Question Posted Saturday November 22 2008, 3:51 pm
so im into this guy paul and have been since 8th grade. now we go to different schools. he used to call me up at night and just talk for hours. we almost hooked up but didnt. plus one of my best friends is always on again off again with him which makes things harder. now we havn't talked for about 5 months and i really miss him. he reached out to me but that was a while ago. i know its my turn but im just nervous and akward.HELP
es answered Sunday November 23 2008, 12:50 am: First of all, whenever your nervous you have to think about how you'll regret not talking to him.
Start a simple conversation like "hey i saw something that reminded me of you" or "hey stranger long time no talk!" just something simple that will grab his attention. Also, if you think its gonna be awkward, it will. If you don't, then it won't. Whatever you want it to be is what will happen.
You have to at least try, because if you don't you'll end up being upset that you didn't do anything, so start it with a light topic. Wish him a happy thanksgiving next thursday, or if you don't wanna send it to him personally, send a message to all your friends saying "Hey guys, just wanted to send you a Happy Thanksgiving text!" so that he knows it's not just to him, and he'll answer. Or if he's got a birthday coming up, wishh him a happy birthday. there are many things you can talk about.
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