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I like this guy at my school ALOT. He is in 5 of my classes, but I have no idea how to tell him I like him. I don't want to write a note, because then he could show other people. Any good ideas of how to tell him that I like him?

tell him. just like when you are sort of alone. maybe like if you sit by him, just write on a scrap of paper, "I Like You:)"

-*Kels*-

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Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
?

i think that she doesnt want you to more, so she thinks that it will be easier if you move while you are in a fight. it may make your move easier on her. my BFF did the same thing to me right before she moved.

and it did make the move easier i guess.

-Kels-

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(16 female) The problem is I have this boyfriend, whom I care about a lot but I dont really love him like he loves me. He thinks everything in our relationship is perfect but its not. We really have problems. Well, its more of i have problems with our relationship that i really need to work through. Recently, I realized that i don't want be with him any longer, but i don't know how to break up with him. I don't want to hurt him or break his heart but either way i do it i will. I just need someone to tell me a way to break up with him without me breaking his heart too badly and him never speaking to me again. And if there is a way to do this, please give me the courage to go through with it. I am soooo scared it makes no sense. I am terrified of hurting him. Pleeeeseee Heeeeelp

well, just remember: if you dont fight there is something wrong in the relationship. I fight with my boyfriend of over a year, but we are still close. :)

Try and break it to him slow, sweet, gentily. :)

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My family is extremely well off money wise. And so are the kids that go to my high school but my family kind of has more money then most of the people in our neighborhood.

Well, I've been talking to a few girls at school about our prom dresses and theirs are around 200-500 dollars. Well, I found the perfect dress but it's 1,500 dollars. I'm supposed to go buy it this weekend but there's a problem. It's not that we can't afford the dress, because we can and my parents think that it's a good amount to pay for it. It's that I don't want to be the only girl there that paid over a thousand dollars for a Prom dress. I don't want people to talk about it or anything.

Should I get the dress even though it's 3 or 4 times more than what everyone else is going to pay for theirs?

:) If you like it! Prom is sooo special! its like a mini wedding!

and dont people splurdge on weddings??

GO FOR IT SISTA!!!

and if people are mean, ignor them!! thats their probolem and loss if they dont like you!! :)

maybe try not telling people how much you paid for yours.

if they ask, and you dont like lying, say "i'd wrater not say" or "thats not important"

Hope I Helped-
Kels

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Hi,
I am ALWAYS craving sugar! This wouldn't be so bad, but I have braces now and have to stop eating it :S I tried eating small amounts but it is still messing up my teeth so I have to stop almost entirely. But I'm so weak, lol, and always eat food with a high sugar content! How can I stop, or at least lessen, the cravings and eat less sugar? I don't like fruit so please don't suggest that :)

try some cerals, like fruit loops or trix, something sugary (sp?) thinks like that are good! try to set up a plan for yourself. I did that with soda. i used to have anywhere between 2 and 5 a day! now i am down to 1 a week! try something like that. Maybe try to do some reasurch on sugars in your diet, you'd probably be supprised at how bad it is for you, that may help you to cut back on it!!

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Kels

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i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.

try nutruls, a medium on the lid, a dark on the crease line, and lighter above to the brow bone, maybe eve some with some shimmer. also light pinks or peral's look good!

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Kels

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I have a friend (lets call her gina) and she'll be my friend for one minute and egt mad at me for nothing the next. and im really getting tired of it. its getting old and she's kinda popular and hangs out with a lot of my friends but if i get mad at her, she gets other people involved in hating me and if shes mad at me, so are they. what should i do. P.S, I rate 5's
-Brittany

thats wierd, talk to her about it!!! you should be like i dont appreciate that kind of friendship, i dont do that to you, i need a true friend.

maybe you should consider a new friend?

Im soo sorry that people are like that!!!

oh, and so other people dont get involved, do it in private, or at least so other people arnt around!



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-*Kels*-
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ok i have this boyfriend ( im a female and hes a male, im 13 he's 14) we have been together for 3 months now and when we first met it was like love at first site.. is it too young to be in love.. he always calls me and he isnt like one of those guys is totally in the relationship for sex or anything like that..he likes me for who i am and he always says i love you, he is so sweet and if finds out that some guy has been messin with me (sexually, phisically, ect.) he finds them and warns them that if it ever happens again that something will happen to them.. is it love? can u fall in love at this age?

I have that w/ my boyfriend too! and we have been together over a year!! and we arnt in it for the stuff either, and he is so sweet too!!

YAY!!

Im soo happy for you!!!

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Yes, you can fall in love @ any age (I was 13, now 14, he was 15 now 16- im almost 15 and hes almsot 17)

YIPPIE!!!!

Best Of Luck!
Always There-
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-*Kels*-
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how long do you think me and my gf should start kissing? 2 monthes 3...?

when ever you both feel comfortable, remeber that you dont have to do things to stay together. you should just make sure that the whole communication thing is open so thaty ou can talk and see what is going on. That way you will know when you are both ready!!

Always there-
I hope that you two stay together a LONG time!
Best of Luck!
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-KeLs-

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I'm about to make my friend a cd and he said to put whatever songs are cool and new and I like all old music. Does anyone know any good songs that are r&b and are new?

try some songs by coheed and cambria, afi, new found glory, blink 182, my chemical romance, the vines, Usher, The Black eyed peas, kenny chestney, tim McGraw.

:)
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Always There-
-KeLs-

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hey,
I have this problem with a guy named Matthew. We have been best friends for over 4 years. Recently we both fell in love with each other. I least I love him. He always wants to mess around and he says it means something. To me it really does. He claims he wants to loose his virginity to me and claims that that would bring us together. Would that actually bring u apart? Help!

well, dont do anything unless you are 110% sure tha you want to. your virginity is something very special, you should keep it for when you are married and with someone who cares about you and who will stay with you weather or not you get pregnate. Your virginity is something special to share with your husband when you do get married.

Be careful!

Hope I Helped-
Always There
*Kels*

~P.S.--I Think that he is using you:/~

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ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?

P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :)

she should just listen to you, i mean, if you love eachother, then you should be able to talk to her!!! and you dont have to do things to stay together!!!


Always there!
--Kels--

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i think my best friend is either bulemic or anorexic. she weighs about 119 pounds, wears a size 0 jeans and she constantly goes on about how shes fat. SHE IS NOT AT ALL. she graphs her weight on a chart (i saw it) and it's REALLY starting to scare me. what should i do? talk to somebody about it, talk to her...? please help!!

Yes, you should talk to someone!!! talk to her, her mom, your mom or a councler or someone else you trust!!

always there-
Kels

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OKay...i am 15....I had my first period in Nov of 2004....and i started my period yesterday...this has never happend to me before...but...When i go pee...i bleed too....why is that???? like...i bleed more than i pee...and the blood is all gooey and chunky...i hope non of u think im weird...im just really nervous...because this has never happend to me before..
thanks girls

yah its fine!!!!!
it happens to me too!!!! yah everything is just normal! its actually better that way so then a bunch comes out then, instead of having to deal with a pad or a tampon! but yes, it is okay!! it happens to me all the time!! Your fine!

:)

Hope I Helped!!
Always There-
KeLs

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Im 17 and this is really embarassing but, I havent had my period yet. I feel ashamed and worried that something is wrong ! Im a virgin, if that matters that much. Im so worried & i feel bad because I tell my friends I have it, and I even use pads hoping it will come. Whats wrong with me? I need to know what to do!

its okay, dont worry! well, i am really confused. if you havent had it in over a month? well, thats okay, they take time to get in a steady pattern, and its okay! just dont worry, everything is going to be fine!

if you have never had it before, thats fine too! some people dont get it until their twenties, others can get it when they are 9 or 10. its all okay. dont worry!!

You are fine!!
:)

Hope I Helped!!
Always There-
KeLs

If You Ever Need Anything Leave One In My Inbox!!

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my best friend is mad at me because i wont break up with my boyfriend because moves really slow and weve been going out for a really long time and weve only kissed once and he is the type of guy who gets nervous to do those types of things. i like him alot so im willing to wait for him to be ready to do whatever. she doesnt think he is the right guy for me. he is a great guy and the only bad part about him is that it takes him forever to give one single kiss. do i break up with him if we dont even kiss? or do i just deal with it and stay with him? and ive already talked to him about it a few times and he says hes trying his best.

well, doinng things to stay together isnt the key to a relationship. i mean you should just talk to him about it. its all going to be okay!! just make sure you know what you want!!

:)

Hope I Helped!!
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KeLs

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Ok i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months now and in the beginning of the realtionship my bestfriend thought we were perfect for eachother... well about 2 weeks ago he fractured his ankle and was really upset about becuz he couldn't play baseball and baseball is his life!! so he got really angry and took it all out on me! well now were both over it and we couldn't be any happier with each other... well the problem is i always told my bestfriend wat was happening and she kept telling me to break up with him and that she doesn't like him... how can i prove to her that my bf and i are perfect for each other and everybody has their fights!?

well, i know that it helps to go to your friends for advice, but, you should always go with what feels right for YOU!!! i mean, it is your life, you should do what makes you happy!! and if your friends are good friends, then they should support your 110%. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!


:)

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Always There-
KeLs

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For those who know about my constant problems I have with C then here comes another problem if you don't know then you know now. Well anyways me and him have been getting along good so far but all of a sudden today. He is kinda mad at me I think. I mean he didn't actually talk to me today and he hit me. Usually me and him we play like that but today he actually hit me like he was mad. If I did something bad I am sorry for it. But what should I do. I can't just say that I am sorry because he hasn't said one word to me all day except for this morning when I asked him was something wrong. He didn't respond in a happy manner so I left him alone. What should I do I really really like this boy!

just talk to him! i mean, he is the one that knows right? well, im really sorry! and i hope that things get much better!!!! :)) and SOON!

:)

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KeLs

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Sorry this is so long i'll rate 5's. Today during lunch me and my friends jenna and roquel were sitting around talking, and jenna said she hasn't gotten her period in a long time and is worried that she might be pregnant. Jenna thought that i knew about this already, so she was like roquel where did u go to get your abortion?and roquel was like not everyone knows about that jenna. roquel wouldnt tell me that because she was in my law class, and i debated against abortion so she knows how i feel about it. even thought im completely against abortion, i dont judge my friends so thats why i didnt even say anything to her.but now everytime i see her i get sick to my stomach thinking she would actually do something like that.i know its none of my buisiness so dont tell me that, but how do i get over feeling so ashamed of her?its to the point i wanna smack her for being so stupid!because i cant say anything about not having sex, because ive had sex myself but i used the pill AND a condom, so if ppl did that there would only be a 1 percent chance of getting pregnant, so i cant believe she was dumb enough to get herself if that situation where she could get pregnant, knowing her who has done lots of bad stuff, she probably gave in when the guy said he didnt wanna use a condom.i really need advice about what to do, because she is a good friend and i dont wanna lose her as a friend even though i feel so different towards her now.

these kids just dont understand. if they would just stop doing this then there would be no need. if you are going to have pre-marital sex, or after you are married sex, then you should be ready to have the child, and know what responsibilities that come along with it.talk to your friend about how you feel about it. Im sorry about what happened!!!

:)

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KeLs

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All of my freinds and even people that arent my freinds are convinced that I'm rich and spoiled. I am defeintly not rich but my family has money. Every time I go shopping, or get somthing new they call me spoiled or rich. Its really annoying and they say it in a mean way and they wont stop. How can i get them to stop saying that?

they are not your true friends! that is so mean! there is a fine difference between getting things that you want and being spoiled.

You know?

thats so mean! I cant believe that! I am so sorry! tell them how you feel, if they are your true friends then you should be able to talk to them, and they should understand.

:)

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KeLs

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