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She don't like him
Ok i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months now and in the beginning of the realtionship my bestfriend thought we were perfect for eachother... well about 2 weeks ago he fractured his ankle and was really upset about becuz he couldn't play baseball and baseball is his life!! so he got really angry and took it all out on me! well now were both over it and we couldn't be any happier with each other... well the problem is i always told my bestfriend wat was happening and she kept telling me to break up with him and that she doesn't like him... how can i prove to her that my bf and i are perfect for each other and everybody has their fights!?
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get him to talk to her or both you and your b.f talk to her show her and tell her that even are own parents get into fights but still love each other after the fights and just b.c you have a couple of fights doesnt make them a bad person
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well, i know that it helps to go to your friends for advice, but, you should always go with what feels right for YOU!!! i mean, it is your life, you should do what makes you happy!! and if your friends are good friends, then they should support your 110%. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
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i think yoo shuld tell her tht it was juss a fight and all couples go through it and everythings kool between yoo n him agen..i really dont think yoo need to "prove" it to her or nethin but if she keeps insisting tht yoo break up with him let her kno tht she doesnt run yoor relationship but she can think whatever it wants ..hope everything works out OK!
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You should just tell her that it wasnt his fault and he was really upset..Your friend should understand..and she should trust how you feel. =) And she isnt a good friend if she tells you to dump him when you know you are perfect for eachother...Good luck x3
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You need to explain to your friend that you like this guy, whether she does or not and nothing is going to change that. She can't MAKE you not like him anymore, so don't let your life be up to her.
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you can tell her that you guys are perfect 4 each other and that can't she see how happy you are with him.just tell her that she should support you.good luck
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Although what your friends think does matter to you, remember the only thing that really does matter is what you and your boyfriend think and what you both know to be true.
However to get your best friend back on your side, explain to her how happy you are with him and ask her to think of all the times her parents have fought. She'll soon realise that every relationship does have their fights. If she doesn't, then I don't think there is much more that you can do to convince her. Just ask her do what a friend should do ie. support you and keep her bad opinions about your boyfriend to herself! Then the longer you and your boyfriend are together, the more she will come around to your way of thinking and realise just how perfect you two are for each other. Good luck
Claire xx
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you DONT have to explain that. i know shes your best friend, but you have the right to go out with whoeva you want. no explanation required. if she doesnt like him, ask her why. it doesnt matter if she likes him or not, unless its a big problem.what matters is that you do like him for you, not because of what everybody else thinks. hope i helped!
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Firstly, two points:
1) There is no such thing as "perfect"
2) If he hit you or insulted you, you should dump him, that's abusive behavior
Just keep going happily along and your friend will see that everything is fine. If she doesn't, tell her that her nagging is making you rethink your friendship.
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Well I think that you should just sit down and have a long talk with her. Tell her how you really feel about him and how you know that everyone has arguments with each other. Try and bring up the fact that even you and her have arguments with each other, but that doesn't mean that you all shouldn't be friends. But if she still states that she doesn't like him and can't be supportive of you, or even act like she is, then maybe you all should try to move on away from each other and hang out with other people now and again. But if you don't want to do that, maybe you two should give each other some time away from each other because maybe you guys have hung out to much. But see where the sitting down and talking it out goes and get back to me if you can.
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Forget what your best friend says. If you are happy in the relationship than thats all that matters. She's probably just jealous of how "perfect" you guys are together. You don't ned to prove anything to her. I would tell your best friend that you appreciate her looking out for you but your happy in the relationship and maybe she should mind her own buisness. Thats my opinion. Do whats best for you.
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