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I DONT KNOW YOU so i give suggestions
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If you don't like my advice then don't ask! simple. don't rate bad because i tell you something that you don't wanna hear, i couldn't care less what you rate me, it's not affecting my life at all...
I'll tell it like it is.
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Im 17 and I know that every teenager has their ups and downs, but I'm getting desperate. My life isnt too shocking yet it's not so great either - My familiesbeen broken recently, and I'm in a mentally abusive (Note: Not physical) relationship But I wont go into too much detail. Either way - for a long time now I've been feeling like i'm bouncing off walls - I feel depressed most of the time and I've gotten into bad and strange habits - I walk for hours at night with just a vest on so I can stop thinking - I know this isnt natural, and even though things could be alot worse (I don't pretend to be amazingly bad off or anything) I feel as if i cant be happy anymore - Ill be hyper but not happy, and when I'm depressed - its BAD, but, I wont go into details. - What should I Do? Seek a doctor? Pull myself together? Sorry for taking your time but help would be greatly appreciated, even if its just shaking me and telling me to pull myself together.
I know how depression can get, and it is EXTREMELY hard to get yourself out of that state. Its more than willpower. Here's the thing, you have to eliminate (as much as you can) the stuff that's making life harder at the moment. For instance, you mentioned your boyfriend, and I know you probably don't wanna hear this, but isn't it time to dump him? how can you let yourself be treated like crap? honestly any man who has the audacity to mentally abuse a woman is absolutely disgusting. THERE ARE PLENTY OF GOOD MEN OUT THERE WHO WON'T DO THAT TO YOU. They will make you smile as opposed to sad. Wouldn't that feel nice? Couldn't it be possible that your boyfriend is taking a part in your depression? so if you eliminate him, won't some of the depression ease? I guarantee you'll feel yourself feeling FREE. And feeling free is one of the best things ever to feel.
If you're worried about finding someone, DONT! plenty of men who will be head over heals into you, that will strive to make you happy! so why not give them a chance? there's no point in being in a relationship that can make you sad 99% of the time, because sweety, that's not a relationship considering you can have someone who makes YOU HAPPY 99% of the time. Think about it please!
When you feel depressed, certain foods like bananas are "uppers" in a way. They tell your brain to release chemicals that make you feel better. Try it! Other remedies include yoga. Believe it or not it releases stress and tension and makes you feel good! Also, if you feel things couldn't get worse, that just means they ARE GOING TO GET BETTER. you have to be positive. There are universal laws, where you attract the energy that you put out (i.e. if you're positive, positive energy forms around you and vice versa) believe me, its true!
Try some of these before you seek a doctor. I suggest you do everything you can before you go to a doctor, and by this i mean eliminate all that's causing you pain.
I really hope you feel better soon! remember you can always talk to someone around you and if you wanna talk more, my aim s/n is xxes25 or you can message me on here. Good luck!
so im into this guy paul and have been since 8th grade. now we go to different schools. he used to call me up at night and just talk for hours. we almost hooked up but didnt. plus one of my best friends is always on again off again with him which makes things harder. now we havn't talked for about 5 months and i really miss him. he reached out to me but that was a while ago. i know its my turn but im just nervous and akward.HELP
First of all, whenever your nervous you have to think about how you'll regret not talking to him.
Start a simple conversation like "hey i saw something that reminded me of you" or "hey stranger long time no talk!" just something simple that will grab his attention. Also, if you think its gonna be awkward, it will. If you don't, then it won't. Whatever you want it to be is what will happen.
You have to at least try, because if you don't you'll end up being upset that you didn't do anything, so start it with a light topic. Wish him a happy thanksgiving next thursday, or if you don't wanna send it to him personally, send a message to all your friends saying "Hey guys, just wanted to send you a Happy Thanksgiving text!" so that he knows it's not just to him, and he'll answer. Or if he's got a birthday coming up, wishh him a happy birthday. there are many things you can talk about.
good luck! message me if you need any more help
whats the diff between watching a regular movie in THE THEATERS AND imax??
also, a harry potter question:
does cedric die in goblet of fire? if he did, then how come he was in order of phoenix??
IMAX makes things much more intense, plus certain movies are made using IMAX cameras, so watching them in IMAX makes more sense. By intense I mean high&clear quality sound and a HUGE screen with great quality.
And yes Cedric does die in the Goblet of fire, however in the Order of the Pheonix he is shown not as living or dead, but as a "memory" so to say. Kind of like a live tape recording except you see the person and it's as if they're talking to you. haha sorry, kinda hard to explain, but all you need to know is that he is dead, and he doesn't come back to life.
I hope you enjoy the IMAX theater if you go&hope I helped
what website can i go to to 3ATCH MOVIES ONLINE FREEEE
This is my favorite one :
http://s15.alluc.org/
Here are some others :
http://www.veoh.com/
http://www.freetvonline.com/
http://vidics.com/
i like aguy i have ben talkin to him for 2wks he has a girlfriend and i have aboyfriend we decided we were going to break up with our other peers let him do it first i do not trust him
I can only answer this question as if i was answering myself, because i don't know you. So what I'd tell myself is dont date him. if you dont trust the guy why bother? there are many guys out there who you can trust, that don't come with girlfriends. and would you wanna be involved with a guy who you don't trust from the beginning? personally i think that's the worst way to start a relationship. if you don't trust him with this, and he doesn't break up with his girlfriend, you're gonna feel really really bad.
so i suggest you find someone amazing rather than this guy that you don't trust. you don't want to get hurt, and you already have a boyfriend! why break up with him for a dishonest guy?
i hope you find a great guy! good luck!
In my moms dream i was beheaded in a car accident.Their was lots of blood.I looked it up and it means death in going to happen
does this mean im going to die
i know it sounds stupid
but the whole thing kinda scared me
Dreams aren't meant for telling the future unless your mother has had dreams before with the outcome happening, which i highly doubt. What you have to understand about dreams is that they come across in the subconscious as representations of something. A car accident would symbolize something sad, and beheaded would symbolize something not going your way, so maybe she's worried that your grades are not good leading to school failure, or you're doing something that can lead to something worse and she's concerned. I obviously don't know you but I'm pretty sure you won't get beheaded by a car.
Having dreams like those, however, means she's worrying herself with something. in psychology it's the brains way of releasing stress during the subconscious state, to let the person be aware of the tension worrying them.
Don't worry! I used to have dreams that my mother was going to kill me in the craziest ways (she'd push me into a whole in the street and leave me there to die, she'd burn a buildin down with me in it. So I definately was scared but it was JUST A DREAM.
I'm really like this girl who is in my school ok but I'm really nervous to ask her out as i dont know her and im not in her class.So I was thinking of getting my cousin to do it as he is in her class and I was wondering to girls find that a bit weird.SO MY QUESTION IS DO GIRLS HATE IT WHEN SOMEONE GETS THEIR FRIEND TO ASK THEM OUT FOR THEM?
(I wouldn't do it myself as i couldn't stand getting rejected like that)
I definately have experienced it, and I didn't like it. I felt like the guy didn't like me enough, so he's getting someone else to do the work for him.
Also, you have to consider this : If the girl likes outgoing guys, and you send your cousin to ask her for you, she's gonnna think you're too shy for her. Then again, she might not be but just putting it out there.
Girls also like to know the guy a little before they date them, so find a way to get to know her. Hang out with your cousin while he's around her. I'm sure she'll see the interest you have in her, and girls like it when guys show them that they're interested. We also like it when guys ask us out in cute ways (i had a kid buy 6 clear balloons, and before he blew them up, he put a piece of paper in each one saying "will" "you" "go" "out" "with" "me" and he gave them to me through out the day)
It's the cute stuff that girls respond the most too.
SO GOOD LUCK! hope you get this girl!
Im 13 years old i lost Over 30 Pounds this year.
ANd it was BIG For me
and i got REALLY emotional during the process
did anyone else ever get emotional like me?
i mean people aall think its easy and stuff
i just want to know what you guys went through aswell.
It's definately not easy and it was very emotional pretty much the whole time. I'd be grouchy, crabby, and annoyed by EVERY LITTLE THING! Now that I think about it, I was acting ridiculous, but I know that it was because I was losing the weight. Also, I was lacking a lot of sleep so that probably didn't help either. But when people say it's easy it's because they haven't experienced it or because they didn't lose a large amount of weight. They don't consider all the things like certain foods, exercise, plateaus...etc... But honestly after I lost all the weight, my mood changed. I finally looked the way I wanted and I became happy. It's not an easy process that's for sure. Hope this helped.
To all you girls out there, I have a question/scenario. Here is your chance to give some good advice to a confused man. I had been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything thing was going FANTASTIC! I played it cool - didn’t rush anything - Just had the most amazing time together. I came over a couple of days ago and she did a complete 180 on me and said it was not working for her anymore. That’s fine, we all go through it – Here is my question: She also told me that when she realized that she loved me - she realized that she could not be in a committed relationship. How do you take that? What do you do about it? Should you do anything? She said she was in basic panic mode and felt uncomfortable in any relationship. She had been single for 6 yrs before she met me. Any advice here is good and appreciated. Thanks!
I know WHY she broke it off. She was scared. Plain and simple. It sounds crazy, but she's not ready for something so real. She said she loved you and that scares some females because they think they're not ready for true love.
What you have to do is try to get over her. Its hard and it will get harder, however she went into the relationship without thinking what would happen if she started loving you. She was not prepared for what happened, and won't be for probably a while. She pretty much needs to grow up and out of the idea that relationships aren't commiting. Because they are!
Honestly, I don't think there's anything you can do, unfortunately. You did everything right by taking it slow, and even with that, she couldn't handle it, so therefore its her problem that she needs to overcome. Either you can wait for her (which can be a long time and could possibly be pointless because she's "uncomfortable w/ any relationship) or you can move on and find someone who isn't scared of relationships, and will love you without any fears.
Good luck, and I hope you find someone right for you.
what does it mean when people throw their shoes over electrical wire?
i heard alot of things but dont know what to believe
There are a lot of different theories about it, but what it truly means (at least in New York and ghetto places) is that drugs are sold there. Dealers use that to communicate that drugs can be found on that block or corner.
hope i helped
Male, mid 20's.
My girlfriend wants to get married. I don't think I'm ready. She keeps pulling this "why am I with you if we aren't going to have a future" bit, and if she was being bitchy about it, I'd snap back at her, but instead, she just keeps crying and crying.
I mean, I want to keep her in my life, but how do I make her stop pushing so hard to get married if I'm not ready?
Explain to her your view. Literally, that's one of the best ways. Women want to hear honesty, and fighting back or snapping back is tempting, but that'll just make her upset and think that "he doesnt want to discuss this, meaning he doesn't want me"
also let her know :
"if i'm going to spend the rest of my life with you, why does it matter if we get married now or later...it's just a piece of paper stating our commitment to each other. If we know we love each other, why does a piece of paper matter now?"
it works. and if she keeps crying and crying, you need to be careful because you are hurting her. she seems very delicate, so be as calm as possible about it, you don't want her to leave.
I have medium length, thick and wavy blond hair. I was wondering how you get scrunched hair that keeps its shape and that looks like wet curls. I love hair like that and I can never get mine to stay. I bought Herbal Essences curl scrunching gel and it doesn't do what I want it to do. Any help would be wonderful.
if your hair is hard to manage like mine then this will work. i have long bushy hair and it's extremely frizzy if i have nothing in it, so this is what i do.
1. after a shower, or wetting your hair, wait until it's damp, but before it starts getting "poufy" take any "strong hold gel" and apply evenly through out the hair. i use pantene products, they seem to work the best with my hair and they smell good! Pantene Style is the gel.
2. wait about 5/10 minutes for it to settle in, it should become less damp, and apply any mousse ( i use infusium23, but TRESemme has the best mousse in my opinion) evenly. At this point after applying mousse, you need to scrunch your hair from the bottom and style it the way you want.
3. when you're done styling it, take strong hold hair spray and spray it on every inch of your hair. i think Herbal Essenses Finishing Mist works AMAZING!.
I know it's a lot, but i have unmanagable hair, and this is the only way i can keep it scrunched.
hope it works!
Okay so i've been deppresed for the past couple weeks, not anything like suicide, but I am always sad.
I know this sounds stupid but recently i just finished reading the twilight series and i love how they are in love. But I think i'll never find some one like edward. I will never have a true love :( I will end up being lonley. I am only 14.
Does anyone know a website, or somthing where you can receive counseling or anything for free.
hi,
i don't have a website for you, but can symapthize because after reading those books, i felt the same exact way.
The thing about the books is that it's in Bella's point of view, so she sees a guy and TO HER HE'S PERFECT. But he's not perfect, he does have flaws. You see, she's in love with him, so he's perfect to her, and vice versa.
You will find love, however it is EXTREMELY RARE TO FIND LOVE AT 14. There are a couple of reasons for this : 1. Maturity levels in boys are ridiculous and girls aren't ready for commitment at this age. 2. Boys aren't meant to be in relationships the way girls are. Girls need the relationships, guys don't until they grow up.
You must realize that people find the love of their life in college and even after, and even though it's sad that it can't happen sooner, it's still a good thing in some ways. For one thing, if you find him now, what's to stop you from getting pregnant? So there are a few benefits.
You have to stay positive. You have to believe that one day you will find him but 14 is not the time. You have your whole life ahead of you, and Edward isn't all that perfect. Sorry i hate saying it because i love his character, but would you want someone to leave you the way he left Bella? No!
So i'm sure you'll find someone who wont leave, but give it time. You will find someone and you will have that kind of love. Until then, enjoy what you have and the people around you.
Hope i helped
es
if you need to talk, IM me
xxes25
Is there a TV website, where I could watch TV shows? I kind of don't want to buy a tv, and it would be really cool if I could watch the shows i'd like to watch on line. Thank you.
here are some you might like :
this one's my favorite :
http://s15.alluc.org/
here are others :
http://www.veoh.com/
http://www.freetvonline.com/
any site that allow you to upload a song and then give emblem so you can post that song using their player on a blog or profile ect?
try playlist.com
it'll let you create a playlist of about 100 songs or maybe even more then you can change the skins of the player and post it to myspace,facebook, blogger and others even your own site.
hope this is what you needed.
im think about getting contact lens, but i have no idea of what the hassle may be. and at the eye doctor what will i be put through? risk and bad habits of contacts?
well when you're at the doctor, he'll give you the regular eye test, some air in the eye etc. He'll prescribe you contacts and show you how to put them in. The only hassle is putting them in and out every day. They have to be taken out every night before going to sleep, or else part of the eye will deteriorate and also, they need to be cleaned after you take them out because bacteria gets stuck on the contacts.
So every night you'd have to remove them and clean them. Every morning you'd re-clean their container that they're placed in over night, and put them in.
You get used to it.
There are risks to wearing contacts such as if you don't take care of your eyes and give them rests from contacts or stop removing them nightly, the bacteria accumilated will stay in your eye and it ends up badly with infections and irritations and possibly blindness. you have to be extremely careful and not neglect taking care of your eyes while wearing them, other than that, you'll be fine.
I just found out that my ex boyfriend wants to get back with me. Im so confused becasue my mum doesnt agree with me getting back with him and my dad absolutely wants to kill him because he hurt me before. He dumped me for a girl id known for about a week and was his ex girlfriend. The thing is for some weird reason i do still like him a lot and somehow i have forgave him. It all started off on a rocky patch anyway because of the age difference. We started going out when he was 15 and i was 12, then 3 months later he turned 16 and i stayed twelve. I did turn thirteen two months after that but on my birthday he left me. I dont get it. He says he always thinks of me and that he has had 3 sex dreams about me in the past week alone!!!!! I am 13 now and he is 16. Yesterday he asked me for a hug and when i huggedd him he pulled me onto the sofa so that i was laying on top of him with my head on his chest and he said that he loved me, i could tell by his voice that he was deadly serious. And I said that i loved him. First of all i would like to ask if you have nay advice on getting back with him. Yes or no? And please please please can you give me some advice on how to tell my mum and dad without them going mad and saying that im not going to see him. I want to put it across as im going out with him mum but can you please let me get on with it and be by my side in case it goes wrong because that is all i want, i dont want a lecture. At one point he did mean a lot to me and im trying to make it work again. Please help.
For your sake only I really hope it works out. Truly, I do.
You already have made up your mind on getting back together with him, so the only advice I can give you is don't fall for him too quickly or too fast. Here's the thing, psychologically woman are meant to be in relationships while men aren't. Because of this, he might be going between you and this other chick. You CANNOT fall for him too much because of a couple of reasons :
1. What if he hurts you again? I know you think it's not possible the second time but it is. And the pain the second time around is even worse, believe me. Would you be able to go through that again? This is why you have to stay strong and not fall for him until you're completely sure that nothing will change your relationship. This will take time!
2. The age difference really doesn't matter when you're older. Meaning when you're in your twenties and thirties and so on, the age difference of 3 years is nothing. However when you're in high school and middle school it is a big deal because guys usually get made fun of if they're dating someone a lot younger than him (2-3 years younger). Until about his senior year, that's when people really stop caring about age differences. Just remember, if he's easily influenced by his friends, and they make fun of him because of the age difference, he might make a stupid decision and hurt you again. Sorry, i dont mean to be mean about it because i'm sure you're great considering you've forgiven him and everything, but that's just how guys think.
With your parents...that's always a problem haha. I'll tell you right now, they will put restrictions on how much you see him and NO MATTER WHAT YOUR DAD WILL WANT TO KILL HIM! As for your mom you can talk to her, tell her that you know what the outcome can be and you have faith that it wont happen again. tell her you'll learn from your mistakes, and that you do like him and you're telling her this because you trust that she'll understand you and support you, not judge you.
that should work =]]
as for your dad, well dads are dads and if you get through to your mom then she'll influence your dad, however i suggest you don't have your boyfriend over a lot or else your dad will get angry
And last thing, please remember that you are young, even when you're 16(my age) you'll still be young, and you can't expect to find the one that's right for you that'll never hurt you at this age. Even if your boyfriend is the right one for you, he's not at this age because he himself is still immature. Plus, it is very rare to find someone perfect for you while you're in school, boys haven't grown up yet and you have to give them time. Haha it sucks that we mature faster than they do.
Well good luck! I hope it works out for you! Let me know how it goes.
es
Okay, so, I'm young.
And no, it's SO not easy to lose weight, or, at least not for me.
I've been somewhat overweight all my life - in fact, the last time I was even relatively skinny, I was about 5 going into Kindgergarden, which is sad.
I don't even KNOW what it feels like to be that way.
I'm 13, going on 14 February 8th.
I've tried everything, diets, working out, even pills.
I really like this guy, and I wanna change to get more of his attention.
I also want to be like everyone else, and be healthy and happy, and actually not gag when I look in the mirror.
I don't really think I eat A LOT, I guess it's just what I eat and how much.
IF at all possible, I REALLY need a plan, diet rules and all that, because I. Am. Clueless.
I will owe you my life if you could help me at all.
PLEASEEE, Help.
I'd like fast results (ofcourse, we 13 year olds LOVE instant gratification) but seriously, before my 8th grade year is over and I start High School.
PLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASEEEE
I guarantee if you start now, and stay positive, and don't give up, you'll see results sooner than your birthday. And if you need support ever, i'm here because i went through the same thing.
First you need a good diet (yuck! i know). It doesn't have to be bad though. You can enjoy it. You get to decide what you want to minimize out of your diet, sugars or fats. Minimizing the intake of either one will help you. If it's sugars, don't eat candy, no sodas (unless diet sweetened with substitutes like splenda, although water is the best solution). if you don't want plain water, try the sugar free lemonade or tea flavored poweders that mix into water, they really help with the flavor. If you decide to cut out fat, you need to minimize the amount of bread intake. For snacks or for when you feel hungry, there are great puddings that you can get at walmart or local store that are sugar free and filling, just remember, cut out either sugar or fat and stick to it!
The best way to lose weight is to minimize the amount of carbs you consume. It really works miracles. And how do you tell how many carbs you're consuming? The label haha.
Fruits, Vegetables, basically any greens are healthy! eat them! enjoy them! salads can be delicious! some lettuce, sliced lean chicken, light ceasar dressing and you've got a ceasar salad. or, lettuce, tomato, onion, cucumber and italian dressing and you've got a garden salad.
Exercise....we all hate it. Remember even a little bit of exercise a day will help. What worked for me was doing 3 sets of 25 crunches a day. So basically in the morning i'd do 25 crunches, wait 5 minutes and do another 25, wait another 5 minutes and do another 25. then repeat the same thing at night and noon. It seems like a lot, but it's not. it doesn't take a lot of time and your stomach WILL BENEFIT! They can be hard at first but after a day or two, it'll seem super easy!
Walking does miracles if you walk in a fast pace. I walk around my neighborhood every night a couple of times and that's part of my diet exercise plan. always keep moving! instead of sitting on the couch while watching tv, try doing the crunches at that time and watching tv, or walking in place.
Once you loose weight you'll feel good, however you might hit a plateau. Don't give up! All it means is that your body has gotten used to the way you changed it's meal plan so minimize the intake of something else, instead of sugar eliminate fat or vice versa. Its kind of like tricking your body.
HOPE I HELPED. GOOD LUCK. IF YOU NEED ANY SUPPORT MESSAGE ME OR IM ME, my s/n is xxes25
es =]]
I've been in a relationship for 6 months. I used to do a bit of mauy thai boxing and rugby. I'm not a pure butch girl or anything like that infact i'm the complete opposite. But when me and my boyfriend go to watch my friends in dancing shows and things he loves to watch them as they look really sexy. And i wish i had something like femanine that i done. even if i could sing or dance. I can dance and sing a little bit but i think it's too late too start dancing again as i'm 17. I just wish he'd look at me like the way he does when they're on stage. I was even thinking of changing my dress style a bit so its a bit sexier but i dn't no how to go about it. I don't want people to get the impression that i'm a tomboy or that because i'm really not i don't dress or act like a tomboy. I just like rugby and a bit of boxing.
Any ideas would be a great help
well if you wanted to start dancing again you could and your view on it shouldn't be that 17 is old because it's not! you can take a few simple classes, there are many provided at local colleges, and take it from there. Dressing up can also make a difference...now how to go about it : instead of buying that pair of jeans, go for a skirt. It's sexier, and i'm sure he'll love it. Instead of that plain t-shirt, try a blouse. Personally i love clothing at charlotte russe, they are sometimes over the top but there you can find many great articles of clothing.
A little bit of make up! If you don't wear much now then start! make your eyes stand out, give yourself nice bold lips. It does wonders, and easy to find in a walgreens or walmart or local pharmacy store.
doing rugby and boxing is very great for your body so don't give it up! and remember... he's with you not any of the girls he looks at, meaning he wants you and already thinks you're sexy.
I have a 1991 300E Benz. It drove PERFECTLY until I put synthetic oil in bcuz my oil lite came on. After I put the oil in it overheated I put n 1qt. Instead of 3 like I was proly supose to. After it overheated I let it cool down then at nite I added 3qts. I drove home nd when I got close to home it overheated again. Nd it made a knocking noise when I tried to start it. Now its been sittin since the 27th. It also started to leak which its NEVER did b4. Las time it needed oil I took it to jiffy lube, this time I jus didn't have the money. I have no clue wat to do to fix it, hopefully it won't require any expensive repairs. Any feedback wud be great. Thanks
ok well i cant examine the car so i dont know what exactly is wrong but, you shouldn't let the gas amount go down past half way. this is because the gas starts to mix with the dirt at the bottom and it causes problems. The leak definately needs to be checked out. as for starting the car, before you turn it on, pump the gas a couple of times then hold it down halfway while turning on the car, this should start the car. you might have to do it a couple of times before it actually works. if it doesn't after a couple of times, hold the pedal down all the way then start it. it pumps up the car. hope something of this helped