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Sticky Situation
I have asked a lot of people for advice on this, but no one has an answer. I start school tommorow.
On the last day of school last year, 8th grade, I sort of asked out this guy, Alex, whom I liked and who liked me, by saying "If I dump Jerry will you go out with me" (yes i know im a jerk) and he said he would and I said we hadda hang out over summer. I really did intend to, in the beginning of summer I called him a few times and there was never any answer. Then I went to a lot of camps, but I did have some time in between. I went out with this guy during one camp but we sorta drifted apart. Now school is starting tommorow and it's going to be so awkward. I don't know what to say to Alex...I did intend to hang out with him, but it just didn't work...And I don't know if I like him anymore or what seeing how I haven't seen him all summer. I need advice real soon on what to sasy to him tommorow and how 2 handle this thing. It's a pretty sticky situation. Thanks.
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Tell him the truth. Just tell him that you don't think things are working out to great and that you rather be friends for now. I mean, you guys didn't talk the hole summer. He probably thought you guys weren't "together" anymore. That's probably why he chould have not returned any of your calls. So, when you get to school just tell him you rather be friends. I'm pretty sure he'll understand and everything will be cool.
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If you tried, or intended to, that's what counts. What you could do tomorrow is say, I had a really busy summer, and I bet you no how it is. So ask him if u can hang out over the weekend or something, and ask if u 2 could go out seriously. Say like, since school's started, I'm alot more focused and will have time 4 u. Hope I helped!
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Well, at least you tried. But when school starts try and be friends, just friends, with him at first. After a while and you still feel things talk to him about it. It might take a while for things to stop feeling so awkward but wait a while and if you two go out it will have been worth the wait. Good luck!
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well 2m c wut happens. if u still hav feelings 4 him bcum better friendz den c wut happens from there.
good luc hon
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alright, well let him come up and talk to you. it will be easier then trying to figure out what to say if you go up to him. and tell him that you tryed to call him but there was no answer. and ask him how his summer went or something. hope i helped at all.
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