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deppressed and lonley
Okay so i've been deppresed for the past couple weeks, not anything like suicide, but I am always sad.
I know this sounds stupid but recently i just finished reading the twilight series and i love how they are in love. But I think i'll never find some one like edward. I will never have a true love :( I will end up being lonley. I am only 14.
Does anyone know a website, or somthing where you can receive counseling or anything for free.
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Keep in mind that there are so many people who feel the same way as you do. Edward is irrationally perfect and flawless, and although it is impossible to find someone exactly like him, there are sweet and considerate guys out there. You are fourteen years old. Girls often mature faster than guys at this age. It may seem like a while, but in a few years or so, guys will catch up and some of them will be incredibly nice and sweet. Good things come to those who wait.
I don't know what you mean when you say you have been depressed. Depression involves more than just sadness. It involves feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, guilt, change in eating and sleeping habits, and more depending on the person. I have also looked for free online counseling for myself for another reason. What I found is that it is nearly impossible to get this. Therapy is a two-way street. It is extremely rare to find someone who will provide their services for free. I still haven't found someone yet, and it seems like forever since I first started looking.
One thing I will tell you, though, is that there are ways to get therapy online, just not for free. Online therapy is sometimes good for people who don't want to or can't, for whatever reason, attend therapy sessions in "real life." The people who provide it are trained professionals. Basically, it is emailing back and forth. You write the email as long as you want, and however often you want. In most cases, you are charged by how many emails you send. The good thing about this is that unlike traditional therapy, you have a chance to think about what you want to say and what you want to ask before you write back to the therapist. Below is a site that talks about all this and what places are best, depending on your needs:
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Even if you decide not to use it now, it is nice information to have around, just in case. Take care.
Hannah
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Hiiiiii[:
I've been in you're shoes.
I wouldn't say you need "counseling" or anything like that & you wont be Lonley forever Everyone has a soul mate and you'll fall in love-
maybe not with a guy like edward but you'll fall in love, If I know anything it's you wont be single forever or loney-
for now I'd say hang out with you're friends
so You're not as lonley girl!
You're only fourteen just have fun with it-
don't look for the guy let him find you, Trust me it workks everyyyyyytimmeee(;
-Promise you, has for twilight keep reading it it's a great book,
I hope I helped
-xoxoxoxoxoxoxo<3
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hi,
i don't have a website for you, but can symapthize because after reading those books, i felt the same exact way.
The thing about the books is that it's in Bella's point of view, so she sees a guy and TO HER HE'S PERFECT. But he's not perfect, he does have flaws. You see, she's in love with him, so he's perfect to her, and vice versa.
You will find love, however it is EXTREMELY RARE TO FIND LOVE AT 14. There are a couple of reasons for this : 1. Maturity levels in boys are ridiculous and girls aren't ready for commitment at this age. 2. Boys aren't meant to be in relationships the way girls are. Girls need the relationships, guys don't until they grow up.
You must realize that people find the love of their life in college and even after, and even though it's sad that it can't happen sooner, it's still a good thing in some ways. For one thing, if you find him now, what's to stop you from getting pregnant? So there are a few benefits.
You have to stay positive. You have to believe that one day you will find him but 14 is not the time. You have your whole life ahead of you, and Edward isn't all that perfect. Sorry i hate saying it because i love his character, but would you want someone to leave you the way he left Bella? No!
So i'm sure you'll find someone who wont leave, but give it time. You will find someone and you will have that kind of love. Until then, enjoy what you have and the people around you.
Hope i helped
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if you need to talk, IM me
xxes25
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This is your counseling pretty much. I read that book as well and felt the same way as you do now. I was upset for a while but in my head living in a fantasy land. All aside you need to focus on your life at hand. Your friends, Family, School, If you have a job. Focus on your future as in career because that is what is going to keep you going. What do you want to be when your older? Who do you want to be. A man will just walk into your life unexpectedly and you will start to feel like that man is your Edward. Hun you are young and have a whole life ahead of you. Looking for your Edward will leave you like me I am 17 years old with a son who is turning 2 in a few months. I love my son to death but i can't join the Army because of scared to leave my son same with Law School it takes so much studying i am afrid i wont have the time for my son that i do know. I am still going to college to be a Social Worker but its not my dream. Make your dreams come true!!! You need someone to talk to contact me I am more than willing
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Good Luck.
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