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which person should I choose?


Question Posted Tuesday August 31 2004, 5:40 pm

ok I just started school and im new.its been about a week and 1 day and im starting to make friends.there is this girl that is nice to me her name is lauren.im sitting at a table with another girl named kaite and some people from my classes.a girl that is friends with the people from my classes comes up to me and says dont be friends with lauren,she is not cool etc etc.then some people move away.so now i dont know what happened or what to do.should I be friends with lauren who I sorta know and ignore the girl who told me to ignore lauren or should I not be friends with lauren and go with the people from my class (I like the people pretty equally)I have no idea what to do help please.
-mal


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Additional info, added Tuesday August 31 2004, 5:58 pm:
the person (not her friends)is the only person who told me to ignore lauren,I dont know how the other people in my class feel.everyone treats me nice so I dont know what to think .

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 3:39 am:
NEVER judge any1 based on what other people say... judge people for yourself... tell ur friend thanx for lookin out... but u can take care of urself... be friends wit everyone... doesnt diss any1 cuz sum1 else wants u too

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UnluckyWishes answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:14 pm:
you should be friends with lauren and your other friends.I mean just because someone isnt popular or whatever really isnt a good excuse not to be friends with someone.You should do what you want and be friends with who you want.Just do whatever makes you happy.Hope i helped.

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xForeverxForgottenx answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 6:57 pm:
well try asking some of your friends how they feel about lauren. if only one girl told you that then i dont see why you cant be friends with both sides. no one should tell you who to be friends with. and if people stop haning out with you just because you're friends with someone, means that they're not good friends to have. hope i helped. good luck.

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BrunetteBeauti answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 6:57 pm:
which of them r better friends n r nice nd friendly?? dont listen 2 other ppl.u can b frienz w. both

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Jamison answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 6:31 pm:
Hmm...I would just hang out w/ people who are true/good friends. And I don't consider a good friend someone who says that Lauren's not `cool` enough. Who is that girl to classify her not cool anyway? haha. Just hang out w/ the people you can trust & know will be good, honest, loyal friends to you. Thats what I would do. Don't ever do something just to fit in....be your own person & hang out w/ people you wanna hang out w/! gOod LuCk~~ .XoXo.

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xoRachel answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 6:16 pm:
Do what feels right. Go ask other people if they like Laura and if she's nice. Then maybe you'll start making friends with them too. Just hang out with everybody, like a different person or people each day. You'll find out who's right to hang out with and who's not. Hope I helped! Leave one in my inbox if you need anything! =c)
Love, RacheL

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JohnDeereStuff answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 6:15 pm:
Who the heck cares what's cool. If your friends are mean to this girl just because she's not 'in', they're essentially not your real friends.Get to meet this girl, and if your friends still bug you about it- hey! you're your own person, you can let them know that as long as you want to be my friend, I'm also friends with Lauren. Hope this helps.

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Sherry answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 6:06 pm:
Dont listen to the chick thats like dont hang out with lauren , hang out with who you wanna hang out with...and if the girl gets mad at u for still hanging out with luaren then she wasint a real friend ne way

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