well, ya see, me and this guy have been going out for like.. 7 months or so. i REALLY like him, and my friend thinks i'm in love with him. my parents HATE him, so i didnt tell them. they talk bad about him ALLLLL the time, and drives me nuts. my friends talk bad about him all the time too, and they know about us. i never get to see him, but my best friends think he loves me too... but.. he never tells me this or anything.. i really wanna break it off, cuz he says the meanest things and such, and my friends are like.. EHH.. but when we're together, i can't help but gaze into his eyes and want to kiss him... any ideas?
swimbabe1092 answered Sunday February 13 2005, 11:00 am: Break it up i tried to keep it from my parents once and it was BAD so if he says bad stuff he probly has a reason. You shouldnt do every thing ur friends say but if i were u i would believe them on this 1. if he's mean to other people chances are he will b mean to u. He's like a dog, if he has chased a car in the past, chances are he will in the future. If he has been mean in the past chances are he will b mean in the future! hope i helped view my column
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gsngirl7 answered Sunday February 13 2005, 10:23 am: I think you should break up with him. If he says mean things and stuff then he probably isnt worth it. Besides if your parents dont like him, they probably have a good reason why. It might seem like love but I think in the longrun, it would be better to break up with him. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens! [ gsngirl7's advice column | Ask gsngirl7 A Question ]
I went through a situation almost exactly like that two months ago. I would break it off because if he is really hurting you don't let him. It's not right, you are his girlfriend and look at the way he is treating you! You also have to remember, Love is kind. If he loved you he wouldn't be so mean. :) Don't waste your time on a jerk get a dom (a gentleman)who deserves a kind hearted girl like yourself, also hunny, there are PLENTY of other fishes in the sea who have eyes like your bf or maybe even more handsome eyes & there WILL be PLENTY of more guys to come into your life but you know as the saying goes, Like stars, there are so many guys, but only one will make your dreams come true :). Love is worth waiting for, even if it means forever :)
Good Luck :)
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