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Anyone know what i should do
okay here goes..... this girl i been friends with for years we just recently kissed and after that kiss we about to do again till she stopped me she said she wanted to go throw with it but she cant casue of our friends... which i understand cause in the last 5 yrs she been with of 2 of mine and her friends already One was just a fling and other (which is my roomate) was serious for him and her not as much Well they broke up and he acts a a jerk to her but we all still chill in the same group ..... so the advice i need is how to make her forget about the past and just let us roll and see where it goes of course I dont want anyon eto know but she says that doesnt work(which it wont for to long) but i always like her and i feel like i just had my chance but i couldnt take it cause of this convo also i feel if we only kissed once (allnight long Though) why we having so manu convo thats a bad sign I just dont want to go back to being friends I told her i could do that and i can but i dont want to i know she dont want to niether so my question what should I do or should just do nothing and just hope out of nowhere oneday it will spark back up I dont feel like waiting though any advice let me know MIke
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Look if you like her - dnt worri bout wot ure friends think, if they were good enough friends they would understand. Id say go for it - just follow ure heart. U'll kick ureself if this doesnt spark up agen later on, wont ya!!
hope i helped!! xxxx
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Ok, heres the deal Mike. Girls won't take risks a lot of times. They're worried about what people think. Tell her that if she really likes you then she would go out with you because you never know how it might turn out! You could fall in love and get married for all she knows. And if she never took that chance of going out with you and possibly getting hurt again, then her whole future will be changed. Just explain that to her. At the end tell her that if she still doesn't want to go out with you then that's fine, but you'd appreciate it if she'd think about it. Ohh and it'd be a real nice touch if you bought her some flowers and gave them to her and were acting really sweet the whole night =c). Girls just LOVE that! Hope I helped! Feel free to ask me any more questions!
Love, RacheL
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Well,maybe ask her out to dinner or someplace nice and quiet where you guys can be alone,and talk this thing thru.Or,you could always give her a letter.Let her know that you have always had feelings for her,and you would like to take things further in your relationship,but that you want to take it slowly.Let her know that you don't really care about her past with the two guys(although just a word of advice,don't lose a good friend for a girl.your friends will always be there,while g/f's come and go).Tell this girl how you feel about her,and that you think because of your long-time friendship,you could have a really good relationship.Tell her all the things you like about her,and all the things that make you not care about her past with those other guys.It's not a bad thing to have a lot of convos rather than jump into the physical right away.That way,you can establish what you each want and don't want in a relationship.Let her know how you truly feel boy,there's never any reason to apologize for saying how you feel!That's like apologizing for being real!Tell her you want to keep this between you and her for now and let things go and see what happens,but she should definitely know how you feel!! Hope this helps some! ;)
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take her out to a really nice place n tell her how you feel! buy her flowers or something too be really sweet about it-girls love that! n just let her know how much you like her.. watever your thinking or watevers in your heart just let her know.. tell her how much you like her and how you wont hurt her n u love spending time w/ her and everything.. n just tell her that your not like those other guys and you know how to treat her well.. most of all-just give her a night to remember! n dont rush anything.. if that doesnt work just talk to her a lot n flirt with her!! eventually things will happen.. it seems like she likes you but shes scared to jump into a relationship with someone because she doesnt want to get hurt.. but u gotta prove to her like your not like you friends or the other guys shes been with! so prove her wrong! =P
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