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Ive liked this guy for about 6 years now & never really told him how i felt. We dated like 5 years ago when we we younger, and when that ended we stopped talking but i never stopped thinking about him. Weird I know but he was my 1st love! We tried dating again last year but it was all weird so we broke up. Now we talk only on occasion & its mainly him calling me for a "booty call" as my friends say. Im afraid hes only using me for sex! About lets say 3 months ago he told me that he really liked me but i didnt take him serious because he had a g/f at the time. The thing is I really wanna tell him how i feel that i never stopped thinking about him etc but im scared because it might freak him out and he might not talk to me again. It's been soo long and im also afraid of bawling right infront of him.. ='[ Another problem is I have a bf now and he knows this. Ok im not exactly happy with my current relationship & im planning on breaking up with him soon. What would you do? How would you start this conversation? I need help so bad this is gonna kill me if i dont let my feelings out!
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Love can be so confusing! Before you can tell him the real truth, ask one of your friends to ask HIS friend to see if he likes you for REAL. If this is true then let your feelings out and tell him! dont break up with your boyfriend until you know the info, once you get it, go after the guy you really love. I would start it off by saying, You know, I really like you, alot, i hope you feel the same but I dont want to date you if your just using me! Tell him the blunt truth! Talking can do alot for you! I hope this all works out for you!! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911
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Wow... I seee. Well, I definitely think you should tell him how you feel. PeRhaps you should do it on the telephone, that way you'Re not cRying diRectly infRont of him. Even if you still cRy on the phone, it would be less embaRassing foR you that way. HoweveR, you shouldn't eveR feel guilty oR embaRassed about cRying... it's natuRal, and you'Re entitled to youR feelings and emotions; but Really... it's no biggie. Which eveR way you decide is best foR you, I think you should *indeed* talk to him about it. And fRom the way you descRibed it, I don't think he would fReak out if you told him how you feel about him. HoweveR, hopefully you have enough sense not to just be some booty call... that CAN be fun, but usuaully leads up to unecessaRy huRt; don't botheR to put youRself thRough that. And also take into consideRation that you said he had a giRlfRiend duRing the peRiod of time he once called you up foR a booty call -- that's scaRy my fRiend. Is he a cheateR; that's something to give some seRious thought to. If he would so easily call you up asking foR 'some' when he is alReady involved with anotheR giRl, what makes you think he won't disRespect you the same way?? FaiR enough? TheRe's just no excuse foR that. Even if he thRew the lame line of no longeR liking heR... you'Re telling me that he can't be botheRed to end it with his significant otheR befoRe staRting something with you. And if he's looking foR a fRiend's with benefits situation, you should just move on. But you say you have a boyfRiend at the moment? What's wRong with him? PeRhaps THAT'S wheRe you should devote youR time and eneRgy. If you know you alReady have a good guy by youR side, don't Rock the boat, Baby. I wish you the ebst of luck! I Really do hope I helped, and know that I am always heRe if you need me. I have faith in you my fRiend. Take caRe!! =D
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Aw well I think that you should tell him how you feel. If you dont want to tell him in person then I think maybe you could call him, even tho I think its best in person! So, let him know how you feel. Is he single? If he isnt then dont tell him until him n his girlfriend break up but if he is then tell him as soon as possible. You never know if he might feel the same way. maybe you guys could try going back out and try making it work in a lil while. Sry if I didnt help much I tried. x0
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