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Hey everybody ! I'm Callie. I'm from St. Louis Missouri.. yes yes SoCo,Mo. I'm 16. sophomore at MHS. 2010 bitchesss. I'm involed in a whole bunch of shit at school .. I'm class president for the 2nd year and a StuCo officer. StuCo is more than a club, it`s a passion. I`m in Paws & Peace, STL, yearbook, A+ tutoring, Sophomore Executive, cheerleading. I`m an over achiever and I love it.




I LOvE to give advice; if you ask me a question you will get an answer. If you ask a dumb question, you will get a dumb answer. Easy as that. You can ask me about anything; I know what I should for my age, maybe more. I've been through alot.. maybe not all personally but I've seen alot of shit happen with my friends and just people around school. I'll help as best as I can. Any question you ask I will answer it as best that I possibly can.. even if it's just and honest answer of " I don't know. "



Don't rate me bad because you feel like it. If I don't answer your question the way you wanted me to, then don't rate me bad.. just don't rate me. If you honsetly think that my advice to you was absolutly horrible then okay rate me bad. I don't mind. Please comment when you rate me thought :)


If you wanna want to ask me anything at all, I have an AIM screen name. Don't send me messages on here saying ILY or HAPPY BIRTHDAY or THANKS or anything like that. Send me an IM or comment. Advicenators gets mad if you send it in my inbox. I also have facebook that I'm compleatly addicted to, it's kinda sad. But if you have a question that you want answered right away, send me a message on facebook. I'm on there atleast twice a day.. not on here so much. If you're not old enought to have facebook.. I also have myspace. I'm on there about once a week. But still.. more than this. I'm really gonna try and start this up again. I really enjoy giving and receiving advice so I'm gonna try hard. My screen name is on the bar along the side. If you IM me I'll tell you my usernames for myspace and what not.


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advice

what kind of medicine helps sore throat, and coughs, and runny nose
i do rate high so please help me okay and if you give reasonable advice I will rate you high

row-buh-tussin cough; sry i dunno how to spell it!

XO KALIE

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I've had the same pimples on my face for what seems like months. How can I get rid of them? I don't think they're scars..They are red bumps. If it is scars, is there anyway to get them to fade?

using one or more of the following
1) apricot scrub
use in the shower each day
2) clean & clear morning scrub
use every morning when you wake up
3) artistry blemish control acne treatment gel
use to get rid (not prevent) zits; apply when pimples are 'new'
4) noxzema triple clean antibacterial lathering cleanser
use in the shower daily
5) clean & clear deep action cream cleanser
use once daily

XO KALIE

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14/f...I like one of my best guy friends named Will but he doesn't know it. He is really close with my best friend Kate. They knew each other like a whole year before I met him so that's why. Whenever she's not around me and Will he talks to ME nonstop. But when she's around, I can NEVER get him to even talk to me. I feel left out and I always think "how am I supposed to get him to like me if he's always busy talking to her?" I have no idea what to do and I am so confused. Winter formal(dance) is coming up and I want him to ask me. But how do I get noticed? (and if you say flirting...can you please be specific)Thanks.I RATE HIGH!
ps. merry x-mas to everyone

merry christmas to you too! hes probably talks to her more because he knows her more... him know you too. there's just a stronger bond between them two because they have a longer friendship. if you want to talk to him then call him and talk to him on your own time... if hes acting like he likes you then ask himto the dance. hope i helped!

XO KALIE

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When I first came to my school last year I had a crush on this guy who is three years older than me. He was also giving me nice looks and smiles from across the room, so I thought he liked me too. He then told my brother that he liked me a few months later (after the flirting), but then I was over him and didn't care much anymore. Now, a year later, I have been talking to him on the phone about this girl he's having problems with because she won't go out with him. He seems A LOT more mature when we talk alone then with other people. We talked on the phone for hours the other night, not just about his girl problems but also his family and other serious things. He really makes me laugh and I have a good time with him when we talk. I'm not sure if he's liking me back or anything because he's into a girl that's older then him and who is SOO much prettier than I am. Any advice on what I should do?

i think the other girl being older then him and you being younger then him makes a difference in his mind. most guys like that are just wanting someone to talk to like a little sister; however, there is a possibility that he likes you again/still. your brother told the first time so have him as the guy what he thinks about you.

XO KALIE

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13/f and well i have just recently gotten my first period, but its been a week and 3 days already and i still have it !! its light right now but is it suppossed to be like this considering its weird the first time or is there something wrong with me ??

xoo ♥

its always weird. its still weird for me and ive had mine for 3 years! all you have to do is be prepared! no worries!

XO KALIE

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okay well i guess ill have to tell the past first but this summer i met this really great guy like perfect n we started talking n everything but school started up so we kind of stopped cause we didnt get to see each other much since we dont go to the same school. but then oct we saw each other again n like he called n texted me later that nite sayin he misses me so we tried again n still didnt work n i just cant stop likeing him n we still like talk regulary now n all.. but i dont know theres this gurl that im really not sure if she likes him or is just a close friend but like says love uu on his myspace thing n i dont want to be noise n be like does she like you cause i mean we arent \"talkin\" right now but i just really want to know n dont know how to ask n we might be gettin back n feb we both get our license n all.. i mean i know i seem jealous but im not i just want to know cause its hard not bein able to be with the person who you really like you know? i dont wanna share.. but i hope you could help?

thanks

yeahh i think its a little jelousy going on. just comment him and be like whats up with you and ____? any relationship between you too? just bring it up in a convo. hope i helped!

XO KALIE

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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks

normal.. you had to find out sometime!

XO KALIE

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i made out with a boy when i was younger and i really regret it. i try to keep it a secret and told the boy that i wanted to keep it low. the boy didn't respect my opinion and said that he had already told his friends and some of mine. how do i try to keep this from getting furthur. his parents and my parents are close friends and i come over his house sometimes. everytime i come all he wants to do is makeout and keep my younger sister from knowing.sometimes its hard to say no to him. i need help on what to do.!!!!

make-out with him... if hes that irrisistale then do it! its just that fun now isnt it! and whats so bad about this boy that no one can know that you made out with him?? if hes already told people then its obviously not a secret anymore; so if people know that you did it already then why do you have to stop. and if your parents find out... i dunno about that it depends on what kinda parents they are. just tell him not to tell his family because you dont want yours to know. sorry if you dont like my advice but thats what i would do..

XO KALIE

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I once had this body spray that smelled like flowers. It was called "flower power" by the Smiley Calgon collection. They discontinued it and now Im left trying to find a new perfume/body spray. If anyone could tell me of a flowery scent they know of that'd be great. I rate.

escada rockin rio
its fabulous!

XO KALIE

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13/m. I have a sister who is 14. Where we live, stuff happens slowly. It's not like in NYC where everyone loses their virginity at, like 13. My sister finally got her first boyfriend. I'm not too worried about that. But, they're taking everything too fast: one week, they're dating. Another week, they're holding hands. This may not seem like much to you, but where I live it is. And now yesterday---they've been together 2 months, tops---they both had their first kiss.

I've been trying to get more info, but she's really private about this. I asked her if it was just a peck or if she made out, and she said that it was about 5 seconds. Is that long for a first kiss? And I asked her when, and she showed me a ring that she got from him. Unfortunately, I suck at taking hints, so I still don't get it.

She doesn't want to tell anyone about anything that happens. My other sister and my parents are still completely unaware that they've done so much as hold hands, and she doubts she'll tell them about kissing any time soon.

So, I was just wondering, is this too fast, am I worrying too much, will she be turning into a sex-obsessed slut any time soon, and how can I get her to communicate more? "Why do you need to know?" she asks. Well, I intend on getting a girlfriend this year, and I'm gonna have to learn somehow, right? No smartass answers. Thanks! =)

its your sisters business on what she does with boys. i dont tell my little sister what i do with my boyfriend. then again my sister is 5 1/2 years younger then me... but anyways... shes probably just excited about having her first boyfriend and wants to be a typical 14 year old girl in a relationship. holding hands and kissing at 14 is totally normal too. shes not telling you whats going on between her and this guy and a first kiss is only right when its 'the right time' so for her, the right time has already come. its different for everyone so you shouldnt compare your sisters relationship to your future ones. as of her saying "why do you want to know" , i understand that you are concerned but think of it as the other way around... would you want her asking you who youve been making out with?? and you asked is 5 seconds long??? maybe where you live it is, but not down here is st.louie thats for sure! so ask people who live around you! i hope i helped!

XO KALIE

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okay so i met this guy like dec. 20th @ a bball game. and we exchanged numbers. :] he called me like wed. night and we talked for like 2 hours. [ i think i like him] he said he would call me the next day after his game. he never did, i tried to call him but he didn't pick up. and i did the next day & his phone was off. idk what to think. if it means anything.. do you think he will ever call me?
thanks x0ox ♥

i think that hes just a busy guy. i mean with christmas and all i think hes just busy with his family. im sure hell call you soon. and if he doesnt then call him a couple times and leave messages to call you back. but maybe like one a day; not repetitive. thats kinda clingy and obsessive... good luck!

XO KALIE

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First i wanna say im only 16 but as you may think im moving to fast and i shouldnt be worried so much about guys i grew up really fast and i have been through a lot so im very mature and i know what i want. So please dont tell me to just walk away because of my age thanks. Well i have been with my boyfriend since january 16th of 2005 so almost 1 yr. He is my first love and i do want to stay with him. He is 18 when i got with him he had got out of a 2 1/2 yr relationship which the girl was bad to him and he had a son with her she was only 16 and there baby was 4 months when i first met him. I am very close with his son he even calls me mom. I dont tell him to say that though. My boyfriends family all loves me and my family likes him alot to. At first things were to good to be true but then one day his cousin who is 16 tried doing sexuall things with me when we were at his house and my boyfriend had left to the store. I told his cousin to stop and he did but after wards i didnt know if i shoudl hide it or tell? Well i let a day go by but then the next day it all came out but not from me it came from someone else in the house who was there and i told but i never thought they would tell. His cousin said nothing happened and i told the truth but my boyfriend just kept crying and was so hurt so we broke up and i felt so bad even though i didnt do anything. After that i tried to be really nice and show him i care and we continued to stay friend and we talked everyday and we still were sexually active but we werent together. Well we were both kinda mean to each other because i wanted to be together and he said he didnt. I didnt understand why. Well he then started to go out every weekend and he would call me in the middle of the night. He treated me like i didnt matter. He would say he didnt know me to his friends but then he would take me around his family i was so confused? Still his babys mother had no idea about me and she was always begging to be with him and she was really mean to him to but i couldnt say or do anything because i didnt want him to be away from his son and i wanted to see him to so i said it didnt matter that she didnt know but really it hurt me. Well a little after july we got back together and things got better thank god and we became more nice and close and he stopped going out so much. But still the babys mother didnt know and i hated it so i kept telling him and he got mad well someone told her and it all came out she was mad because i was around her son and because she probley wanted to still be with him but when all this happened i found out he was slepping with her back in may which hurt me bad. He admited it to me and he did it 2 times but she had no idea about me. She then talked to me and things got better we got along but then she would see how close her son was to me and she didnt like it so now she is keeping the baby away from us and his family. My boyfriend sometimes brings up what happened with his cousin to throw it in my face. He dosent know how to ask for things nice or to let things go. He always wants to make me feel bad and make me think i didnt everything but i know i didnt. I try to tell him i love him and i want to get along so where should i start i dont know what to do because sometimes i want to give up and leave him but i dont want to leave his son and family and i love my boyfriend so much. I see him alot but when i do we fight mostly so it dosent make it fun. Thank you i hope you can give me some advice!

wow that was really long! okay well he seems like the kind of guy who has made mistakes in his life but knows that he has to deal with the consequenses. you seem like the kind of couple that fights about everything but works it out because you love eachother. you just have different opinions thats all. opposites attract right?!?!?! i think that if you guys have come this far it would be a nightmare to throw it all away. i say for the time being do whatever it takes to be with that guy!

XO KALIE

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i have this grandma SHE is a total neat freak and sometimes just plain wierd she will not let me watch pg13 movies even though im 15 so when my mom buys me one we have to keep it a secret. when im with her all day i juat cant wait to get away . i still love her though. and after christmas me my mo and her are going to tenneessee for 10 and when my mom drives she pretends there is a fack brake petal and pushes her foot down. now tell me how will i stand her for 10 days straight? i RATE HIGH!!!!!!!!!!!

i know you think you gma's annoying! i did too. shes a grandma, she wont be around as long as you think. take advantage of the time you have together. you never really know what you have until its gone. listen to me... because i didnt listen to my dad and now i totally regret it. and its only 10 days. have fun and make memories. those 10 days probably mean the world to her; just to be with you.

XO KALIE

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Hello there. Too get straight to the point im very confused about who i am, and who i want too be, all my life ive been into rock and that sorta..thing, well sometimes ill feel like i want to be very girly and i bought a bunch of pink stuff but then i listen to my music and i think what im doing? and i go back..i dont know what to do, is there something wrong with me?

what you wear and what you listen to is part of your idividuality. be yourself. rock and pink totally go! they are like the 2 best things in the world! lol! you dont have to be girlie all the time... go comfy too! okie dokie!

XO KALIE

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I've been a tomboy pretty much my whole life. But I'm really starting to become more girlie. I do my hair, make up, I enjoy shopping now, and I even got a boyfriend. But I need some tips.
- What does j`adore me? [ lol ]
- What styles are in? [ Hair, clothes, etc ]
- How do I flirt?
- Tips on make up?
- Places to buy clothes?

Thanks so much x3

-- the whole 'vintage' look
-- hollister
-- abercrombie
-- american eagle
-- sequence and glitter
-- faded/ripped jeans
-- black or brown eyeliner depending on skin tone and hair color

XO KALIE

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I haven't eaten a real meal in 4 days. [small snacking occasionaly] I just haven't been hungry, I've been so busy with friends I really haven't even thought about food much. And to be honest I like not eating, I've thought about being anorexic for a week or two to lose a few pounds cause nothing ever happenes when I diet or exercise.

The thought of eating makes me feel sick, is this anorexia? Or is this just .. weird. lol thanks guyss xo.

okay well not eating is not good but atleast youre snacking a little. im not sure if its anorexia or not but i think its just the holidays, honestly i do. its a busy time of year and its just one of those things that you dont have time to think about doing. talk to a doctor if you really want to know if youre anorexic.

XO KALIE

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i am 15 years old and i have never had a boyfriend or kissed any guys. all my friends have and they have gone all the way with guys and i havent even kissed one. is this not normal? i am actually pretty and guys like me but thats as far as it gets. i hear guys like me and then i dont know what to do. so is this normal??

perfectly normal. actually there are more girls like you then you really think. girls your age arent all going all the way; theyre just the ones that you hear about. if youre happy with things now then everything is okay! and you dont need a kiss to make you feel better about being normal!

XO KALIE

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I hurt my back two days ago, not by any sudden movement. I was just sitting there, and my spine flipped out. Yes, it hurt very baddly. Question is, how long should I wait until I begin weight lifting again? The weights are not much; no more than 10 pounds. Heck, less than 5 pounds, to be honest. It doesn't really hurt anymore, but I think I can tell that it's not back to normal. Should I still give it a few days, or would some stretching assist in the healing process?

put ice on it. wait about 5 more days before you start lifting again. just not alot. 5 pounds is good! and yes stretching will help.

XO KALIE

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i am a freshman in high school and in the marching band. at the beginning of the school year i heard that this senior thought i was hot. about a week later he came up and talked to me, he said it was blown out of porportion but that he did think that i was pretty and that he wanted to get to know me. i never responded. but now i have a huge crush on him and i am scared to go up and ask him if he is still interested in getting to know me. i see him every day because we have band practice everyday after school. i just dont want to get involved with him and then he leaves for college. should i talk to him if so what should i say??

i think because of the graduating age difference i think yeahh you should get to know him but as good friends. like occationally having a date or whatever but not a relationship type of thing. talk to him at band and get his digits! or get them from a friend of his. i hope i helped.

XO KALIE

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15/f
i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.

5 for anything.

i dont think thats pathetic. everyone has their time when they start dating and its different for everyone. plus boys at this age can be hard to find one who actually acts his age! lol!

XO KALIE

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