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this is long but i'll give u the highest rateing just plz answer..ok i lived w/ my grandparents my
whole life untill my grandfather died and so now i'm liven w/ my aunt uncle and cousin.well i had to move in a diff house and go to a diff school where i didnt kno n e one. and this was just a few monthes ago.well my aunt and i have always had a really good relationship till i moved in here but a few things happened and she didnt trust me n e more.i have never had to do and house work in my life till i moved in here.now she exspects me to do chores every day..its really hard for me to do this and her daughter has done then her whole life and my aunt is always sayin how she does her chores and i dont and i feel really left out..u no i dont feel like part of the family.she knos this and that i fell that she treats her daughter better i tell her that all the time.she is always sayin how my cousin gets good grades and is a really good kid...i have no clue wat to say to her that will make her understand how i feel...plz help me..

I think you should ask her if you can start by doing chores only once a week or 3 times a week until you get used to it. Then as you go along you can do more chores. Also, you had to have done something to lose her trust so you can gain it back by working extra hard and always being nice to her and doing what she says. Tell her that you love her but it's really hard for you to adjust to a whole new environment and it might take a little longer. Also, you can say you'll use the time that you're not doing chores to study or do homework and you'll get better grades. You don't have to be everything your cousin is, what you are is perfectly fine! I think you should tell her that you need a little more time to adjust to living there and that you will soon, but it would help a lot if you didn't have to do so many chores at first. Say that going to a different school is always tough and it might take a little bit more time for you to get your grades in line. Nobody is perfect and if you get A's and B's and don't have any problems with her then everything should work out great. Sorry its so long but I hoped I helped! You can leave me one in my inbox if you need anything! =c)
Good Luck!
Love, RacheL

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Well.. I'm not sure how to put this... last year before school ended.. I started liking this kid named Kevin. Well we dated.. and then decided we didnt know enough about each other to be together so we broke up. Then he said when he gets to know me better we will get back together. I've talked to Kevin ever since school ended and yesterday we hung out all day long.. and he really really likes me. and If i didnt have a boyfriend wed be together. I really like Kevin. My problem is. I have a boyfriend. And I like Kevin more then my own boyfriend. And I'm not sure how to break up with him. Without him knowing that I'm going to be with Kevin. :( Ahh man... I sound like a slut.

You don't sound like a slut.. this sort of stuff happens all the time. Just tell your boyfriend that you're sorry but you don't think you should be together anymore. Say that you don't like him anymore or you don't feel it's working out for you. Then wait a week or two and ask Kevin. Hope everything works out for you! Drop me one in my inbox if I can help you anymore! =c)
Love, RacheL

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i heard my friends talking about camel toes.. what exactly is 1 and how do u kno if u have 1? thanks alot

Camel toes are when you get a wedgie but not in your butt, in the front part =c). And it's not hard to know when you have one it'll most likely hurt. Hope I helped!
Love, RacheL

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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now and we talk all the time on the phone and online but when we get to school we dont talk at all! we haven't even hugged..! and like all we do is say hi or wave and walk away like we're in health and Intro to something together and like everyone always talks but we never do! well me and my friend Sam are going to watch him practice and the kid she likes practice for football so if you have any advice on how to get him to talk to me in school please hurry cause my friend is coming over now! alright thanks!

-I rate high-

Do you try to talk to him in school? You should try that if you don't already. Just go up to him and start talking to him in class. Maybe he's nervous when he's around a bunch of other people and not just you, or not just talking to you. I think you should try talking to him first and see what happens from there.. maybe he'll start talking to you =c) Leave me one in my inbox if I can be of any more help!
Love, RacheL

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If you never have or are new to the whole kissing scene....is there a way to tell your doing it right or if your good at it?

Sometimes the person will come right out and say, "You're a good kisser." It depends what kind of kissing you're talking about. If the person kisses you back and there's a lot of mouth or tongue action then you're proably pretty good. =c) Make sure your breath doesn't smell though. If the person wants to kiss you a lot then you're probably good or maybe he's shy. Hope I helped!
Love, RacheL

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ok I just started school and im new.its been about a week and 1 day and im starting to make friends.there is this girl that is nice to me her name is lauren.im sitting at a table with another girl named kaite and some people from my classes.a girl that is friends with the people from my classes comes up to me and says dont be friends with lauren,she is not cool etc etc.then some people move away.so now i dont know what happened or what to do.should I be friends with lauren who I sorta know and ignore the girl who told me to ignore lauren or should I not be friends with lauren and go with the people from my class (I like the people pretty equally)I have no idea what to do help please.
-mal

Do what feels right. Go ask other people if they like Laura and if she's nice. Then maybe you'll start making friends with them too. Just hang out with everybody, like a different person or people each day. You'll find out who's right to hang out with and who's not. Hope I helped! Leave one in my inbox if you need anything! =c)
Love, RacheL

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well there is this boy i really think i like him.. and my friends think i should go out w/ him and all this other stuff im like rite.. to go out w/ someone that means the other person has to like you back they say he likes me but i really dont think he does hes really quiet and im kinda shy so i never want to aproach him or when hes w/ his friends i dont want to say hi or anythang then so at school we really dont talk or anythang .. so what can i do to "flirt" w/ him i guess you could say or to just talk to him and stuff you know? well thanks.. oh by the way i rate well =]

Ohh I had this problem =c). You're going to have to go and talk to him otherwise if he's quiet he won't have the nerve to ask you out! Just go up and talk to him after a test or something and ask how it went and if he thinks he did well. If you're good in that subject and he's bad then offer to help him after school or something. If it's the other way around, suggest that he helps you. Just go up to him or walk past him in the halls and say hi, even if he's with his friends. Maybe he's worried about the same thing with you. He probably doesn't want to go up to you when you're with your friends. Talk to him about school, mean teachers, or ask him if he likes any sports or what his favorite music is. Tell him what bands you like. I'm sure you can get a conversation going. Hope I helped!! Leave me one in my inbox if you need anything else =c)
Love, RacheL

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Ok there's this one teacher at my school that i absoultly hate. She's my Spanish teacher and she's always talking about sex or naked people.. and sometimes it makes me really mad that she can't keep the conversation on Spanish so I get in huge arguments with her.. which is actually kind of funny =c). Anyway, I wanted to get back at her for all the times she's talked about non Spanish related stuff, and my friend and I were thinking about emailing her porn or other such stuff just for the heck of it. Does anybody have any good ideas to do to her or any comments? I'd appreciate all the help! **I rate specially for friendly people =c)**

Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))

I also have her house email address, not just the schools.

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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!!

If you actually do that then you will lose a lot of weight and trust me you won't be able to stop. I just think you should know that this could ruin your life but I can't stop you from doing it. The thing is though, from the lost weight it's possible you'll start getting stretch marks. And guys don't like girls that stop eating to lose weight. You don't have to fit into a 00 to be beautiful. You're beautiful the way you are. It's your choice though and I cant stop you. Well I hope I helped. Leave me one in my inbox if you need to!
Love, RacheL

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Okay, please Mods PLEASE do not delete this as I'm REALLY concerned!

Well, this girl at my school, she's not my friend or anything I don't know her that good, but she's pregnant. And, she's only 12. We're in 7th grade and all that, and she's expecting TWINS, she should get an abortion and all that but she wants to go through with it. At least that's what I heard, (I hear a lot of gossip. -__-;) Well, anyway, she also smokes and drinks, and she has purple hair and a ton of piercings, and I'm afraid if she goes through with it, her body won't be ready with all those drugs, and she's so young, and she might die...

She's got a pretty bad life, and nobody really likes her, but I still worry about these kind of things...and well, I'm not quite sure what to say to her to try to convince her not to do it. Can anyone give me ideas?

Sorry this was so long. =\

Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you're afraid that if she goes through with it she'll die because her body isn't ready for it. She might take it personally though. She's too young to have a baby and she's probably not strong enough. Birth is a hard thing to go through, especially twins with somebody that young. I hope I helped! Leave me one in my inbox if I can help you anymore!
Love, RacheL

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where do u think is a good place 4 a ffirst date?? ( romantic)

The beach. If there's not a beach near you go to a fancy shmancy dinner =c). Or if you want to do something different, go to a park and go on top of the monkey bars and watch the sunset. It may seem silly but it's sooo great! Believe it or not it's romantic too. Hope I helped! Drop me one in the inbox if you need to talk about anything else =c)
Love, RacheL

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Ok heres the deal ...
I got a fone going in to ninth grade my moms old fone its so old it doesnt even have games( and new ones cant be downloade) but my sister just went into ninth grade and my mom said she was going to get her old phone ( tyhe one she got new when i got mine) but when we got to the verizion place ... my sister came home with a brand new camera fone!! i just bought a car and i need the hands free kit ( new your state law) but my stupid fone is so old they dont sell the kits any more!! i asked my mom if i could buy a new fone with my own money and she told me no ! Its not fair that my sister gets a new fone fully paid for but im not even allowed to buy my own !! Its not even that i want the best ... i just want something new so that i can hook it up into my car! Ive tried every thing i can think of and please dont say talk to her cause it never works !

Go ahead and buy it. Yea, she'll be mad but if it's with YOUR money and you'd be paying for it she shouldn't have a problem! Personally, I think you should get one of those camera/video phones and make your sister jealous =c) but that's just what I think. Anyway, good luck! Drop me one in my inbox if I can be of any more help!
Love, RacheL

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Okay, this might sound stupid but here it goes: My friend is obsessed with the fact that I have a lot in common with her boyfriend. Whenever she brings up the subject, she'll call him and ask both of us what things we like, and if we say the same thing she'll scream and say that we're going to fall "madly in love." I've told her hundreds of times that he's going out with HER, and he obviously LIKES her! I've spoken to her b/f once, and I don't like him that way, but she's obsessing that he's going to break up with her for me.. whom he's never even met. She's mad that she has NOTHING in common with this guy, and that I do, and I don't want to lose her as a friend.. and she won't listen to anything I say!

Sorry for the long post, but any ideas on what I should do?

Wow, you're friends taking this stuff way too far. If you've never even met the guy tell her she has nothing to worry about... that you don't even know him and you don't want to go out with him. He likes her and he's going out with her. Maybe your friend and this guy should have a talk about it all. If she keeps this up she IS going to lose her boyfriend soon! Hope I helped! Drop one in my inbox if you need any more help!
Love, RacheL

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okay here goes..... this girl i been friends with for years we just recently kissed and after that kiss we about to do again till she stopped me she said she wanted to go throw with it but she cant casue of our friends... which i understand cause in the last 5 yrs she been with of 2 of mine and her friends already One was just a fling and other (which is my roomate) was serious for him and her not as much Well they broke up and he acts a a jerk to her but we all still chill in the same group ..... so the advice i need is how to make her forget about the past and just let us roll and see where it goes of course I dont want anyon eto know but she says that doesnt work(which it wont for to long) but i always like her and i feel like i just had my chance but i couldnt take it cause of this convo also i feel if we only kissed once (allnight long Though) why we having so manu convo thats a bad sign I just dont want to go back to being friends I told her i could do that and i can but i dont want to i know she dont want to niether so my question what should I do or should just do nothing and just hope out of nowhere oneday it will spark back up I dont feel like waiting though any advice let me know MIke

Ok, heres the deal Mike. Girls won't take risks a lot of times. They're worried about what people think. Tell her that if she really likes you then she would go out with you because you never know how it might turn out! You could fall in love and get married for all she knows. And if she never took that chance of going out with you and possibly getting hurt again, then her whole future will be changed. Just explain that to her. At the end tell her that if she still doesn't want to go out with you then that's fine, but you'd appreciate it if she'd think about it. Ohh and it'd be a real nice touch if you bought her some flowers and gave them to her and were acting really sweet the whole night =c). Girls just LOVE that! Hope I helped! Feel free to ask me any more questions!

Love, RacheL

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Me and my x-boyfriend got back together, and we are going to be in the same class when school starts (Augest 31st). I dumped him cause people were telling me he was cheating on me, but he gave me another chance, what if it doesn't work out? cuz we r gunna be in the same class

If it doesn't work out you can still talk to him. You can be friends. Or if you don't want to do that then just hang out with some other friends in you class and talk to them, or make new friends. Then you can talk or hang out with your other friends instead of him. Hope I helped!
Love, RacheL

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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!

Cutting is when people get a knife or a razor and slice their skin. They do it because they say it makes them feel better. How does it make them feel better? They say self mutilation (cutting) feels better because its physical pain instead of mental pain or like things like heartbreak or fights. Cutting is a terrible thing to do.. if your friends sister is cutting she should get some serious help like a therapist. Hope I helped! Ratings appreciated. =c)
Love, RacheL

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idk if this is the rite category but there really isnt one for it.. i have a trampoline and i was wondering how to do like a flip a back flip and other tricks so pretty much..
1) how do u do a backflip?
2) how do u do a front flip?
3) any other fun tricks to do on it?
thanks! aim: takemeaway032

What I do is jump really high and then just flip. Tuck your arms in though after you jump so you have less resistance.. it works for me. And I can't do a backflip very well so I can't tell you that. =c) Hope I helped!
Love, RacheL

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which works better to lose weight
yoga
pilates
aerobics
running


thanks!!

They all help to lose weight. Pilates are good for all over your body and it gives you stomach muscles its really cool =c). Running does it for the legs and aerobics is good depending what you do. Yoga is good for stretching though. Hope I helped! Ratings appreciated =c)
Love, RacheL

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ok do u think its bad like if u go with ur best guy friend 2 tha movies like kuz hes datin a a grl and she alwayz brings a friend so wuld it be wrong if he invited me and went i mean she knos were bffz and all but i jsut think she might get mad but im not 4 sure like if it wuld look bad or wutnot...??

If she knows that you guys are best friends and they're going out then it should be fine. I mean if you guys are just friends she shouldn't care if you go to the movies. You're just friends! =c) Ratings appreciated
Love, RacheL

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My first day of school is soon and I'm going to be a sophmore in HS. Some freshman boys, that I know are coming to my school, are very mean to me and start rumors. One of them is my ex boyfriend and he always says spreads mean things about me. I don't know what to do, because the things they say about me are embarrasing and horrible. I'm so scared that the whole school is going to be making fun of me when they come. How do I stay calm and make sure they don't start on me this year?

Ignore them. Or laugh with them and say jokingly ohh yea it's so true! and act sarcastic. Maybe you'll even become friends with them. Just don't start saying stuff about them, that'll probably just make it worse. Hope I helped! Ratings appreciated =c)
Love, RacheL

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