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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.
Don't worry about it. Why do people get on and ask these questions when it's really not affecting them at all? If it bothers you so much then go join a newspaper a do a column there and stop whining.
I don't know what to do for my friends 13th birthday(dont worry im 14) any ideas? she wants me to throw her one
Get some of her/ur friends together and go out to eat. Have them be already there when u guys arrive. And just tell her u want to take her out to eat for her bday.
Me and my best friend have been best friends for a while, but now that i got a boyfriend, she is acting all weird, and trying to prove herself to me. She told me she didnt like me going out with someone, and i dont know what to tell her, or what to do, because i dont want to break up with my boyfriend, so what do i do to make her ok w/ me again???
Are you acting different or not spending enough time with her? I've heard people ask who are the friends feeling left out. It took a lot of guts for her to confront you about it. Just talk to her and ask her what you're doing differently.
Okay, this is really odd, and kinda random, but I had an idea the other day. When it's warm enough here to go outside and stay there coatless for hours on end without freezing, I want to grab my boyfriend and do a photoshoot type thing of him. I'm a good photographer, and I have such images and ideas in my head. The only catch is, he won't agree to it unless he can take shots of me...Of course, I'd say okay to this if he didn't want to take them of me nude. Lol.
Now, I hate to admit it, but I really do hate my body. I'm not very comfortable with it, and I don't want any memories of my body...lol. But I'm so utterly determined to get shots of him. I have ideas, and I want to stick with them. I want to see them happen. The thing with him, is he hates his body as much as I hate mine, and is convinced he's not photogenic.
What can I do to convince him to let me do the photoshoot? I just want ideas. I'd appreciate no "lap dance" or anything like that. I'm serious about this, and I'd like ideas as to how to get him to agree or (better yet) want to do this with me.
Do u want to take pictures of him naked? If you don't then I think he's just trying to get something out of it. If he has clothes on then you can't see his body right? Sounds like he's overreacting, just ask him a couple more times and tell him he can get pics of you, just not naked. If he doesn't agree then you could borrow a friend and take pics of him. Good luck!
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this might be confusing. but here goes. ok i liek this guy named matt and ive liked him since last summer and he likes me too. every time i talk to him im so happy and i cant stop smiling but the thing is he lives in denton and i live in flowermound. (texas) so i never ever see him so it sucks. but the thing is at my school (FMHS) theres this one guy ive liked since the beginning of football season and he liked me and all but nothing ever happened besides we kissed one time during truth or dare but thats not the point. i still like him and he told me he likes me but neither of us want a boyfriend or girlfriend. he told me he just wants someone he can be really good friedns with and flirt with and he wants it to be me. well heres the bad part, this other guy likes me and i talked to him on the phone last night for like 8 hours. it was amazing. so i kinda liek all three guys and all 3 liek me and i have no idea what to do!please help! ill rate you veryy high if you give a good answer
Go Flomo!
for the last few nights ive been wking up really early for some reason. i havent changed anything at all. ive been going to sleepa t about 11 for over a year now but for the last few days ive been waking up at like 4:30 insteadof aroudn 8 or 9 like i should be (im in college) anyone wana offer an explanation? ill rate high unless you piss me off.
It could be ur eating habits. But go to a doctor because i'm sure there's A LOT of possibilities!
The situation is as follows:
-I would like to buy a digital camera
-I would like fairly decent zoom ability
-I would like removable storage
-My budget is $200
I've been trying to do some research but I'm feeling pretty confused. There are so many options and I know so little about all of them. Any advice from people who actually have a digital camera or know a fair amount about them would be fantastic. Is it possible to get what I want within my budget? What brands should I look for?
I have a camrea, from Sony. And um.. it's a good camrea. Try going to a camrea store or even somewhere like Target and ask the people working there. Your best bet is to go to a Wolf Camrea store (or something like it) and get their opinion. Then, once you've chosen your camrea there go look around for the best price. Good luck!
How lond does weed stay in your system. because iwant to apply for this job but there doing a drug test and i dont know when to take the application. i smoked yesterday.
thursday January 20, 2005
First, try going to a rehab center. Then you won't even have to worry about drug tests ever again! It's fabulous.
my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he idd'nt have time for a girlfriend school and training. So he broke up with me and was realyl rude about it saying all I did was care about myself and I was self centered. But yet last night he had girls over at his house. He has time for hoes but not a girlfriend? I'm really confused I really love him and everything what should I do?
Sorry, but the guy doesn't like you anymore. He just said that to be 'nicer' about it I guess. He's just hanging out with friends, get over it. He's not part of your life anymore, he's not being rude to you. He broke up with you. He's moved on and so should you.
My family believes very strongly about lots of things. One of those things is legal marajuana. They think if somebody in the USA wants to smoke pot, let them. Pretty much everybody in my family smokes pot except for me. I'm 15 years old. I think they're wrong. I don't think pot should be legal because it makes people do stupid things. But so does beer and other alchaholic drinks. But they're legal. So I think maybe they should not allow alchahol or pot. I'd like to point this out to my family but I don't want lectures. What should I do?
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You might just want to keep it to yourself. I completely agree with you, and I'm sorry your family does pot. Try to be strong and don't do it yourself. If you really want to say something.. just like during dinner if you get on a pot-related subject simply say "I don't think pot should be legal" Let it go from there. Good luck!
I just dyed my hair medium brown and I really like it. How do I keep the color from fading? Are there any special shampoos or techniques I should follow?
Basically, you can buy any shampoo but look at the labels. Some say not good for colored treated hair, i use Dove- Lightweight Intense Shampoo & Conditioner and it says it's good with color treated hair. Basically just read the backs of the shampoos that you already trust.
This may seem like a random and completely dumb question to some, but I'm actually quite serious in asking this. My question is that why is it that young girls ages 12-14 and some even younger, feel that they NEED to have a boyfriend just to fit in? You girls don't understand, when your time comes to have a boyfriend, you'll find someone who will like you for you. Also, my other question is why do you feel the need to dress provocitavely, exposing your breasts, butt, and stomach just to look "sexy"? You don't need to be showing all of that to look sexy. You can be completely covered up and still look gorgeous as ever! That was just my random question for today. Any young girl that feels that way, you can feel free to answer.Thanks.
Well, personally I want a boyfriend bc I haven't had one yet and it makes you wonder if something's wrong with you. And what do u care how people dress? If you have that nice stomach why not show it? Stop worrying about what other people doing and focus on urself.
Does anyone know that song website where you can burn CDS off of it and its free. It's called like "Wind ___" (something) I forget what its called adn I really want to download some songs cuz its totally free.
Does anyone haev any idea what I'm talkinbg about? please help if ya can. Thanks so much.
Wellll that'd be illegal but hey knock urself out. Go to google and they'll find it.
hey, well i am a 16 yr old girl. 2 years ago i was in a bad car accident and fell into a coma. i was in it for 2 years and i woke up a week ago. well, i am kinda out, and well i was wondering, what kind of stuff is in? stores, music, fashion, hair and stuff like that. i am kinda confused! thx!
Woaa seriosly? Bc I know i'm going to feel like a loser if you're joking but what the hell..um.. Go go the mall. A good mall. You can see what you like. OO or get some magazines. A punk style and name brands are kinda "in". Hahah and basically the 80's are coming back fast. Good luck! Bah.. I hope this isn't a joke. haha
lol ok i have my bedroom done in flower/bright colors etc. ok well i want to do my room in like a cocoa brown comforter orange sheets, light blue leather accent pillows...etc. ok well wat color should i use for curtains...and would it look good with light color furniture...like light wood color....and instead of doors over my 2 closets...if i put like curtains goin down kinda like shower curtains....would that look good...but about the curtains over the closets...not shower curtains real material and stuff.....LoTs Of LoVe...ThAnKs In AdVaNcE
That was really confusing. But I personaly like doors for my closets. You could do the showr curtains to separate your room.. depending on how big it is. Does the blue and the orange clash? Just wondering.. for more ideas you can go to www.pbteen.com. Look around and get a free subscription. They have GREAT stuff!
im 15 and offered to watch my brothers instead of going out with my friends so my parents can go out. Its now 1:00 AM and they still have not returned. Im annoyed because its not fair that they think they can stay out til all hours of the night while i sat home on a friday night for THEM. If they were planning on staying out this late they should have told me. Honestly i have no idea what their out doing putzing around about..Am i wrong for being mad? How should i express how im annoyed at them? i understan that they are adults and a child has no right to yell and act like their parent..but im just annoyed with the lack of consideration i guess
Of course you're annoyed. Hell, I would be too. But yeah there's nothing you can do and it sucks.
Last year i went to this valentines day dance. my best friend had a girlfriend and i didnt and i felt like a "tag-along". he has so many girls that like him and i think it might happen again this year. i was thinking that i might try to ask someone too but i dont really like anyone so i dont have anyone to ask. I was just going to find someone that i liked a little bit and ask her but im not sure. Should i ask somebody or should i go alone like last year? What should i do? Please help.
Just ask someone. Worst case, ya'll won't get along but it beats being alone. All girls want is someone to ask them so just do it! You don't have to be looking for a relationship. Good luck!
Aight well i have this friend and she used to like this guy named jeff. Well jeff asked her out but recently just told her he liked me more and bragged about me and soo forth. Well she said no and broke jeff's heart. Well now jeff is madly in love with me and he wants to go out with me. And now my friend is starting to like jeff a little more also. I really want to go out with jeff, but is it okay that i go out with someone my best friend has previsouly liked i don't know but i really want jeff.... But again i don't want to end our relationship...
Sincerely,
Loved friend
Just ask ur friend if it's okay!
Ok, i made a new ID, because my other column got really messed up. But, whenver i try to sign in on my new account, it will not let me. It says that the username/password is wrong, but i even copied the username and password to make sure it was correct! It still went invalid, does anyone know whats wrong with this?
After you sign in incorrectly it should give you the option of getting a new password- try it!
A few days ago..i had a small fight with one of my good friends which is cleared up now. However, during that fight..one of my more distant friends who gossips and gets into EVERYTHING said to the friend i was fighting with "oh dont worry, melissas always like that" (saying i get angry and have a lot of outbursts)This isnt true..and im sick of her getting into peoples business! I want to confront her because she talks behind everybody's back then when she talks to you face to face she pretends everything is ok. I dont want to start an arguement..but this is just annoying me. She gets involved with everything!!!!!! How should i confront her..or should i not confront her?
You could try to confront her, but you might just lose a friend and she most likely won't change. No matter how you put it, she'll get mad. You don't have to be tight with her, there's a girl like that on my tennis team and I just think it's funny, but at the same time she doesn't talk about me. My advice, I wouldn't confront her. But might not want to be as close as you were, (i wasn't sure if by distant you ment awayness or how close you are).