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So I am almost 15 and everyone says i act and look like i am about 17. And there is this guy, he is 18 and he is supper sweet and nice. And not like other guys. And I like him and I am pretty sure he likes me. And dont think he is some nasy guy looking for some. He is a virgin, has had like 2-3 girlfriends, and has only gone to like 2nd base. He's a good guy. Im a freshman and he is a freshman in college, is this wrong?
like think about it, it is 4 years apart. my parents are 5 years apart, and there are people who are like 10 years. and i know its all a matter of maturity and i guess i have it. just, i dont know what to do. and advise, thought or anything would help.

Thank you!

i dont think there is any problem with it at all, age doesnt matter, love matters. as long as you both really like eachother and you are SURE hes a great guy that you would feel comftrable dateing
talk to your parents about it (approveal)

but it does matter about maturety, i personally think its fine but talk to your parents about it and talk to him about weather or not you should date (if he does like you) but one thing BE CAREFUL
=]
good luck
--ashley

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I have overplucked my eyebrows. Will they ever grow back to normal or would I have to shave it all off?

I want this http://www.netpakistani.com/media/artimages/eyebrows.jpg

?

The starting of the brow looks good. Mine is way off.

Mine KINDA looks like these:
http://x59.xanga.com/7a8a90f7c463277638304/z52618941.jpg

http://www.andreaharner.com/archives/AndreaandJerriBlankforweb.jpg
[The woman on the left. Hah look, it's jerri. :x ]

One of my eyebrows looks kinda good and the other just looks really small.

the best thing to do is fisrt if you over plucked them grow them out then get them done at a slon and show them the picture of the shapeing and arch you want, then from there you can just keep tweezeing them regualry (or waxing) to keep he shape up

if one eyebrow in skinner than the other, then i would tweeze the other skinny so they match, then just leave them to grow out more, and when plucking only tweze the excess hair growing on the bottem and the space between your 2 eyeborows so they grow bigger, and fuller.

after they grow out go get them done so there even and get the shape you want!!

goodluckk
--ashley

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My mother and I can never get along. We don't agree on anything and we're always really bitchy toward each other. We fight about everything and anything. Frankly, it's to the point where I can't take it anymore. I'm not saying it's entirely her fault. Sometimes I feel that I have anger management issues, but I'm trying to better myself. I've just gotten so much hate built up towards her that everything she does angers me in some way. She acts like she's perfect and she is trying to control every aspect of my life. We have considered going to counseling, but I know my mom very well and she would never take a shrink's advice because she can never admitt she is wrong, like I can. I admitt that I have a short temper, but she won't admitt that she nags about EVERYTHING and always thinks she's right when it comes to decisions about MY OWN LIFE. How can I deal with her? I don't want to shun her from my life, but at this point, I just want to get away and never see her again because all these fights are destroying my life. Does anyone have the same problem? How can I deal with this?!

ive been going through the same thing, exept i was the one troubleing to admitt to my tempers

me and my mom are working on a stronger realtionship
but i still refuse to go to counsleing for i belive only us two can solve this together.

my parents go to councleing about out family relationship, and what me and my mom do is insted of my mom bugging me about my personal life and nagging me and once and a while we sit down and talk about things.. i still dont talk to her about personal things but we still talk about many things and get along better. so just something as simle as a talk can ake a stronger relationship

have you and your mom both make a list of things you dont like about how they deal or treat you
ex: nagging, not listening, judgeing b/fs and freinds, rules, yelling, etc.

best of luck!!
--ashley

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yaa this is gonna seem like the weirdest question on earth..but here goes.

i recently got engaged, and umm well..i dont know which hand my engagement ring shud go on. my fiance sez left hand, and so do his friends. my friends and my parents say right hand. and we tried googling it online, and we couldnt find a straight clear answer. its not really that important...but im curious to know which hand?

its suposst to be on your left cause its closer to your heart

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does anyone know of any print catalogs that you can order by mail that have crystal or artificial jewel hair clamps or sticks.



are any of these what your looking for?

http://www.alltribes.com/Hair-Jewelry-c-165.html?utm_source=google&utm_medium=ppc&utm_content=b&utm_campaign=barrettes&002=68&005=828341756&006=286409876&007=Search&008=&gclid=COiMlbamhIoCFQ4hgQod5g9HMg

http://www.adorable-hair-accessory.com/bridhairac.html

http://www.adorable-hair-accessory.com/allbarrettes.html

--ashley

i used these links for another girl's question simial to yours hope you dont mind

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I am 14 female my boyfriend's 15. And we have been together for 7 months on tuesday. I love him so much and he loves me. And if please dont mention how im to young to be in love blah blah blah i dont wanna hear it please. But we have done everything except for have sex. that's the only thing. He bought condoms we know how to do it. We have a safe and comfortable place. I want to do it but im getting scared. We are most likely going to do it next sunday. I am getting cold feet, but i dont wanna tell him that because im afraid he'll never do it. When im with him i want to so badly but when i am alone and can think without intruptions i get frightened. Like for example im worrying about if i get pregnant, we arent even supposed to be doing it anyways. Is it normal for me to be afraid, not just of getting pregnant but just nervous?

its totaly normal to be nervous but trust me, your not ready yet, u may think you are but if your so nervous and scared then dont do it. i know you guys love eachother (i belive love could be found at any age), but if he loves you the way you told us, then he will understand you want to wait a little.
way to go on protection *wootwoot*
be careful thats all and if you do decide to do it then do be afraid to speak up if you want to stop. hell understand, and hes probly as nervous as you too =]

i personally think you should wait till your more comftrable, its up to you
--ashley good luck hun!

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im look for hair spiders i know that sounds like a strange name but its a hair accessorie. so if you know what a hairspider is then do you also know of any catalogs that can come through the us postal mail that have them

are any of these what your looking for?

http://www.alltribes.com/Hair-Jewelry-c-165.html?utm_source=google&utm_medium=ppc&utm_content=b&utm_campaign=barrettes&002=68&005=828341756&006=286409876&007=Search&008=&gclid=COiMlbamhIoCFQ4hgQod5g9HMg

http://www.adorable-hair-accessory.com/bridhairac.html

http://www.adorable-hair-accessory.com/allbarrettes.html

hope i helped theyre so pretty

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My name's jessica, but I don't like my last name. I'm becoming a solo artist (singing) and I'm not sure what to name myself, BESDIES my actual name. My genre isn emo/rock/pop, that type. A big mixture of genres. I want a really cool name, does anyone have any ideas or suggestions?

Thanks in advance.

i think you should go for something diffrent very diffrent so that if someone says it thell know exactly who it is without question

go for a color i think ex: "pink" when she was popualr, when anyone said pink as in the color, they automaticly think of the rocker pink!! some colors are cute, cathey, and very remeberble

-gold
-bronze
-red
-baby blue ( i really like this one)
-teal

those are some pretty nick names i think
good luck with singing your really lucky to posses that talent!
--ashley

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hi,
i need help with my project
its catholic schools week
and i need to find a quote from someone who went to catholic school. ex matin luther king jr..but he wasn't catholic =] haha. so if you know anyone who went to a catholic school that is now "famous" please tell me!
thank you!!

god ?

he has many powerful quotes! you can take one sentence out of the bible and the persons name and it will be a quote
--ashley
good luck

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this is me:
http://i16.tinypic.com/29ejf9g.jpg

i want something different
as in;
hair styles, hair colors, new makeup, anything.
i just want something new.

13&f

i think the style of your hair is great but i think you would look good as a dirty blonde! and i think a lil more heavy on the eyliner so that it deep and pops your eyes.

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okay. it's kind of starting to freak me out ((i'm 18 female)) but i've been having some CRAZY dreams. a couple weeks ago me and my ex where arguing about how i was with this new guy. well that night i had a dream that me and him had sex, it was a detail dream. the thing is i've NEVER had sex with him. well last night i had another dream but it's like i was having sex with someone i didn't even know, it was also in detail. if it helps me and my now boyfriend had sex last night but then i had a dream about some other guy...is this normal? has anyone ever expericed something like this before? does anyone know what it means?

http://www.freakydreams.com/flash.htm

--ashley
i use this almost every day for my dreams =]

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I am 29 yrs old. I dont have any friends.I have a wonderful boyfriend who is very outgoing and confident.Every now and then he says I need to make some friends. I cant. What do I do, call some girl up and say will you be my friend?? How cheesy. I go out with him where his friends hang out but no one engages conversation with me.They do for a minute then go. I am an attractive person that is not the problem. But how does someone who was abused as a child, not allowed to have friends, phonecalls or sleepovers, and a 10 year marriage where I was not allowed to work or have friends, change and get friendships. It seems so out of reach for me.Help!!!

mabie, do you have your highschool yearbook??
my mom looked where everyone signed it and her best freind in high school left her # in the yearbook next to her name, so she went online and theres this website that if you type in someones old phone number it iwll track down the persons new number! so they got back in touch and turns out she only lives 30 min away! or try getting into groups, like....animal activism,intrest group, anything or have your bf introduce one of him femlame freinds so you can have a freind where you can talk about girlie stuff and go shoping.
good luck--ashley

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Which is more dangerous belimic or anorexia?

belmic is more dangres

- they have medicans and treatmeants that help with anorexia

when your bellimic all the acid in your throwup burns and kills your throght (sp) and you body isnt getting any of the nutreatents and you will die

both are really bad hope i helped
--ashley

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ok her is the deal im a christian and my boyfriends is not we have promise rings and we really love each other but he is 20 nd im 15 is it wrong?

ok dont listen to the commment below me (sorry) age is just a number! love is love and just cause hes older than you doesnt mean you should ditch him! you have someone special dont trow that away cause of age!! as for religion, religion shouldnt stand in the way of love eather, as long as you really like him, and you may not agree with his relighion but think, is his religion bad? no religion is bad (unless its something evil) but just cause of age and religion shouldnt stand in the way of love, cause think about it, if you really like eachother then you should take it for granted!
as long as your comftrable arround him and your parrents approve

--ashley

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What are some cute clothing stores that sell clothes kinda like Forever 21 and Wetseal? Anything you say will help. Thanks a bunch! =)

RAVE thir clothes fit mnay peoples body shapes really goood i luv it
--ashley

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Is it true that My Chemical Romance is a band that promotes/worships Satan?

noo! punk or goth doesnt mean worshiping satan, there actually religous (cathlocs)

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right now i really dont like the way i look...

i was wondering if you guys could tell me what you think of me HONESTLY!! i dont want to hear like pity answers (ill rate well even if you say im hideous!!)

heres some random pics of me from facebook:
http://photos-048.ak.facebook.com/ip002/v60/162/44/1223791587/n1223791587_30189048_5121.jpg
http://photos-101.ak.facebook.com/ip002/v54/74/80/1223791338/n1223791338_30173101_3546.jpg

so can anybody tell me what they seriously think of me?
and make up hints?? or tips??
THANKS FOR THE ADVICE!!

ok
1) your really pretty!
2) your forehaed is long so i would get like layerd hair and side bangs
3) your eyes are really awesome!! try blue eyeliner and really bold mascara to bring them out
4) your skin is flawless
5) you look good overall, i love the shaping of your eyebrows and you eyes are stunning

--ashley

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Me and my bf dated for 21 months and then we broke up because we needed to work things out (hes in his first yr of college 45 min. away) and im a jr. we fought alot so we thats what were working on. Anyways i have a formal dance coming up on friday and he told me he'd come but now he's not. I know this for a fact cuz someone told me and he hasnt called me yet to tell me that he isnt coming. How do i react? Im very hurt by this and its in 4 days and he hasnt called yet to tell me this....

i really want him to go

and please dont say well maybe he is going and that person is wrong. cuz i know that person is telling the truth

what do i say? how do i react?

what you need to do is talk to him! tell him how you feel, he should have told you that hes not comeing instead of holding it out. you should talk to him about how he could tell him that he should be able to tell you anything even if its dissapointg, cause waiting untill you have found out is wrong. if he cant make it, mabie when he can come down you guys can mabie go out to a nice dinner where they have couple danceing and you can dance with him. but that is, if you work thigs out with eachtohter.

now mabie he cant make it cause of something really important came up, but also, theyre would have been no exuce for him to not have told you. you need to have a serious talk about things with him tell him youre being serious and no excuses, that if you and him want to make the relationship work, then you need honesty, and courparation.

i wish so much luck and sorry about the dissapointing news!! and sorry for spelling errors
--ashley

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This is pretty random...but why are most guys such assholes? Its like they do not care about hurting girls' feelings, they act with out thinking...I would really like a guys opinion on this!!! thx!

ugg im so with you on this one, i think its beacuse us girls muture way faster and earlier than boys and so i think they need to GROW UP cause braking a girls heart isnt cool

but thats why i date older guys than me (like 2 years older) its probly cause im muture for my age, but deep inside ALL guys are immature =] im soo glad im a girl haha but boys are cute so were gunna have to deal with it and teach them right!

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Talent show tryouts are coming up VERY soon, & i still gona have a song.

Any ideas for a soprano?

I want a somewhat slow song.. no Kelly Clarkson or anything like that.

Just something to WOW the audience.

Also, I would like more of a song for girls with soft voices.

Thanks
--Whitney

this has some rock in it but i love it and i bet the adunces will too!

so happy together by the turtles
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4MEJkIVDR-c

goodluck on your proformance
--ashley

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