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Q: Why do people hate each other for no reason?Why are we scared of others when we shud be scared of ourselves? Why isnt life simple? Why does racism still live in the south? Why do we do the things we do? Why do you fool someone only to be tricked by yourself? Why cant i find these answers myself? Why do u care to answer these questions? Why?

$01hL

UHHH...wow that was really confusing!! People hate each other because they are jealous. I dont get the second one...Life is only simple if you make it that way. Racism still lives because some people live in the past and need to get a wake up call. We dod the thing we do because thats what we choose to do. lol... I dont understand the next question. I care to answer these questions because i feel like it and im an advice columnist..haha...thanks Chris for sending me hard questions that really dont make sense..lol
~!*Cogee*!~

Q:

ok.. i was hangin with my friend when my other friend and her friends came 2 hang out with us and i was goofin off being kina weird and she got mad at me because i embarrised her in front of her other friends and that frusturated me because she chose to hang out with me and my otheer friend

wut shud i do

Well i know who this now....maybe you should apologize to your friend about embarrassing her. Sometimes you need to watch what you say too. Yes it could be her fault if she decided to come over there but you need to watch what you say. I know you were probably just trying to be funny but just watch what you say because you could really hurt someone.
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: my dad said hed move near me so i wouldent have 2 drive so frickin far but hes thinkin about gettin a house like a million miles away wut do i tell him?

Well tell him that you would really like to see him more often and that you would really like it if he would just move closer to you. But maybe the reason he is moving further is because of his job. If it is then you have no control over it. Just give him the puppy dog eyes...lol
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: ok heres the thing.. i like this guy... and we started off friends... and were doing this thing in one of the classes i have with him and he flirts with me all the time and i flirt with him..but he wont ask me out!! lol and i REALLY REALLY like him....

what shall i do! lol

Tell this guy you like him!! Chances are he might like you too. Or if your too scared to tell him have your friend find out if he likes you. You can ask me to do it if you need anyone (unless this is someone from my old school). I'm always there to help! Just leave him hints that you like him. And just keep on fLiRtInG!! haha
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: i am so confused because my best friend just moved to atlanta. no one is on my side anymore. no one likes me. im SO depressed! i think she doesnt want to be my friend anymore. how do i get happy again????

Just because your best friend in the whole world just moved to Atlanta doesn't mean that ya'll can't still be friends. 2 years ago my best friend since 1st grade moved and i was really sad too. You just have to move on and try to make new friends who will like you for who you are. Keep in touch with your best friend still. About once a year probably in the summer you and that person should get together. And obviously people like you because you know me and if your asking me a question and you have my screen name then most likely i know you and like you. I have no clue who this is though.
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: my mom and dad said if i dont get a B im off the basketball team but about a week ago i had a 67 and i dont think i can pull it up 2 a B in only 2 weeks

WUT DO I DO!

Ask your teacher for some extra credit and tell them your situation. For your next test or even homework study really hard and stay focused on that. Just work as hard as you can!!
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: hey wats up you know i love you, you are my world and you are the key to my heart and that will never change

I LUV U SO MUCH

ok i am soo hoping thats blake and not some weirdo...anyways if this is blake...I LoVe YoU tOo!!
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: DO you LOVE me because i LOVE you?

I LOVE BABE

Haha i know who this is...I Luv Yah!! lol ill talk to you later...

Q: Sometimes (no names) some girls TRY to be a blonde and asct like one .... im a blonde and it makes me mad when people try and act like someone they aretn... becuase its really obvious of what there about to be stupid about..whats should i do??

Just ignore them...all they do is try to get guys attention. But they could actually be really slow in the head. Not academically but like joke wise. Like me for instance i have naturally brunette hair but then i got blonde highlights. I have always been really slow at jokes and i dont do it purposely at all. But i have seen girls who do it purposely and yah its really annoying. When you see them just tell them to shut up...well maybe not that mean.
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: AHH!

okay..it always feels like my boyfriend doesnt likeme.

he like never talks to me but talks to other girls.

and on top of that, someone else always thinks they can butt in to our relationship and...

grr.

please help.

The reason he talks to other girls is probably because he can relax around them. He might feel like he has to be the "perfect" boyfriend around you. Tell your *his* friend to stay out of the relationship and that its making you kinda mad that he keep butting in. *He* just might be upset that you took his friend away from him and your probably all your guy talk about.
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: its that one chick again...
with the guy who doesnt talk.

well...
the reason is the friend always gets in the way.

it makes me kind of sad..

cause i like him a whole bunch...

and i dont know what to do...

Ok...if you really like this guy tell him that you wish he would talk more and tell your friends that when you and him are talking and spending time together that they should respect you enough to just stay out of the way during that time. But also remember that its always friends come before guys. So spend time with your friends and your boyfriend. If he still doesnt talk even when your friends aren't there then he is probably just really nervous because he likes you a lot. But if you want someone that will talk then you have no other choice but to....(i think you know what i mean, if not ask me later)
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: courtney...help me!
im so frustrated! with just about everything!
me and my friends always get in fights....and it so frickin retarded! i have way to many things to do after school and crud....along with loads of homework! i swear...isms is all a bunch of drama and crud. i wish i went to kms...or something.

ok take one big deep breath and relax. Now first lets deal with you and your friends fighting. I think i know who this is so i kinda know whats going on. you probably just think that ya'll are in fights but whatever is going on just confront your friends and tell them to just quit and that it is getting really retarded. For the after school stuff...well in 5th grade i did a bunch of after school activities and i also had 3 hours of hw every night...not a good plan. so i chose one or two that i could live without doing for a while and it helped. i think you should do the same. For the hw issue...ok write down all your hw assignments and write when they are due right next to each one and sort them. Take it each day at a time. Just remember God will never give you more than you can handle so i know you can do it! DONT go to kms because you are still gonna run into drama...thats just life! I hope this helps you...I GOT YOUR BACK!!
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: courtney is the greatest.i LOVE her! :-)
--Becca

OMG BECCA!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! your awesome (my word)lol see yah later!!
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: im annoyed.

well it would kinda help if you explained to me what you are annoyed about. Otherwise i cant help you. SORRY!
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: whoever sed that, ill find out who u r and rip ur little skanny off, (ur u no wut) and cody will 2. So u better whatch who talk 2 like that cuz we got cogees bak.

-edaw dna ydoc

Ya'll are AWESOME!! HAH whoever wrote that about me we are all gonna find out and i got wade and cody and yah they got MuScLe!! You better watch out! Thanks wade!
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: Alright now listen whoever made that comment i will find out who u are!!! I will hunt u down! Cogee is a good girl! I got ure bak always cogee

~ydoc

OMG what would i do without you? you are awesome! Thanks for always having my back you are a life saver! i know who this is and you are AWESOME!!
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: hey dude..

get this--

MY FRIENDS AND I ALWAYS GET INTO FIGHTS! and ITS TWO PAIRS OF BEST FRIENDS WHO JOIN AND WERE ALL BEST FRIENDS. but like, were best friends with the other person..its complicated.

anyway...yea. its always so competitive.

its annoying.

LOL..

Yah i understand how that is. Try talking to them about it. Just dont let it get to you and if you get into a fight you will probably forget what you were fighting about in the first place after awhile. Lots of fights begin with jealousy so that could be happening also. Don't make friendship a competition.
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: okay, whoever said that about my dear courtney is a SAD sad person.

the real insecure person is YOU, little nerd!
you have NO right whatsoever to judge people. the only One who has the right to judge is God!

and by the way, youre lying about nobody.

because there is a Big Guy upstair who CERTAINLY loves my courtney to death!

..and dont forget about me :-)

-k t e o g r

Thank you so much! By the way for whoever reads this, this person who is telling me this meant to say that the person who wrote the mean thing has no right to judge people. This person just made a typo...lol. Your so sweet. thanks again!
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: uhh sorry but cogee half of these arent even real questions and your still answering them but w/e
neway how do you get over someone?

Im not exactly answering them...especially the mean ones. I know someone is playing a joke on the stupid ones but o well im an advice columnist what an i supposed to do? Anyways back to your question. Well i dont know if your a guy or a girl so this one is gonna be harder. Well if you really wanna get over someone try to find someone else or better yet just think to yourself "alright this person is now just gonna be my friend and thats it and i have to move on" But if you still like this person then let them know how you feel. The best thing you can do is just stay their friend and talk to them like you usually do. Thanks for asking a real question unlike other people.
~!*Cogee*!~

Q: i want more guy friends -not bf's but bff's
any good ideas??? I rate GOOD! :) thx everyone

Just be yourself around guys and talk to them but dont flirt. and dont lead them on to thinking that you like them. Just talk to them like they were one of your friends that are girls just leave out all the fashion stuff. guys get annoyed by that.
~!*Cogee*!~

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Hey! yah well most of ya'll know that i LOVE to give advice and can keep secrets. if you don't want to say who you are when you ask a question you dont have to! i hope ya'll LOVE my advice column!
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