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OK. I kind of like this guy. He's really sweet but I don't really know him too well. He's also a good Christian and he's not just all about sex. It's nice to meet a guy like that. He seems like he likes me too but I can't really tell. He kind of acts like he's trying to blow me off. What should I do, seriously?

Just try to get to know him better. Let him open up more and then maybe you guys can talk about dating. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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ok soo my face is fine in the mornign wheni get ready for schhool, but then by the end of school my face is soooooo oily, what can i do, besides pound more powder on, cuz i hate to wear a lot of make up, its jsut really shiny, and gross.. but yeah like i i ahte wearing tons of make up, i jsut wear anough to loook natural, and nothing works i've tryed translusent powder,a dn all taht and i do clay masks liek evry three days, what do yuo suggest?

Trey using Clean and Clear facial whips. They would help clean you face of the oils that are there. Wash your face daily too. Hope my advice helps!

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My bestfriends boyfriend is comming on to me and me and him have a past because we were about to date but then my bestfriend hooked up with him instead.At first i was mad but eventualy i got over it.well they have been going out for 9 months and now he told me he has feelings for me and wants to be with me but he still goes out with my bestfriend and i like him to but i dont want to hurt my bestfriend.please help me and what should i do.

Even though you like him and vice versa, I think you should respect your friend feelings. If shes your best friend, you wouldnt want to hurt her. If she would find out about you and him, then things could be disasterous. In the long run, a friendship is way better that any boy. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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well, ya see, me and this guy have been going out for like.. 7 months or so. i REALLY like him, and my friend thinks i'm in love with him. my parents HATE him, so i didnt tell them. they talk bad about him ALLLLL the time, and drives me nuts. my friends talk bad about him all the time too, and they know about us. i never get to see him, but my best friends think he loves me too... but.. he never tells me this or anything.. i really wanna break it off, cuz he says the meanest things and such, and my friends are like.. EHH.. but when we're together, i can't help but gaze into his eyes and want to kiss him... any ideas?

I think you should break up with him. If he says mean things and stuff then he probably isnt worth it. Besides if your parents dont like him, they probably have a good reason why. It might seem like love but I think in the longrun, it would be better to break up with him. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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well let me tell u the whole story well it all happened today. well i went to the theater with my friend and her family and stuff well we waited for her mom,dad,sister, and brother and when they got there he just kept looking at me. well when the movie finish we went outside and stuff and i notice he was still looking at me of course i was blushing and felt funny!! well me and my friend left with her aunt to my friends house well we got locked out and stuff so we waited for her mom and family to come well like an hour later they came and her brother kept looking at me and yea i thought he was hot.well they were cleaning thier house and every time he passed thru my friends room he always look and stuff well we went to a gig (a party for rockers)well we got there and me and him started talking to each other and then my friend went out to hear the band and me and him just sat and talk thats when he took out a bottle cap saying if it lands heads we are just friends but if it land tail we have to make out i was cool with it and we made out alot and i ask him was he just making out with me for fun or because he liked me and he said noo am no doing it for fun and i dont understud what he said but i think he said i like you or i love you and after he said that he kiss me in the cheack and we just started talking again and we tried to hold hands but we didn't want any body to see us we did hold hands but just for a while. now i really like this guy but am not sure if i should tell my friend?? And i dont know if i should start a real rlationship with him??

It sounds like he really cares for you. I think you should tell your friend. See if its okay with her first though before you go out with him. It might feel weird to her. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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Ok, So last night (Saturday night) I met this girl (17 bout 4 months younger than me) and we talked, kissed, etc, Then she left and I got her phone number. Well, It's Valentines Day Tonight at midnight, and I was wondering if it would be too soon to ring her at midnight to wish her a happy Valentine? Or should I wait until morning? Any advice within the next 2 hours would be much appreciated! Btw I am 17/m

~Evilenterprisesinc

There isnt anything wrong with callin her at midnight. She'll probabaly be happy because you thought of her and you cared enough for her to wait that long into the night. Just make sure she isnt sleeping if you decide to call her at midnight. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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i heard that if you jumprope at a fast pace for 5 minutes straight thats equal to running a mile.. is that true?

It is true. But that means you need to do it fast paced and non stopping. Hope my advice helps!

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ok i had a great boyfriend and we were in love and everything. we were together for almost 11 months. well lately he`s been being a jerk so i called it off. well last night my guy friend came over and we went with my sister and her friend out to eat. he didn`t have to be home at a certain time but he hated my sister`s friend so he left early and we didn`t get to hang out much. he complimented me and made me happy. he asked me on a double date but i kind of changed the subject. well i realized that i really like him (again) and when i told the 11 months guy he got really upset and he won`t talk to me. well i told the guy i was with last night that i like him and he told me he`d get back to me cuz he had to do sumn and he`d be right back. but he didn`t come back. i just don`t know. please help me!

Maybe your guy friend got a little scared off when you said you liked him. Just give him a liitle time to figure out what he wants to do. As far as you ex is concerned tho, he has no right to be upset because you arent going out with him. Hope my advice helps!

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OK so my boyfriend got me a lot for Valentine's day and all I got him was a teddy bear. I cant think of anything else to get him. If anyone has any ideas at all please help me!! Thanx so so so much , I rate high.

Try getting him candy or a cd, and maybe baking him some cookies. Hope my advice helps!

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My old bff spread rumors that i was cutting myself and had social problems when i was out of school one week beacause i had mono. Everyone believed them and it about ruined my social life i had no friends for about a month then i met my new bff. The old one apologized and we are friends again but she always tries to start little fights between us like i couldnt talk to her crush or ne other boy cuz i have a bf. Wut should i do? friends or not friends?

I wouldn't be her friend. If she had the nerve to start a rumor about you once before, then she might do the same thing to you in the future. Also if she keeps purposly starting fights, she isnt a very good peson. Hope my advice helps!

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ok so me and this guy who lives around the block lives directly behind my house...(i can hop over my fence and be in his backyard)me and him and our parents used to be BEST FRIENDS...id be over there everyday and wed go everywhere together same w/our parents...well that was when i was like 7 or 8...now im 15 and so is he...my little brother got ina fight with kyle (the boi) and my mom took my bros side and his mom took kyles side and they didnt talk for like 3 years...well my mom and his moms till talk and i talk to his mom too alot...she takes me to skool sometimes...but i dont talk to kyle at all sometimes i say hi and stuff...his mom is always saying how cute i am and im beautfil...well i like kyle...i want to start talking to him again but its so awkward...we liked eachother when we were 7 and we kissed once and that was our first kiss...but it would work out so perfectly if we did go out...id see him all the time and we go to diff. skools so it wouldnt be too much....i really want to just start talking to him again!!!

btw his mom had a baby like 6 months ago and i go over to see it sometimes and i use that as an excuse to go talk to him lol but i ahvent done that for a while bc i dont knoe what to say when i talk to him!!

also hes really shy hes never had a gf cuz hes so shy but soo much gurls like him!! ahh help

Just go over there and start up a conversation. Also maybe you can get a bunch of people together to go to the movies or somethin and then invite him to go along. That way he knows that you still want to be his friend. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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I'm falling for a really good friend of mine, Chris. He likes me also and we talk about dating.. we've kissed and gone on a few dates already. In June I'm moving back home to texas for college and I was wondering if it's really a good idea to date him when I'm leaving in 3-4 months. I think I know the right answer, but I'm torn and curious as to what everyone else thinks.
Thanks, I rate.

I think you should date him. Even though you are going to be leaving, if you work hard now to build a strong relationship, you guys wont have any problems when you are seperated. That way even though you are seperated, you will still have him to look forward to seeing when you visit home. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out!

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Latley everything has been so messed up. About 2 and a half years ago i was diagnossed with Annorexia Nervosa - my boyfriend has recently found out, and same with his family. He told my best friendand she called me in tears. i know he`s only looking out for me but they just wont get off my back about eating and not b/p now. They think its so easy to just become better with a snap of my fingers. My best friend told me shes afriad to talk to me about it and my boyfriend yells at me about it like its suddenly going to "fix" me and change everything. I feel so alone in all of this. Ive tried explaining the details of it, why it`s caused, how its caused, the syptoms and everything but they just cant seem to understand better. how do i deal? (ps i know i need to "get help" and believe me ive tried but every time i try i choke up, run away and start crying) helllp!!

I think you need to talk to a parent or close adult friend. If you really feel like you need help, you dont have to go through this alone. As far as your friends are concerned, just tell them that its not easy for you. They should understand. Hope my advice helps! Feel free to im or email me anytime! ~Jenn

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i have a rescuedog and he is so placid but is very scared of men that he dusnt know.yesterday we were about to take the dog out so he was waiting by the car when a man came to give me a leaflet.he went to say hello to the dog,he got threatened nad bit him on the ankle.the man said he was ok and i gave him a plaster it wasnt a big bite just about a cm long.now my dad wont let the dog in the house and wont walk him.the dogs freezing and shaking outside what can i do to get my dad to like him again.?hes never bit anyone before.

Try telling your dad that the dog is freezing and tell him that you will look into obedience or something like that. There are people out there who will work with dogs like him. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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im 16 and havnt had a period for just over a year.im not preganat cos i dun tests.i cant have cancer so young can i?i stopped having them about a month after losing my virginaty.i havnt got std cos i ahd a screening.wahts wrong i started like when i was 13.neone know?plse help swn cheers xxx

You might not want to, but you have to go seee a doctor. You are at a high risk of cancer. Going to see a doctor would be the safest thing to do. Hope my advice helps!

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If you're an advicenators columnist then maybe you've see this question. It was about this girl who is 2-1/2 months pregnant with this guys baby and she claims to want him alot. I wrote to this person that no guy is worth it no matter what his excuses are. (this is assuming the girl is still in high school you understand) I gave her information on where to get more help and advice, including a website and phone number. Was that the right thing to do?? I'm really lost and unsure.

There wasnt anything wrong with telling her that. You were trying to help her. I think you did the right thing. Hope mny advice helps!

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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?

Signed,

Freaked out Friend

Sorry about that other answer...it was a mistake. But anyway I dont think it would be nosey because you are concerned. Just go on over there. Hope my advice helps!

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Hi does anybody know where a 14 year old boy can find a part-time job that isn't a paper round? Cos i really need the money.

I rate 5 for anybody who tries to answer

Try applying at a grocery store or a fast food resturaunt. Most places however won't hire people under the age of 16. But try those places. Good Luck! Hope my advice helps!

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therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?

Tell him to get a life. He obviously isnt worth it if he would do something like that. If you want to get revenge though, dont do anything he would do. Dont stoop to his level. Hope my advice helps!

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My parents got divorced and i'v been living with my mom, brother, and step-dad for over a year. I feel really bad for my dad because he lives alone and seems lonley. I think he should get a pet too bt he works and say`s he wouldn`t be able to take care of it and stuff. I think i want to live with my dad, but if i do i know my mom will cry and get alll upset.. :/ what should i do or say?! Plez help

Try talking to your mom. Im sure she'll understand. If your worried about your dad, then I dont think she'll be upset or anything. Hope my advice helps!

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