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i am 12 years old n i weigh 100 pounds i am 5 foot n i think i am REALLY fat cuz n i have been thinking about going anerexis or making my self throw up . but then i think bout wut if my mom found out she would kill me . how can i do this with out her finding out ???????????????? (link)
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ok well you shouldnt go anerexic for one thing. its not good, you lose all your energy and you get lightheaded often. but you cant diet. start drinking a lot of water. it makes you feel fuller so you wont eat as much. and for me i usually eat things slower then a lot of people and i end up getting fuller faster. try walking a little bit more or find some way to bend more. but drinking water really helps to decrease your apetite. hope i helped. and please dont go anerexic. if you need anything else you know where to find me. :-)
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Hi my name is Jess i have this really really close guy friend who has been my friend since 1st grade now he has a g/f and i dont like him but for some reason i feel jealous. Could anyone tell me y im jealous? (link)
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maybe you feel this way because now she might become his best friend too. and you might just be looking out for him since you've been friends for a while. you dont want to see him get hurt you know? you just dont want to lose him and you think that you might...that would be my guess anyway. hope i helped. :-)
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okay well my two best friends started going out... why does that bother me???
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well you might feel this way because now its like they have something between them that doesnt really include you. maybe you feel like things are going to change(i hope they dont) and that it will just be them or something. and you just dont want to lose them. sorry, i havent been in this situation so i can't really help. but good luck.
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this is long but i'll give u the highest rateing just plz answer..ok i lived w/ my grandparents my
whole life untill my grandfather died and so now i'm liven w/ my aunt uncle and cousin.well i had to move in a diff house and go to a diff school where i didnt kno n e one. and this was just a few monthes ago.well my aunt and i have always had a really good relationship till i moved in here but a few things happened and she didnt trust me n e more.i have never had to do and house work in my life till i moved in here.now she exspects me to do chores every day..its really hard for me to do this and her daughter has done then her whole life and my aunt is always sayin how she does her chores and i dont and i feel really left out..u no i dont feel like part of the family.she knos this and that i fell that she treats her daughter better i tell her that all the time.she is always sayin how my cousin gets good grades and is a really good kid...i have no clue wat to say to her that will make her understand how i feel...plz help me.. (link)
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tell her that you're in a different school now and you're still getting used to it and also tell her that you're not your cousin (i have to remind my family constently..sometimes they even call me by her name...) and tell her you're not used to doing all of this but you'll try your hardest and also tell her you feel as thought you dont fit in with her because of this. but just try harder and i hope everything works out. let me know how it goes...hope this helped at all.
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My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have. (link)
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ok even thought this is still concidering talking to him, ask him why he does it. and show him like pics of lungs of people who do and don't smoke. sorry, i really dont know what to tell you but i hope this helped even just a little. good luck.
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Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!
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well, you're not the only one with a small chest. you'd be suprised how many girls in hight school are just like you. and if a guy doesnt want to go out with you just because your not a D or anything, then they're not worth your time. just dont worry about it and just be yourself around guys and im sure they'll go out with you. hope i helped.
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Hi ok im 14 and well ive never been kissed.. i mean i could have been kissed a couple of times but i kinda said i didnt want to but i wanted to so bad its just i dont know how!! i mean what if u bite the other persons tongue or what if they bite you!? and then what if the other person has braces and u get scratched or sumthing else??? like idk i just keep on getting this ideas in my head and get paranoid!! i dont think ill ever kiss anyone unless its just like a peck.. please HELP!!!!!!!
p.s can u give me tips and how to french kiss??
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ok, just calm down lol. dont be nervous or anything...ok i know you really cant help that but kissing just comes to you when you do it. theres not really a right way to do it. and as to if you bit the other persons toung, just make sure your mouth is open...you'll know. trust me. hope i helped. good luck.
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ok soooooooooooooooooooo i have a little problem that i jus cna't seem to fix on my own alright so my best friend was going out with this guy who i've become like really good friends with *which is mucho weird but w/e* and so they broke up early this summer and now we've *guy and me* have gotten closer *well i think so* anywhoo so now EVERYONE AND THERE BROTHER think i like him WHICH i dont cuase i mean yea were friends but he went out with my best friend and its not like that would be ok either way BUT what makes matters worse is that my best friend seriously thinks he likes me and i'm like nooooooooooo were jus close....
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i have no idea what to do
pooheads
oh and if that didn't make sence sorry!
thanks
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just ignore what other people say, they dont matter. and just talk to you best friend about it. tell her that you dont like him and he doesnt like you and that you're just friends, aslways have been just friends and stay just friends. and talk to the guy about it and see how he feels. you can get through it together. if you just have one good friend, its better then having a handfull of not-so-good ones. hope i helped.
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If you never have or are new to the whole kissing scene....is there a way to tell your doing it right or if your good at it?
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well kissing kinda just comes to you. and sometimes guys will just come out and say that you are a good kisser. and its kinda hard not to do it right...i mean there isnt really a certain way that you have to do it. hope this helped and if you need anything else then just leave something in my inbox.
lots of luck
~Kare
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ok I just started school and im new.its been about a week and 1 day and im starting to make friends.there is this girl that is nice to me her name is lauren.im sitting at a table with another girl named kaite and some people from my classes.a girl that is friends with the people from my classes comes up to me and says dont be friends with lauren,she is not cool etc etc.then some people move away.so now i dont know what happened or what to do.should I be friends with lauren who I sorta know and ignore the girl who told me to ignore lauren or should I not be friends with lauren and go with the people from my class (I like the people pretty equally)I have no idea what to do help please.
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well try asking some of your friends how they feel about lauren. if only one girl told you that then i dont see why you cant be friends with both sides. no one should tell you who to be friends with. and if people stop haning out with you just because you're friends with someone, means that they're not good friends to have. hope i helped. good luck.
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well there is this boy i really think i like him.. and my friends think i should go out w/ him and all this other stuff im like rite.. to go out w/ someone that means the other person has to like you back they say he likes me but i really dont think he does hes really quiet and im kinda shy so i never want to aproach him or when hes w/ his friends i dont want to say hi or anythang then so at school we really dont talk or anythang .. so what can i do to "flirt" w/ him i guess you could say or to just talk to him and stuff you know? well thanks.. oh by the way i rate well =] (link)
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have one of your friends find out if he REALLY does. like the friend you trust the most to tell you the truth. and guys will talk more when they're online so you could maybe try that. hope i helped.
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ok why does every 1 say drink water to lose weight? wat does it do? and why do they say cold water is better? how does it make u lose weight?? (link)
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well it helped me because my stomach was fuller(or something like that, not really sure) but anyway when i drank more water my apetite lessened. hope i helped.
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okay.. there is this guy who ive known for about two years.. and we have always just been friends.. and yea... so i asked him to ride the bus home with me today so that i wont be all alone and he did.. and when we were on there... he asked me.. "will you giv me a chance? " and i laughed and was like.. no!! because i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt and he got all sad.. and he got off at the next stop.. and it wasnt even his.. but yeah.. i feel bad.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean.. he is really nice and i would HATE to hurt him.. but yea.. what do you think i should do tomorrow when i see him?
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tell him that you thought he was just joking. and that you're sorry if you hurt him. and then if you like him then yeah give him a chance. but if you dont then tell him that you're sorry but you dont see him as a boyfriend and that you still want to be really good friends. hope i helped. good luck.
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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now and we talk all the time on the phone and online but when we get to school we dont talk at all! we haven't even hugged..! and like all we do is say hi or wave and walk away like we're in health and Intro to something together and like everyone always talks but we never do! well me and my friend Sam are going to watch him practice and the kid she likes practice for football so if you have any advice on how to get him to talk to me in school please hurry cause my friend is coming over now! alright thanks!
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go up to him and either start talking to him youself, like hi, whats up and all that. or talk to him about it and ask him why. he might be thinkging the same thing you are. so take action and go up to him. just start the conversation. hope i helped.
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okay well hi u know how i told u bout me and my b/f how he wuz goin in to High school and im still in 8th well...we broke up! I cried all day saturday and a lil sunday. I miss him sooo much and i still love him. We broke up because we neva saw eachother nemore and he wuz jus too busy for me and it wuz too hard for him because i guess all his friends have g/fs at skool! Every day it gets harder for me to not talk to him. Every day i wonder if he still loves me and misses me he told me when we decided to break up that he still loved me and he gonna miss me soo much but that wuz then and this is now! Will i eva get ova him???? is there nething i can do to get ova him??? PLZ help! Kaila (link)
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well yes eventually you will get over him. and he might not be the one for you. it will be hard but someday you might find this other guy and realize that what you had whith the older one wasnt really love. you only thought it was. just try to keep buisy so you dont think about it too much. if you ever need to talk or anything just leave something in my inbox and i'll be happy to help. hope i helped you at all. and im sorry that you guys broke up.
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I have asked a lot of people for advice on this, but no one has an answer. I start school tommorow.
On the last day of school last year, 8th grade, I sort of asked out this guy, Alex, whom I liked and who liked me, by saying "If I dump Jerry will you go out with me" (yes i know im a jerk) and he said he would and I said we hadda hang out over summer. I really did intend to, in the beginning of summer I called him a few times and there was never any answer. Then I went to a lot of camps, but I did have some time in between. I went out with this guy during one camp but we sorta drifted apart. Now school is starting tommorow and it's going to be so awkward. I don't know what to say to Alex...I did intend to hang out with him, but it just didn't work...And I don't know if I like him anymore or what seeing how I haven't seen him all summer. I need advice real soon on what to sasy to him tommorow and how 2 handle this thing. It's a pretty sticky situation. Thanks. (link)
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alright, well let him come up and talk to you. it will be easier then trying to figure out what to say if you go up to him. and tell him that you tryed to call him but there was no answer. and ask him how his summer went or something. hope i helped at all.
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okay i like this guy and he likes me. well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but 2 days after, were already broken up ! he said he needs to get to know me better and i totally agree no hard feelings there but what i dont get is why cant we get to know each other by going out? i asked him why he asked me out and then broke up but he said "i jus dont think i really know u well enough" or does he not want to go out and thats why he said that, but like after that hes like i still like u but i jus wanna get to know u better maybe wen school starts. and the day after i seen him at the movies and i waved and smiled--so did he and i knew i liked him alot. do you think we eventually will go back out ? or do you think he jus doesnt like me even though he said he did .. (link)
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just let him get to know you. he might be the type of guy who really does want to know the girl enough before they go out. which means hes not a total jerk. it might turn out better this way. hope i helped.
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Well im 16 and lately I have been feeling really lethargic and sad. I have cried pretty much every single day or I have been in a bad mood and didnt want to do anything. I can never fall asleep at night and when I wake up in the morning I am still tired and want to go back to bed. I took some tests online and one of them said that "The likelihood that you have major or clinical depression is high." and I took a few more and they pretty much said it was high. But I cant tell my mom or step dad about it because they will tell me im fine like they always do. They will say im just overreacting and its not a big deal. But I have been feeling like this for the past year or so, not constantly but it just gets bad sometimes. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do? (link)
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writing helps me when i feel like that. and talking about it. if you ever want to talk to someone(and its easier talking to someone you dont really know...like someone who isnt involved in why you feel this way) you can always leave something in my inbox and i'll be happy to talk and/or just listen. hope i helped. and feel free to leave something in my inbox.
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well through out my life i have always been pretty sad and thinking how ugly i am when people all the time say im so pretty and everything i just dont belive it well anyways i never seem to be happy about anything and i dont know what to be happy about i guess im sorta depressing but love being happy and smileing but i never seem to feel that why ever can you tell me some things i should be happy about cause i dont know anything and i dont wanna turn gothic? (link)
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well im the same way. and it sounds like you are depressed. i have to take pills for it and it only helps a little. if you want to feel better, try writing. it really does help. try doing something that you like to do and go with it. like for example: i love to write poetry. and i have a whole bunch of pomes and i write about how i feel in them. but if you ever need someone to talk to just leave one in my inbox and i'll be happy to talk or just listen if you'd like. hope i help and please talk to me if you want to. i dont want you to end up like me.
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well...i am a cutter. i have been cutting for about a year now. by the way i am 13 and female. i want to know why i feel so great after i do cut. its like nothing is wrong after i cut. i have tried to stop....but it has never worked.
also... do u know where i could find other people that are self addmitted cutters? (link)
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i have cut in the past. and i'd be happy to help you stop if you'd like. my sn's blinkbabe2469. feel free to im me any time. but you feel good after it because its like you forget about why you cut and you just concentrate on the fact that you've cut. i used to love to watch myself bleed. i haven't done it in a couple months. so i'd be happy to help you stop. hope i helped.
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