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From a guy's perspective...
This is pretty random...but why are most guys such assholes? Its like they do not care about hurting girls' feelings, they act with out thinking...I would really like a guys opinion on this!!! thx!
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ugg im so with you on this one, i think its beacuse us girls muture way faster and earlier than boys and so i think they need to GROW UP cause braking a girls heart isnt cool
but thats why i date older guys than me (like 2 years older) its probly cause im muture for my age, but deep inside ALL guys are immature =] im soo glad im a girl haha but boys are cute so were gunna have to deal with it and teach them right! <3
--ashley
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honey, if we knew that the world would be a much better place..if you do find out tho tell me
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In my experience, and this is something I have seen time and time again, girls go for guys that are assholes and then wonder why they got their heart broken.
All through to the end of highschool, and even past that, the guys that had the least respect for women- that would feed them bs stories that a normal person would smell a mile away- they were practically fighting girls off. I have so many real life examples of this you wouldnt believe. And then, once they broke one girls heart by cheating, or just dumping them, the next one would rush in to take her place.
So, when you next fall for a guy, try to evaluate him objectively. Try not to let your feelings affect your decision, instead use reason. Look at how he has acted before, ask yourself if he is being honest when he says "I had an experience just like that!...".
I really dont think that most guys are assholes. I have seen plenty of really nasty stuff done by girls (including to me personally). I think its more a question of selecting the right person.
Of course I dont know your situation specifically, but I can safely say that most of the nicest, most decent guys I have ever known had to really struggle to compete with the assholes. And they werent ugly guys btw, its just that nice=friend, asshole=boyfriend. During the teen years particularly.
Thats my take on it anyway. Good luck, I do hope you find someone who isnt a jerk.
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I am a girl, thank you very much. But, from experience, I agree, <i>most</i> guys are assholes. But not <b>all</b> guys are. I think guys have different ways of expressing their emotions, and they don't show it as much as girls do. But I stand with you because it seems like most guys have no respect for any of us these days. But you do have to realize that there is someone out there that will care. It just might take some time.
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Not all guys are assholes, you have to find the right ones that aren't assholes they're out there you just have to find them
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I take it that you are probably 13 or 15 or something like that. Why are the guys who you deal with like that? HORMONES. It doesn't matter what sweet line he tells you or how he "won't hurt you" when he is 13, 15, whatever- all he has is one thing on his mind because his hormones are raging and he is a testosterone factory. Females act on emotion...males act on habit.
Now, in our defense- girls expect a little too much a lot of the time- I don't care what you think or what movies you have seen; when you're a teenager there is no such thing as true love and girls think there is and they want a steady relationship and a guy who is sweet and sensitive and will have pillow and spaghetti fights with her...he doesn't exist at that age yet and most of the time he never really does. I'll say it again- he's got one thing on his mind and don't let him tell you otherwise.
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