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There is this guy, he's older than me by maybe 10 years or more, And I really like him. We get along great and he's kind of flirty with me... Sometimes I catch him looking at me and when I look at him he smiles at me and then winks, When he talks to me he always puts his arm around me.. Or when i'm alone, he comes to me and starts up conversations. When he wants me to do something simple, he grabs my hands and talks smoothly.. I really have fallen for him and with him acting this way, I've gotten comfortable enough to act the same way around him and it's great... He's great... But the other day I overheard a conversation he was having with someone and found out that he's married... SO why is he treating me like this?? Does he like me? Or is it all in my head? I've talked to him a lot and i've gotten to know him a lot and he's never mentioned that he was married....
Oh and i'm 19, he's about 29 or 30... I've always gotten along with older people better... so it's nothing sick or weird! Don't judge me! haha jk (link)
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i know you might not want to hear it but its because you are still young,younger than him...he knows that he has that advantage over you because you are nieve.he whispers sweet nothings in your ear,trys to pull you in closer and closer until he gets what he wants.do not fall for it.dont tell him you know,turn his own game against him.do not physically do anything with him,as much as you may think you like him,you need to show him that he cant always get what he wants.do it for yourself,its only mind over matter.jokes on him...
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I feel like I need to talk to someone, about something that happened to me, but like. I can't talk to any of my friends. because there just no, theyd make a big joke out of it or something. & i deff. cant tell anyone related to me. like im starting to get desperatee. who else could i talk to? (link)
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PLEASE DONOT GO TO A SCHOOL THERAPIST!!!they will tell either the police,your family,or someone with higher experience,which will make you feel depressed.go to someone in a clinic or something and make sure that if you see someone you stick with the same therapist so you wont feel uncomfortable in any way.i hope you get the chance to tell someone
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so latly i've been feeling like there really isn't any reason to live life and keep on living... i don't know why but i'm just depressed and don't really know what to do about it. i haven't changed anything, i've just been living life... but the longer i do the more i feel like it's just kind of pointless.... so what do i do? what can i do? (link)
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i went through the same thing not too long ago and what you need to do is talk to someone.whether its someone you trust or a physician.you should hang out with family and friends who love you,and keep you happy.i know its hard but dont give up on yourself.fight for yourself and grow to love yourself again.dont let any negativity effect you,just brush it off.you can do it,i believe in you
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so there's a guy i like, he's hard to read, i don't show my emotions... he might have a girlfriend... there's another guy that is waiting on my reply to go out with him... the guy i really like doesn't get along with almost any of my friends... and with all of these complications i don't know what to do. do i make a move on the guy i really like? do i go out with the guy i don't really like, but really likes me? do i just hook-up with the guy i like? what do i do?!?!? (link)
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as much as you may feel bad for the one who really likes you,you need to do what you want to do.just take it slow and stop trying to read him.have fun,when the time comes,he'll open up and let you know everything there is to know.
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i like two boys. and so, i was wondering, is it okay to say the same things to both of them? they dont hang out together, they go to different schools. so is it a bad idea to say "i miss you" to both of them, and blah blah? or should i say different things to both?!
xo (link)
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personally,i've been there before and although it may be fun and exciting to have both now,it will be stressful later.you should take the time to know both of them better and find out which one you could actually see yourself with and stick with him.you can't keep going back and forth because you will end up hurting them and then they will end up hating you and talking trash.do it for yourself if not for them because how hard is it to keep both of them updated???do you ever get confused???good luck,i hope i helped you.if you ever need anything,im here
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I cut myself for the first time today. I'm afraid that cutting will become something that I do regularly. I need to figure out how to get over cutting, because i already feel like i'm a crazy person. pleaseee help!
oh and don't tell me to google. i did, and i read nearly all of the search results. reading some of them makes me want to cut even more.
i'd love to hear a response from a person who has gone through this. (link)
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ok...first you need to ask yourself why you cut,and how it felt.you are not a real cutter if you hesitate,feel pain,or just want a cry for help.if you really are a cutter you would rather watch yourself bleed than to cry.you wouldn't feel the pain because of the adrenalin,and you wouldn't be able to stop unless you felt satisfied.you probably need someone to talk to,you probably feel alone and lost in the world but keep in mind that you are never alone.if you ever need help,please keep in touch with me.i have myspace...my url is tast33tina.or you can find my email.beantownsrealest@yahoo.com.please dont be afraid to ask questions
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im 18 and i started talking to a 24 year old female who's number i got from a chat line. she said she was curious and i was too. we would text each other mostly all day . we talked on the phone a few times and she sounded nervous. she started telling me she wanted me to be her first and wanted me to come out to Buffalo to see her. one day i just decided to ask her if she had a boyfriend. she said her babyfather. i knew she had a 2 year old but i didn't know she was with the father still. i thought she was free and single like myself. i confronted her and she was like he knows that she talks to me. i got a little angry and ignored her for a few days. then i decided that i really liked her so i could over look that. so we were talking again and everything was okay until she asked me if i would have a threesome. i said maybe and asked why. she then texted me saying it has always been a fantasy for her and her babyfather. i got smart and said so now you guys just want to live out some fantasy? she said it wasn't a fantasy now and they want a little companion. I was taken off gaurd by that since that was never my intention at all. I then said to her that i saw what what they were trying to do and i wasn't even looking for that. i told her to find another first because i'm not the one and i'm all good. this was about after one something in the morning. around nine something i feel my phone vibrate in class. she actually had the audacity to send me a text saying "that was wrong how you dissed me" i replied back telling her that her and her man want a companion and i don't do those. i told her that i liked her not her man and asked how could you do that to me.? i even used her word back on her and told her that she was wrong as hell. finally to let her get the message i sent one last text saying "like i said. i'm not the one. have a nice life" it just makes me feel sick the thought of her and her man trying to bring someone into the relationship when they have each other. they might as wel get a dog because i'm not one.
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she was wrong and i think you should be very happy with yourself for telling her off.she should've told you what she wanted from the beginning instead of leading you on to leave you upset.i was talking to a female like that too and she did the same thing.i told her i wasnt into that and all i wanted was one.she didnt understand why i was acting like that but she got really angry and started to run her mouth.what that female doesnt know is that if her man tells her he wanted to have a companion or a 3-sum.....hes gettng sick of her.you sound like a great woman,and i can tell you have alot of self respect.thats one of the best qualities in the world.if you ever need to talk,im here.
christina
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hello,
my name is kelsey and i am 13 years old....ive been a cutter for as long as i was 11 or so. i cut for many reasons...my moms ex....was a mager alcohalic..and one night he cam into my bed room..and he was toaching me in ways i didnt like..i was only 8 years old...and lots of times he would beat my mom..and i waould hear her screams in mybed room...one day it was so bad i had to whatch i didnt no what to do....but the neighbors caled the cops..thank god..and my mom was taken to the hostbital. she was sent to a place so she could recover but she ran away...i had to stay with my grand parents for a week. when my mom left him 3 years ago i was so happy...but i still cut my self becuz i think of how how so many kids get a normal family and have a great child hood.but i dotn get to now.and now she has a new bf i will admit i love him hes very nice but some day i hate him with a pasion..please help me i dont want to cut anmore but i still love the pain....my mother knows i cutshe found out twice but doesn do anything about it...i dont think she loves me....please help me!!!!!
thxz..kelsey (link)
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IM A CUTTER MYSELF AND AT TIMES IT FEELS LIKE I HAVE NO ONE EITHER BUT YOU CANT WORRY ABOUT THAT.YOU NEED TO BE STRONGER THAN THAT.IM GOING TO GIVE YOU TWO STEPS YOU NEED TO MAKE,AND I WANT YOU TO DO IT FOR YOU.I WANT YOU TO SIT YOUR MOTHER DOWN AND ASK EVERYTHING YOU WANT...TELL HER HOW SHE MAKES YOU FEEL...BE COMPLETELY HONEST.THERE IS NO REASON FOR YOU TO FEEL LIKE THAT.IF SHE CHOOSES TO GET YOU HELP AND BE THERE WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY THEN I WANT YOU TO MAKE SURE SHE FOLLOWS THROUGH WITH IT.
IF SHE WONT HELP YOU OUT I WANT YOU TO GO TO THE CLINIC YOURSELF,OR SOMEONE YOU TRUST AND TELL THEM YOU NEED HELP.DO YOU WANT TO CHANGE???DO YOU THINK YOU CAN DO IT FOR YOURSELF???I KNOW YOUR STRONG.DONT LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN.
please dont keep doing that to yourself
christina
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