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I`m Desiree

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What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks!

probably when you start having sex.. or maybe when you start your period.. ♥ Dez

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I am always annoying my mom! I always try to have some stay over and she says no then i ask y and she gets mad! the only reason she says no is cuz i ask her all the time! Can someone help me solve this problem?!

-Unknowm

do't ask her so much.. maybe ask once in a while.. or maybe try staying with your friends instead.. it might her happier to hear you want to leave once in a while.. ♥ Dez

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How old is it normal to be in luv or at least think you r? and what things might make you thnk your in luv, like what things would you do differently if anythin if you r?

well i think an age that you know your in love is about 15/16 years old.. usually when you 12 through 14 you have lil broken hearts over stupid stuff.. so then i think around 15 you figure out what you want and what you look for in a male or female.. things that might think your in love is like how somebody treats you.. how they act towards you.. their personality.. how they look.. maybe even lil things make you love em like how they do certain things or how they look when they do certain thngs.. usually when you are in love you think about how thats the only person you'd want to spend the rest of your life with.. you always think about them and get butterflies being with them or even just think about them.. you'd do anything for em.. you want to be there for them no matter what.. they'd basically be your everything.. ♥ Dez

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Okay, this is my third day using tampons and their great. But last night I found out I just stopped and it was my second day. It was the same with today. I'm like 99% sure that I took every tampon out. I came to a close encounter with almost forgetting one, but I didn't. That was only the first time that happened. Now today I have pains right where the tampon would be, and I checked down there and saw nothing. I need help right away. Thanks.

Well tampons can sometimes cause you to stop your period.. try wearing a pad for like an hour or less so your flow can start up again then you can put a tampon back in.. also the pains arent normal so id suggest maybe seein a doctor if it gets too painful or if they dont stop.. ♥ Dez

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hey i'm a girl thats confused,
i was wondering if u could help me on a matter thats been bothering me for a long while...well here goes
so i think guys are great and girls are awesome friends but i think i like girls too, i'm afraid to menton this to my bestest friend because i don't want her to think i'll wanna be more than friends w/ her because i like her better as a friend
thanks for any help u can offer

dazed_and_confused_alot

Well id suggest just tellin her that your attracted to girls and that she doesnt have to worry about you wantin more then friends with her.. tell her you like her as a friend and thats all you want to be with her..Just be real wit her.. ♥ Dez

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I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait?

Yes i think you should stick to what you thin is **right** and not do what your friends are doing.. and personally i think your friends mother is dumb for tellin her to have sex before not being married so that she would know what to do thats just stupid.. and thats basically givin her permission to fuck anybody what kinda mother says that to their child.. ♥ Dez

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do most jobs.. (for example - target, any restaraunt, walgreens, menards, etc.) hire 15 year olds if they have a workers permit? bc im 15 and i really need a job.. that doesn't require you to work the fry machine..

Yes they should hire you.. ♥ Dez

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i am 30 yrs old and married last 3 yrs but my wife is not happy with me i cannot satisfy her because my penis is small 4 inch in size and thin and my stamina power is also weak please help me i am not happy in my life how i will be able to satisfy my wife

Maybe eat her out or something like that.. buy a viberator or something for her and use it on her.. if she really loves you she shouldnt care.. ♥ Dez

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i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!

Make him macaroni and cheese to eat and give him chocolate milk to drink.. maybe get him some sort of cookies to eat for dessert or tell him he can have a cookie if he good.. ♥ Dez

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I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom?

No i dont think your too young.. just tell her thats the only piercing that you want until you 18.. tell her you will clean it and make sure that it doesnt get infected.. ♥ Dez

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I shave 'down there' and i do it because it's better for guys and if i dont shave,it'd itch really bad (even before i started shaving) So anyways i have to go to the doctors for a physical and they have to check there..what will the doctor say to me..and will they think it's ok i do?

the doctors arent going to say anything to you.. they dont care, they have seen many vaginas and probably even messed with nasty stinky ones that arent shaved., dont worry about it.. ♥ Dez

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how much weight could i lose until aug. 31?and how i will rate high

people say you can atleast lose up to a pound a week.. ♥ Dez

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(i`m a girl) my girlfriend`s birthday is coming up & i really don't know what to get her. i want to do something dead fucking sexy, so please give me some ideas of what we can do - she likes it dirty just so you know. and please don't say "blah blah if you know what i mean" because i don't know what you mean! lol so please just describe some kind of fantasy.. can we buy toys (we're old enough to get them) how should be use them, oh and how exactly do i eat her out? i mean she's sdone it to me, but i enjoyed it so much that i was hypnotized & i don't remember lol...thanks =)

Wow lol thats cool.. id get something you think sounds like it'd feel good like when you buy a toy find something that just sounds interesting.. like a viberator all you got to do with that pretty much is put it inside of her or rub it on her clit.. and when you eat her out just do what she did to you like finger her lick her clit and lick inside her pussy.. if she dont like it she'll let you know im sure.. well since she likes it **dirty** try handcuffs..whip cream..chocolate..strawberries lol.. have fun and sorry i answered so late i was on a fuckin campin trip.. ♥ Dez

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whats the difference between going out with someone and hooking up with someone?

Hookin up with somebod usually means doing something with eachother for like a lil bit.. going with someone means you actually have a relationship

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well, my mom doesnt know i am having the discharge thing, how can i tell her? i alwys email her but i dont wanna tell her though that way.... or talk to her in person eather.. or a note and that shizzz. i dont wanna tell my sister bc shel be like "okay idc" so how can i tell my mom?

this isnt a big thing.. just come out and tell her.. shes your mom she cant exactly blow you off or make fun of you about this.. ♥ Dez

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i wanna look really cute tonight to see my boyfriend. what should i do with my hair, & what makeup, & what clothes should i wear? like wae a black skirt or sumthing. it's really humid here. i really want to make him say "wow". any advice pleasee. thanks

Well wear your hair down most guys like to see their girlfriend have their hair down.. dont pack your face with make up cause that looks ugly just keep it simple maybe put eyeliner and some eyeshadow to bring out your eyes.. maybe a lil bit of some foundation or somethin if you are pale.. and you should wear something casual nothing real dressy.. wear like a cute pair of jeans or skirt and wear a shirt that isnt slutty but shows off your figure like something a lil bit low cut and tight to your body.. ♥ Dez

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The first day i get my period i always feel sick. i feel like i have to vomit and i get these really horrible cramps that actually make me cry. its only the first day i get my period. after the first day is over i dont even get cramps anymore..but my question is why do i get like that the first day of my period.

thanks

Well this happens to females sometimes.. you could see a doctor about it and they could give you medicine for the cramps.. ♥ Dez

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well this kid likes me and i only like him as a friend and he asks me out all the time..n i tell him i just want to b friends, he doesn't get the hint that there wont b anything more between us..what should i tell him that maybe he'll understand a lil better??

Well just tellin him over and over again even tho it might ba annoyin.. he'll eventually get the hint.. ♥ Dez

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does high school really suck? Should I be freaking out about it, or am I just overreacting?

Highschool is a bit harder in work but i dont think it sucks.. i think your over reacting.. ♥ Dez

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If yur on the 1st day of yur period, but yur flow is just normal, not heave and not light, can yu go swimming w/o a tampon? Like is there anything yu can use or do to go swimming w/o a tampon. Dont talk about how easy to use and comfortable tampons r, thats not what i care about. Plees help, i rate high

you should wear a tampon.. ♥ Dez

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