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Who really got dissed?


Question Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 10:35 am

im 18 and i started talking to a 24 year old female who's number i got from a chat line. she said she was curious and i was too. we would text each other mostly all day . we talked on the phone a few times and she sounded nervous. she started telling me she wanted me to be her first and wanted me to come out to Buffalo to see her. one day i just decided to ask her if she had a boyfriend. she said her babyfather. i knew she had a 2 year old but i didn't know she was with the father still. i thought she was free and single like myself. i confronted her and she was like he knows that she talks to me. i got a little angry and ignored her for a few days. then i decided that i really liked her so i could over look that. so we were talking again and everything was okay until she asked me if i would have a threesome. i said maybe and asked why. she then texted me saying it has always been a fantasy for her and her babyfather. i got smart and said so now you guys just want to live out some fantasy? she said it wasn't a fantasy now and they want a little companion. I was taken off gaurd by that since that was never my intention at all. I then said to her that i saw what what they were trying to do and i wasn't even looking for that. i told her to find another first because i'm not the one and i'm all good. this was about after one something in the morning. around nine something i feel my phone vibrate in class. she actually had the audacity to send me a text saying "that was wrong how you dissed me" i replied back telling her that her and her man want a companion and i don't do those. i told her that i liked her not her man and asked how could you do that to me.? i even used her word back on her and told her that she was wrong as hell. finally to let her get the message i sent one last text saying "like i said. i'm not the one. have a nice life" it just makes me feel sick the thought of her and her man trying to bring someone into the relationship when they have each other. they might as wel get a dog because i'm not one.



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xXnOoNEZtHEREXx answered Tuesday March 27 2007, 1:57 pm:
she was wrong and i think you should be very happy with yourself for telling her off.she should've told you what she wanted from the beginning instead of leading you on to leave you upset.i was talking to a female like that too and she did the same thing.i told her i wasnt into that and all i wanted was one.she didnt understand why i was acting like that but she got really angry and started to run her mouth.what that female doesnt know is that if her man tells her he wanted to have a companion or a 3-sum.....hes gettng sick of her.you sound like a great woman,and i can tell you have alot of self respect.thats one of the best qualities in the world.if you ever need to talk,im here.

christina<--

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katie_babey answered Tuesday March 27 2007, 12:36 pm:
Hi,
i think wat happened to you is wild lol. I woulda been shocked when she told me that. That just sucks for you because im sure your a great person and thats all she was basically talking to you for. i feel bad because you really liked her. I mean if i had a man already i wouldnt try to get another one thats just wrong to have 3 people in a relationship. Im surprised you didnt care she had a kid alot of people dont date girls with kids but thats good that you liked her for her and not because of her family or anyone else. i wouldnt talk to her anymore because thats a little weird and i dont think you want a man and a woman. I would watch out whos numbers your getting in a chat room. Ok?? well if you want to talk to me ever my sn is xoxokatiebabiixo
im me some time to talk and stuff. well if you wnat too and r u a female or a male because i dont think you have that in there lol.
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~katelyn~

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