm, i dont think its really a bad idea, because you do like them and have feelings for both of them. You cant help your feelings, and if you mean what you say to the two boys, then i think thats okay. (:
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Hey. Well, no, it isn't bad to say you miss both of them, so long as you don't start telling both of them things like "I like you" and such. That causes problems. So, as long as you don't get into trouble, you can say the same thing to both of them.
Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
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IF YOU MEAN IT.. SAY IT. it doesn't matter if you say it to both of them.. all that matters is if you mean what you say... but i think your going to hurt one of them.. and that's not going to be very fun.. your going to feel like a bitch.. so you i think need to pick and choose right now which one you want to be with because they get caught up in you even more because it will only hurt worsee.
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okay i think that you are just like me because i have alot of boyfriends and i say different shit to all of them but you know who that goes i mean follow your heart and let your mind free who do you miss the most because that how i am right now so miss the one you really like because you know if they dont know each other then i think that you tell the one that you dont like that much to you know tell him about your other man ask him this are we in a tight relationship or are we free like we can see other ppl and if he says then go wit it and be yourself
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personally,i've been there before and although it may be fun and exciting to have both now,it will be stressful later.you should take the time to know both of them better and find out which one you could actually see yourself with and stick with him.you can't keep going back and forth because you will end up hurting them and then they will end up hating you and talking trash.do it for yourself if not for them because how hard is it to keep both of them updated???do you ever get confused???good luck,i hope i helped you.if you ever need anything,im here
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well if you really do then your just being honest to both of them right?theres no harm in that.Now,if your dating both of them then thats a whole different story.Let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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I also think you should choose one. If you end up saying stuff like "i miss you" to the one you dont choose, odds are he is going to get mixed signals and think that you like him in ways more than friends. You could end up breaking one of their hearts. It is fine however for you to choose one and still remain friends with the other one. Good luck, I know that's a tough situation to be in.
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In my opinion, you should choose one of them, rather than them both. Because if one of them found out about the other, or even someone found out and told one of the guys, it would really hurt their feelings. So I think it's best to choose one to be more than a friend, and let the other know you only want to be friends. :)
Good Luck!
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i think you should choose the one you like the most. word spreads faster than you think, if your with both of them sooner or later they'll find out. so i'd say see which one you like more and stick with that one. going for two boys is harder than it looks.
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